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I lost Some Of My Nigerian Civic Rights Immediately I stepped My feet At NYSC Orientation Camp – Bro Chiedozie Ubani
Immediately i stepped my feet in my NYSC Orientation camp, i observed that i lost some of my civic rights. I can’t wear any other clothes apart from the one recommended by the camp, i can’t leave the environment until 21 days elapses. You will only eat during meal time if you miss out you wait for the next meal.
I asked myself why did i enter this camp at the first place? But i observed that all these were for a purpose.
I asked myself again why are soldiers our trainers? I found out that they want to inculcate in us the mindset of a soldier. You know we learn mostly by observing. I began to observe the Soldiers in the camp. I found out that on the day we were sworn in as corps members, having passed through strenuous exercises, parades and drills, a welcome party was thrown were everyone was allowed to dance.
I observed virtually all the corps members and camp directors danced, but none of the soldiers danced. It popped some questions in my heart. Are they not human beings? Yes they are. Don’t they have flesh. They have. Honestly i developed interest on them.
I concluded that that soldiers don’t entangle themselves with civilian affairs. They focus on their Duty and Mission. A soldier’s primary responsibility is to serve their country by fulfilling military duties, which often requires complete focus on missions, training, and readiness. Involving themselves in civilian matters could distract them from their military obligations.
A soldier functions under a strict hierarchy and code of conduct. Soldiers are expected to remain disciplined and professional, which includes refraining from political or civilian involvement that could interfere with their duties or create conflicts of interest..
Soldiers need to be ready to deploy or respond to national emergencies at any time. If they are tied up in civilian matters, it may hinder their ability to fulfill their military commitments swiftly and effectively.
Now i want to speak to you as a child of God that you are a soldier of Christ. You are not meant to entangle yourself with civilian affairs which include every form of distraction in obeying the command of your commanding officer (Jesus Christ.) The church is called the Saint Militant. We are to earnestly contend for the faith which was handed over to us by our fathers. Defend the gospel and proclaim the gospel to the world.
There should be a clear distinction between a soldier and a civilian. My question to you as a believer is, ARE YOU A SOLDIER? If you are, let your lifestyle show it.
Bro Chiedozie Ubani
In life, we all dream of finding love and stability, especially when the years start adding up and uncertainty sets in. This is my story, and I’m sharing it to expose the truth about a man who promised me everything, then left me and his children to fend for ourselves.
I met Franklin four years ago. At the time, he was married but told me his marriage had been unhappy for years. He complained that his wife wasn’t satisfying him in bed and, worse still, hadn’t given him a son – all his four children were daughters. He admitted feeling “less of a man” without a male child, and this became his main reason for wanting out of his marriage.
He told me he’d divorce his wife and marry me, but there was a condition: I had to first get pregnant and give him a son. Only then would he approach my parents to fulfill the traditional marriage rites before our wedding.
I was 30, engaged to someone else, a man I genuinely loved. But my fiancé was struggling to make ends meet, barely surviving on his small retail business. Franklin, on the other hand, was already successful. He convinced me that he would be the husband I’d been waiting for. I was hesitant, but at my age, finding a stable partner felt urgent. Besides, my family had a strong line of sons; I felt confident I could give him the boy he longed for.
A month later, I was pregnant. But God’s plan was different. I gave birth to a beautiful daughter. Franklin reassured me we could try again, and so we did. But six months into the second pregnancy, he insisted on a scan, despite my reluctance. The results came back – it was another girl. From that moment, he changed completely.
Since then, Franklin has barely looked back. He doesn’t visit or even call to check on his own children. It’s been six months since our second daughter’s birth, and he hasn’t shown up even once. I look back on who I was when he met me – vibrant, hopeful, ready to love. Now, he’s left me exhausted, broken, and caring for two children without his support.
Franklin, when you came to me, you knew you had a wife. But you chose to deceive me, convinced me to leave my fiancé, and made me believe in a future with you. And now, after using me and abandoning our children, you expect to walk away without consequences.
Franklin, God will fight for me. You may think you can escape, but I believe that justice will prevail. Mark my words.
As the holiday season approaches, many of us look forward to celebrations, gatherings, and creating new memories. But for ladies especially, it’s also a time to be extra cautious, as this festive period often sees an increase in blackmail tactics. While it might seem unlikely, social events and more online interactions can make us vulnerable to people who don’t have the best intentions. Here’s how to protect yourself from falling into such situations and keep your holiday season free from worry.
In a world where sharing photos and videos is second nature, it’s important to pause and think before capturing or sending anything too personal. Remember, even a trusted friend or partner may inadvertently or otherwise misuse these images, potentially leaving you exposed to blackmail. To avoid this risk, focus on capturing joyful moments in safe, public settings, and avoid sending sensitive photos, even to people you trust.
