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HOW MUM TURNED ME INTO DOG FOR SURVIVAL
This is the woman who raised me. The age difference with my late father is about 30 years, that means dad married a very young girl. When my father was blind and very old, my mother was way younger. She always wanted to do some farming business for survival but she was incapacitated by her very old blind husband who needed her close care.
Being the last born Son, I was too close and had a privilege to ask her too many questions, including the foolish ones. So one day I said to her:
“why can’t we just go farming in deep rural where there is free land?” She looked at me and said; “believe me at this age no one is attracted to your father, not even me because he is now a burden but if I leave him in such a weak state, he may die earlier than his appointed time. I have a responsibility to ensure that he dies as a happy man otherwise, if his spirit won’t rest in peace, then you are all doomed.”
In many cases mum used to go around the village to pick some used charcoal from rich people’s compounds and she reused the same for cooking. I remember when there was no mealie meal she went at the nearby hummer meal workshop (Chigayo) to gather some dropped mealie meal which had been trumped upon and that night we ate the darkest Nsima I have never seen.
When asked by those who watched her, she always told them: “I keep chickens and dogs at home, I am going to prepare food for them,” she gave this answer to safeguard the little dignity for the CHIZUs but deep down my hopeless heart I knew that every time she said these words, I was one of those dogs and chickens she referred to.
At all costs my mother refused to turn into a beggar. Not from our richer members of the family and surely not even from the street well wishers.
Today the LORD showed me a scripture which made sense to me for this particular scenario:
Ecclesiastes 9:4 “Anyone who is among the living has hope —even a live dog is better off than a dead lion!” Unfwa! You may be no body today, living a life of dogs and those who live a life of Lions may even be laughing at you but as long as you are alive, there is surely hope that things will be better.
I grew up without anything to make me smile, but I pushed my space into a fair stability and I have made a covenant with this woman: No matter how little I get, an assigned potion of my salary will always be going into her account until the day she dies.
If you are my daughter or son in the LORD; you bring Tithes and unbroken offerings to me or Church but nothing goes to your parents, especially your mother, to hell with your cursed money. I refuse to be part of your misery; you can as well keep your tithes and offerings.
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I’m 6 months married our marriage is going good but our sex life is the most boring experience ever.
I have this pr0blem with my hubby.. The guy is just so boring in bed, he doesn’t m0an during s-x. No matter what, even when he’s enjoying it. Severally I’ve tried to talk to him about it. I’ve begged & pleaded with this man severally to at least, even try & make small sound to turn me on more.. because it’s really getting annoying.
Everytime, persin go just dey keep quiet like wood. Na only silent knacking. Me sef i kukuma stop to the m0an because I’m tired & i dey vex. Both of us go dey knack & just dey look ourselves, na just fukum fukum persin go dey hear…. My hubby is a good man, he loves me & treats me right but this is the only issue i have with him. This might sound little but to be honest it’s affecting our marriage. It’s just been 3 months of marriage but it’s getting boring already.
Plz i need help on how to handle this kind of man. Even when he’s cú’m”” m”” ng. I’ll steadily be looking at his face to see if he’ll even make a sound. but instead Human being go just dey silent like stick.. pls I’m getting tired of the whole marriage thing abeg, I’m not sure this is how I want to spend the rest of my l!fe… I honestly know I won’t be able to keep up like this. I’m afraid of what I’m nursing in my mind”
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I’m Age 43, currently and specifically in search of a virgin between 19 to 29 years to marry. Actually i haven’t been lucky with women – Derick Ajeie
Been married twice. I believe my ex- wives some how, tempered with their womb reason why they couldn’t take in for me. Thats why i honestly do not just want a wife, i actually need a real woman, someone that can make me a father. Reason why I’m being specific of marrying a virgin this time. Trying to avoid same old experience. Well, As for my profile, I’m a Primarily school teacher. Teaching for 15yrs now, I’m comfortable. i stay in my own house. I’m tall, dark & handsome ..
Pls, note; we must have a written agreement. Specifying, you’ll get pregnant before we can proceed with any wedding plans. However, if you insist that, we must get married first because you’re from a Christian home. ok, but, that will mean that; you must get pregnant for me & give me a son in a space of 1 year. In which, if you don’t, Then, your family will have to calculate & refund every dime, spend on you in the name of “Bride Price/Dowry”
Pls, You must be a virgin between the age of 18 to 29, As, I want a lady whose skin is still very fresh & attractive, I actually do not need old women of 30 & above. Dark or Light in complexion. I don’t mind as long as your well brought up”
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I’ve made up my mind to expoe this old cargo today, Her full name is Kenza Emeline Jein. She’s a married businesswoman who deals in ladies’ fashion
She’s so un-gråté-ful. I’ve had an affair for about 4 years gone with this w0-man. She claimed her husband wasn’t satisfying her in bed, I was always at her service whenever she needed me. In turn, she rented an apartment for me, opened up a shoe business for me, also gave me pocket allowances per month.
Our relationship had been moving well until she got pregnant with the second child & gave birth to a baby girl about 6 months ago. Afterwards, she automatically changed & suddenly stopped seeing me & picking my calls, even went to the extent of blocking me. I only get to reach her when I use a different line. Immediately she realizes it’s me, she’ll cut the call after telling me she’s no longer interested in the relationship, then block the new line too.
I was shocked by this new development. I’ve lost the girl I loved so much & who loved me so much too, all because of this woman. Now she thinks she can just use & dump me like that after giving her two beautiful kids, like I’m some kind of rag. See, I’m not a kid, Mrs. Jein. If you think you can play me like a child, then you should think twice.
Even my business is going down, my house rent has expired, my landlord isn’t giving me any breathing space. I’ve asked this woman for just 2.5million as compensation so i can move on & fix my l!fe that she destroyed but she has given a deaf ear.
Mrs Jein, I’ve given you 2 beautiful girls & I cannot be here suffering while I’ve been wasting my time & energy servicing & giving an old cargo fresh blood with absolutely nothing of benefit nor gain. You very well know our affair cost me my sweet relationship. All bcoz of you i lost the woman that truly loves me. However, I do not need the kids either; you can keep them. I’m 24yrs old still young with fresh blood; I can always make other babies.
I only insist that you compensate me with 2.5 million for my time & energy wasted on you. If not. You leave me with no choice than get back at you by uploading your n””-ü,”ds on social media & also come for my babies & you’ll lose everything, which I’m very sure you wouldn’t want that. This is a promise Mrs Jein. You can’t use me & dump me like a rag; I’m not a kid madam! I’m giving just a week to see that money in my account so i can fix my life i do not want any trouble”
