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I’m 38 years old and I got married when I was 25. I’ve always been a decent human and an introvert. My social life is nothing to write home about but God blessed me with good and hot brains
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“I’m 38 years old and I got married when I was 25. I’ve always been a decent human and an introvert. My social life is nothing to write home about but God blessed me with good and hot brains.
I studied accounting and graduated at 21 and I was the overall best graduating student in my school then and I got an automatic employment offer from so many reputable companies on the day of my graduation.
I went through them thoroughly and made a perfect choice. I relocated to Lagos, resumed work and everything was flowing effortlessly until my parents started pressurizing me about marriage.
I was clueless on who to marry because I’ve never been in a relationship, infact I was a virgin. I didn’t even have female friends that could match me with their brothers or anyone.
It’s not like I wasn’t getting advances from men, as a very beautiful yellow lady, I was definitely getting advances but I just didn’t know how to start. Infact, I didn’t pay attention to them at all
I finally decided to give a man a chance and just in few months he was already talking of marriage. I told my parents and they supported the marriage proposal.
We got married and at first our marriage was blissful until I found out he was a chronic woma.ni.zer even as a pastor. We fought about it severally and I gave up the fight. I’m a quiet and peaceful person and it’s not in my nature to enjoy stress.
Children weren’t forth coming as well, my husband lost his job and refused to even look for another. It was just as though he was doing his best to frustrate me but I chose to ignore him.
I was earning well from my job and in less than three years, I was able to buy 2 plots of land in Lagos and built a 5 apartment bungalow. I furnished the house and we moved into our own house.
The next year, I got a double promotion and was able to buy a car for us. After 8 years of childlessness, I started developing fibroid and went for surgery. The surgery was successful and I became more intense in my quest for a child.
My husband seemed very less concerned about it, I began to suspect him having children elsewhere but since there was no proof, I kept mute. All these years I’ve been spending money in different high profile hospital seeking for solution to my problem, he never agrees to go to hospital with me.
My condition started eating me up, there was nothing I could place my finger on as the reason for my condition. I got married as a virgin and I’ve not even had a single miscarriage. All my tests keeps showing I’m very okay medically.
I decided to try IVF and my husband agreed to it. He submitted his semen the first time and we did the 1st IVF and it failed. We tried the second time after a year and it also failed.
It was after the second failed IVF that the doctor told me that my husband might be the cause of our problem and should come over for checkups. I was already suspicious of that because the way he shuns me anytime I mention him coming with me for tests, you would think I threatened his life.
This continued until last year, I realized I wasn’t getting any younger and loneliness was beginning to set in. I decided to opt for adoption and I informed my husband about it. I just needed him to be aware, not for permission because it was crystal clear that I married my enemy.
He doesn’t contribute a dime in the house even when he still had his job. He would rather spend it on his girlfriends because he feels I earn more than him. He is a pastor yet we never pray together, he isn’t faithful, he isn’t truthful, he abuses me at every chance he gets.
I adopted a week old sweet baby girl on the 9th of January 2023 and she has become my companion, friend and all. I now wish I took this decision earlier, I would have had up to 3 children by now.
I recently found out that my husband is impotent when I overheard him making a call in our balcony very early in the morning. Seems one of his girlfriends was trying to pin a pregnancy on him and he told her outrightly that it’s “medically impossible”.
I decided to just ignore him even though I’m so angry and pained that he made me go through 12 years of childlessness and painful medical sessions plus the stigma, trauma, abuse and all when he clearly knew the problem was from him.
He still has the audacity to be so annoyed that I didn’t adopt a boy but I’ve zeroed my mind not to care anymore. I just want to be able to stay alive and take care of my daughter, give her the best life and create golden memories with her.”
Viral Gist
The Controversy Surrounding Prophet Jeremiah Omotosho and Very Dark Man
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In recent weeks, Prophet Jeremiah Omotosho, a notable figure in the Nigerian religious community, has become the center of a heated controversy. This drama unfolds as “Very Dark Man” challenges the authenticity of Prophet Omotosho’s spiritual products, leading to a legal dispute that has caught the attention of many.
Prophet Omotosho is renowned for offering spiritual guidance and selling items claimed to possess miraculous properties, including soap, water, and LED bulbs. These products are marketed as having the power to heal and bring wealth, with prices sometimes exceeding $1500.
The controversy began when “Very Dark Man” questioned the legitimacy of these claims. He demanded proof of the NAFDAC (National Agency for Food and Drug Administration and Control) number associated with the soap and called for transparency about the spiritual materials used. In response, Prophet Omotosho has filed a lawsuit against “Very Dark Man,” alleging defamation and demanding an investigation.