Social media can also become a risky platform if not used carefully, so start by adjusting your privacy settings. Make sure you control who can see your posts, stories, and personal moments. Oversharing, especially about your location, plans, or social circles, can put you at risk. Limiting who has access to this information helps prevent strangers from obtaining details that could be used to manipulate or threaten you.
During the holidays, it’s common to receive more messages and friend requests from people you may not know well. However, avoid letting your guard down. Blackmailers often try to build trust through casual conversations before they reveal their true intentions. If someone new begins asking personal or intrusive questions, don’t hesitate to cut off communication by blocking or reporting them. Trust your instincts; if a conversation feels uncomfortable, it’s better to be safe.
If you ever find yourself in a situation that feels concerning, remember that keeping it secret only benefits the blackmailer. Reach out to someone you trust—a friend, family member, or mentor—and let them know what’s happening. This can help break the hold that blackmailers often rely on, which is the belief that you have no support. By talking about it, you build a network of people who can help you navigate the situation and support you if anything escalates.
Ultimately, staying safe is about staying alert and using simple steps to protect yourself and your privacy. This holiday season, make sure you enjoy the celebrations without letting your guard down. These precautions can help you make this December a time of joy and peace, not worry and stress. Stay safe, stay mindful, and have a wonderful, worry-free holiday season.
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I Risked My Life for Him, and He Left Me for Another Woman, Victor is a very wicked man and i will keep cursing him
I met Victor when I was in my early twenties, just a young woman trying to find my place in the world. He was older, successful, charming, and at first, he seemed like everything I had been looking for. He had this air of confidence about him, a certain power and control that drew me in. I remember the first time we spoke, it felt like he saw something in me that no one else did. He was different — or so I thought.
At the time, I was working a regular job, just trying to make ends meet. Victor, on the other hand, had money. A lot of it. And I couldn’t help but feel that he would take me away from my struggles, give me the life I dreamed of. And that’s how it started — with promises, sweet words, and moments of tenderness.
But as our relationship grew, things started to change. Victor became more controlling, more demanding. He wanted me all to himself, and I allowed it because I believed in him, I believed in us. He was everything to me. Over time, I became so wrapped up in him that I stopped thinking about my own needs and dreams. It was all about pleasing him, making him happy. I thought, If I give him my all, he’ll give me the same in return.
We started talking about marriage. He told me I was the one, that I would be the mother of his children, that I was everything he wanted. I felt like the luckiest woman alive. But soon, our relationship became complicated.
Victor had a temper. When things didn’t go his way, he became cruel, dismissive. He would tell me I wasn’t good enough or that I wasn’t trying hard enough to keep him happy. Despite these red flags, I told myself it was just a phase. I thought, If I just tried harder, I could make him happy. But what happened next was something I could never have anticipated.
I found myself pregnant — not once, but three times. And every single time, Victor pressured me into getting an abortion. He said we weren’t ready for kids, that it would ruin our future, that it wasn’t the right time. I didn’t want to, but I did it. For him. I sacrificed my body, my health, my future, because I thought I was helping him. I believed that once the time was right, things would be better.
After the third abortion, I felt broken. Physically, emotionally, mentally. But I pushed through because I thought it would be worth it in the end. I thought that if I just gave him everything — my love, my loyalty, my body — that eventually, he would see how much I had sacrificed for him. I believed that he would be there for me, that he would appreciate everything I had done for him.
But I was wrong.
Not long after, I started to notice a change in Victor. He became distant, cold. He stopped calling as often. His excuses for not spending time with me became more frequent, and eventually, I found out the truth — he was seeing someone else. He had fallen in love with another woman, and he had been planning to leave me for her.
When I confronted him, he didn’t deny it. He didn’t even apologize. He told me that he had “moved on” and that he couldn’t be with me anymore. He said he needed someone “more exciting,” someone “who understood him better.” I couldn’t believe it. After everything I had done for him — all the sacrifices, all the pain — he was throwing it all away for someone else.
The betrayal was devastating. I had given him everything. I had given him my love, my trust, and even my body. And he walked away without a second thought. He chose her over me.
I was left alone, heartbroken, with nothing but the memories of all the things I had done for him. The three abortions, the years of loyalty, the countless nights I spent thinking of him — all for nothing. I had risked my life and my future for a man who never truly cared about me.
Victor married the other woman, and to this day, I still don’t know if I’ll ever heal from the betrayal. It hurts to think that someone I loved so deeply could throw me away so easily. But I’ve learned that no matter how much you give, no matter how much you sacrifice, you can never force someone to love you. You can never make them appreciate you
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