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12 MYTHS ABOUT MARRIAGE



1. THE HUSBAND WILL LEAD IN EVERYTHING
This myth has led many wives to take a back sit expecting the husband to initiate everything. The truth is, a husband has limits and both the husband and the wife bring to the marriage unique strengths and abilities. If there are areas where the wife is good at and she enjoys doing, she can initiate a conversation about that, they discuss and agree on how to go about it. Husbands, when your wife takes initiative in an area in your marriage, don’t take a back seat. Support her, appreciate her. Being the head doesn’t mean you will think of everything or identify every area of growth; but that you provide the right environment where your joint vision can be executed

2. YOUR SPOUSE’S LOVE LANGUAGE IS FIXED
The five languages are physical touch, acts of service, words of affirmation, quality time and gifts. Because humans are not fixed beings, also their love language is not fixed. You might find that when you met each other, your wife loved receiving gifts but as she grew older, she hungered more for quality time. You might find that when your husband was busy working, he wanted more of acts of service such as you making him coffee when he is rushing to beat deadlines but as he approaches retirement he thirsts more after words of affirmation to remind him all his work through the years was worth it. Learn to study your spouse and package your love based on the season you two are in

3. THE WIFE IS TO TOLERATE
In Kiswahili this myth says “Mwanamke ni kuvumilia”, said to encourage women to put up with the unacceptable in marriage. Husbands, it should hurt you when the wife you pursued for yourself is suffering in a union you initiated and a family called by your name. It should make you feel bad that the life partner in the team you are leading is not happy. Take pride in your home to the point you desire that your wife and children enjoy the love that you started

4. IF YOU LOVE EACH OTHER YOU TWO WILL NE