The case has ignited a broader debate about the ethics of monetizing spiritual services. Here are some key concerns of the public:
- Exploitation of Faith: Critics argue that selling spiritual items at such high prices exploits individuals’ faith and desperation. The hefty price tags on these items raise ethical questions about the intentions behind their sale.
- Lack of Transparency: The absence of clear information regarding the ingredients and spiritual efficacy of these products has fueled skepticism. People are demanding more transparency about what exactly is being sold and whether these products genuinely deliver on their promises.
- Reputation of the Church: The scandal surrounding Prophet Omotosho has broader implications for the Christian community. When high-profile religious leaders become embroiled in controversies, it can erode public trust in the church and its leaders.
The ongoing lawsuit highlights the contentious nature of this issue. The outcome of this legal battle could set a precedent for how similar cases are handled in the future and might influence the practices of other religious leaders.
The situation with Prophet Jeremiah Omotosho serves as a crucial reminder of the complex dynamics at play when faith and commerce intersect. As legal proceedings continue, it is essential for both religious leaders and followers to consider the ethical implications of selling spiritual services and to advocate for greater transparency and integrity within the faith community, else the Christian community would be jeopardized by fake prophets and extortion of the general public.
source: https://www.churchpost.name.ng/2024/08/the-controversy-surrounding-prophet.html
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My mom was everything to me. Unfortunately, after we lost my dad, my mom fell into deep depression, and her mental illness has since taken her to another level
My Journey with My Mentally Ill Mother
My mom was everything to me. Unfortunately, after we lost my dad, my mom fell into deep depression, and her mental illness has since taken her to another level. But despite everything, I have never forgotten my mom or the sacrifices she made for me. It’s because of her, and by God’s grace, that I am here today. Every day, I bring her food, clean up her bed, and take care of her, even though it breaks my heart to see her this way.
It hurts deeply when people refer to me as “that daughter of a mad woman.” But I will never deny my mom. Most people who come close to me often distance themselves once they realize that I’m the daughter of a well-known mentally ill woman in the market. They mock me because of my mom’s condition, but I stand firm in my love and respect for her.
Mommy, I love you. You remain my mom, and nothing will ever change that. You gave birth to me, and I’m here to stay by your side. I will always love you, and I promise that I’ll never abandon you, Mama.
Sometimes, I can’t help but envy my friends whose moms are all okay, and I wish everything were fine with you, Mommy. But despite everything, you are still my mother, and my love for you will never fade.
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Look at me now—a child abandoned by her own mother when she was just 7 months old. My story is one of pain, survival, and ultimately, triumph
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I was raised by my grandmother, but at age 7, I lost her too. My father took me in, and I was overjoyed at the thought of finally living with him. Little did I know, it was the beginning of a long, dark chapter in my life. My stepmother was cruel, subjecting me to all kinds of maltreatment. There were times I went hungry for days, starved to the point where I would see darkness in broad daylight. Once, in desperation, I ate our dog’s leftover food, only to be caught by the neighbor’s son. His mother later called me over and asked if it was true. Terrified, I begged her not to tell my stepmother, knowing she would punish me severely for not throwing the food away.
That kind woman wept for me and promised to give me food every day in secret. She kept that promise until we moved away. But as if starving me wasn’t enough, my stepmother also resorted to brutal beatings. She would flog me mercilessly until I fainted at times. She would apply pepper to my private parts, eyes, armpits, and neck, tie me up, and abandon me in one of the toilets for hours without food. When I begged for water, she would cruelly tell me to drink my own excrement and urine. I shed tears whenever I remember these things—I was living in hell on earth.
Despite all these horrors, I was bright academically and loved by God and many kind people. I knew that the only way to escape this suffering was through education, so I never joked with my studies. I was determined to succeed, and I did.
So you see, I have every right to be hateful, bitter, jealous, arrogant, sad, negative, and toxic—but I chose not to be. For years, my stepmother has been trying to reach me. But if I’m honest, I don’t know if I’m ready for her. And as for my mother, who chose to leave me—her own daughter, her firstborn—just because she had issues with my father, wherever you are, Momma, I want you to know this: The daughter you abandoned 29 years ago has finally achieved her dreams, even without the love of a father or mother. She is now a great woman in society.
This version emphasizes your strength and resilience while maintaining the emotional depth of your story. It highlights your achievements and the choices you’ve made despite the challenges you faced.