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HOW MUM TURNED ME INTO DOG FOR SURVIVAL

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This is the woman who raised me. The age difference with my late father is about 30 years, that means dad married a very young girl. When my father was blind and very old, my mother was way younger. She always wanted to do some farming business for survival but she was incapacitated by her very old blind husband who needed her close care.

Being the last born Son, I was too close and had a privilege to ask her too many questions, including the foolish ones. So one day I said to her:

“why can’t we just go farming in deep rural where there is free land?” She looked at me and said; “believe me at this age no one is attracted to your father, not even me because he is now a burden but if I leave him in such a weak state, he may die earlier than his appointed time. I have a responsibility to ensure that he dies as a happy man otherwise, if his spirit won’t rest in peace, then you are all doomed.”

In many cases mum used to go around the village to pick some used charcoal from rich people’s compounds and she reused the same for cooking. I remember when there was no mealie meal she went at the nearby hummer meal workshop (Chigayo) to gather some dropped mealie meal which had been trumped upon and that night we ate the darkest Nsima I have never seen.

When asked by those who watched her, she always told them: “I keep chickens and dogs at home, I am going to prepare food for them,” she gave this answer to safeguard the little dignity for the CHIZUs but deep down my hopeless heart I knew that every time she said these words, I was one of those dogs and chickens she referred to.

At all costs my mother refused to turn into a beggar. Not from our richer members of the family and surely not even from the street well wishers.

Today the LORD showed me a scripture which made sense to me for this particular scenario:

Ecclesiastes 9:4 “Anyone who is among the living has hope —even a live dog is better off than a dead lion!” Unfwa! You may be no body today, living a life of dogs and those who live a life of Lions may even be laughing at you but as long as you are alive, there is surely hope that things will be better.

I grew up without anything to make me smile, but I pushed my space into a fair stability and I have made a covenant with this woman: No matter how little I get, an assigned potion of my salary will always be going into her account until the day she dies.

If you are my daughter or son in the LORD; you bring Tithes and unbroken offerings to me or Church but nothing goes to your parents, especially your mother, to hell with your cursed money. I refuse to be part of your misery; you can as well keep your tithes and offerings.

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They said mother in-laws cannot live  peacefully with their daughter in-laws,well mine proved them wrong -Nigerian Woman Angel Sonia Nnoyerem Praise her Mother In-law, called Her Bestie Of Life

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In this life in whatever you are doing try to be good so that people will always talk about you and recommend you for good. The Nigerian woman has taken to her Facebook page to celebrate and praise her mother-in-law for being a mother-in-law to her. According to her post as shown below

“They said mother in-laws cannot live  peacefully with their daughter in-laws,well mine proved them wrong.

My MIL is one woman I know who doesn’t discriminate,she has loved us all equally over the years,she has shown me love just like my mother would.

She’s been my biggest supporter and inspiration,my retired but not tired colleague.

Sometimes when her son will not want to heed to some advice,I will just call her and tell her,trust me when I say she knows exactly what to do.

Our relationship is more like bestie relationship,hot gists and gossip here and there.

I know how safe my secrets are with you.

Mummy,thank you for always being there for me,thank you for giving me a shoulder to lean on,thank you for always walking with me in spirit. Thank you for being a loving,supportive and understanding woman.

On this day,I wish you nothing but good health as you age gracefully,you shall live to join me to shout Hallelujah when our joy is complete.

I love you Mummy.

Happy birthday MINE
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Happy birthday Mummy Choice
Happy birthday Nana” she wrote.

This left next days with so many emotional reactions and wishing her a happy birthday for being a good mother-in-law

Facebook! Angel Sonia Nnoyerem
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This is my 1year in marriage, I just gave birth last week Wednesday. My mother in-law came yesterday for omugwo. I asked my husband that I thought my mother is the person who is suppose to come for omugwo. My husband said his mom refused.

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This is my 1year in marriage. I just gave birth last week Wednesday. My mother in-law came yesterday for omugwo. I asked my husband that I thought my mother is the person who is suppose to come for omugwo. My husband said his mom refused.

So when we were arguing about it. My mother in-law came into our room and state it outright to my face that my mom won’t come for any omugwo in this house. That her son won’t train me in University and my mum will still come and enjoy omugwo goodies. that where is my consience. Is the one her son did for me from my level 1 til NYSC isn’t enough. Still start up a business for me.

I appreciate the fact that my husband did all this for me which I didn’t take any for granted. I have never for one day disrespected mama or neither do we use to treat her bad. This is just my one year in marriage. How can I tell my mom she won’t be coming for omugwo of all my children. My husband loves his mother so much. He couldn’t even utter a word. Though he is not a talking type. Honestly this is shameful to me.

How will my parents feel. I’m the only girl and my mother has been waiting for this for long. My mother already entered market and bought things she will be coming for omugwo with.

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My daughter Monroe was born without eyes It’s her birthday please don’t ignore her kindly wish her well

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“My daughter Monroe was born without eyes It’s her birthday please don’t ignore her kindly wish her well

she’ll be going through an operation soon, pls do join us pray for my little angel for a successful surgery & celebrate her day with us ‘

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