Most Men, especially African men, do feel they are doing women favour when they marry them as single mothers, but it’s a paradox and a social myth that must be educated.
90% of single mothers are also good wives in the marriage market .

Firstly, why do women become single mothers?
Some are DELIBERATE, some are TRAGEDIES (widows) while some are MISTAKES. So if you happen to like a single mother, investigate her motive before you configure the drivers of your feelings.

If it was a MISTAKE OF TRAGEDY, trust me she can be the best WIFE you can ever think of.

1. Single mothers that made mistakes do bring total SUBMISSION to the table of marriage once they know that the man is honest and sincere, because they will see marriage as a classroom where they must correct the mistakes they made in the past.

2. If you want to WIN her, love her child first, and you will see that she will LOVE you with her last breath and blood.

3. Don’t forget that as a woman that has put to BED before, there’s 85% assurance that she will conceive without toiling from one prayer house to the other to conceive; the baby is evidence of her fruitfulness.

4. Single Mums treat their husbands as LORDS for the sacrifices they make, and easily forgive them no matter the gravity of what they err.

5. If you marry her, do not discriminate the child in your children’s budget, see them as equals so you don’t sprout the seed of jealousy.

6. If she is a single mum as a widow you may not have problem but if the child’s father is alive, both of you should have an agreement from the beginning on welfare and information management. Don’t deny the father access to his child but put a password before he can have access to your wife; it implies the gateway should be defined while you monitor the parameters; trust me, the child will grow up to love you as the man that made his/her mother happy more than the biological father.

My first wife was actually chosen by my mom. Before that, I had introduced several women to her, but she rejected all of them. She said they were missing something. To make my mom happy, I married the woman she chose. But a year later, my wife was unable to get pregnant for me. My mom demanded that i leave her because she was barren, and I did.

Then, mom again introduced me to her best friend’s youngest daughter. She actually thought she was very fertile bcuz all her siblings had children. Plus, marrying her would strengthen my mom’s friendship with her mom. We married, but two years later, she still wasn’t pregnant. My mom told me to take another wife. I told my wife about my plans, but she chose to divorce me instead, saying she was tired of everything. Since then, I’ve brought home many women for marriage, but my mom won’t let me marry any of them. She finds fault in each one.

Pls note that, My mom is actually a very good woman and a devoted Christian. She goes to church every Sunday & also a church elder. She raised me alone after my dad died when I was just 3. She is the reason I’m successful today & I really do not want to disobey or hurt her feelings. I’m her only child. I love her very much & I believe that she wants the best for me.

But also, I really want to get married too. Please advise me on how to handle this situation.”

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(A rëp0st from this page)

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This man was caught attempting to take his girlfriend’s exams in the university. He loved his girlfriend so much & didn’t want her to fail in a course he is very good at.

So, in an attempt to help his girlfriend pass the course, he prepared for that day, plaited his hair, dressed & disguised himself like a female & sat for the exams. But unfortunately for him, one of the lecturers noticed that his chest was too flat for a woman & approached him, touched his chest & felt that it was too bony.

The police was alerted & he got caught. But the most unfortunate thing is that while he was in jail serving a jail term for the crime, the lady never visited him not even for once. But instead, she got married to the love of her life just 6 months later after the incident.

Love is such a beautiful thing, This man is a hero, he has proven his love. How many men can take such risk for their woman?