Viral Gist
I’m 38 years old and I got married when I was 25. I’ve always been a decent human and an introvert. My social life is nothing to write home about but God blessed me with good and hot brains
“I’m 38 years old and I got married when I was 25. I’ve always been a decent human and an introvert. My social life is nothing to write home about but God blessed me with good and hot brains.
I studied accounting and graduated at 21 and I was the overall best graduating student in my school then and I got an automatic employment offer from so many reputable companies on the day of my graduation.
I went through them thoroughly and made a perfect choice. I relocated to Lagos, resumed work and everything was flowing effortlessly until my parents started pressurizing me about marriage.
I was clueless on who to marry because I’ve never been in a relationship, infact I was a virgin. I didn’t even have female friends that could match me with their brothers or anyone.
It’s not like I wasn’t getting advances from men, as a very beautiful yellow lady, I was definitely getting advances but I just didn’t know how to start. Infact, I didn’t pay attention to them at all
I finally decided to give a man a chance and just in few months he was already talking of marriage. I told my parents and they supported the marriage proposal.
We got married and at first our marriage was blissful until I found out he was a chronic woma.ni.zer even as a pastor. We fought about it severally and I gave up the fight. I’m a quiet and peaceful person and it’s not in my nature to enjoy stress.
Children weren’t forth coming as well, my husband lost his job and refused to even look for another. It was just as though he was doing his best to frustrate me but I chose to ignore him.
I was earning well from my job and in less than three years, I was able to buy 2 plots of land in Lagos and built a 5 apartment bungalow. I furnished the house and we moved into our own house.
The next year, I got a double promotion and was able to buy a car for us. After 8 years of childlessness, I started developing fibroid and went for surgery. The surgery was successful and I became more intense in my quest for a child.
My husband seemed very less concerned about it, I began to suspect him having children elsewhere but since there was no proof, I kept mute. All these years I’ve been spending money in different high profile hospital seeking for solution to my problem, he never agrees to go to hospital with me.
My condition started eating me up, there was nothing I could place my finger on as the reason for my condition. I got married as a virgin and I’ve not even had a single miscarriage. All my tests keeps showing I’m very okay medically.
I decided to try IVF and my husband agreed to it. He submitted his semen the first time and we did the 1st IVF and it failed. We tried the second time after a year and it also failed.
It was after the second failed IVF that the doctor told me that my husband might be the cause of our problem and should come over for checkups. I was already suspicious of that because the way he shuns me anytime I mention him coming with me for tests, you would think I threatened his life.
This continued until last year, I realized I wasn’t getting any younger and loneliness was beginning to set in. I decided to opt for adoption and I informed my husband about it. I just needed him to be aware, not for permission because it was crystal clear that I married my enemy.
He doesn’t contribute a dime in the house even when he still had his job. He would rather spend it on his girlfriends because he feels I earn more than him. He is a pastor yet we never pray together, he isn’t faithful, he isn’t truthful, he abuses me at every chance he gets.
I adopted a week old sweet baby girl on the 9th of January 2023 and she has become my companion, friend and all. I now wish I took this decision earlier, I would have had up to 3 children by now.
I recently found out that my husband is impotent when I overheard him making a call in our balcony very early in the morning. Seems one of his girlfriends was trying to pin a pregnancy on him and he told her outrightly that it’s “medically impossible”.
I decided to just ignore him even though I’m so angry and pained that he made me go through 12 years of childlessness and painful medical sessions plus the stigma, trauma, abuse and all when he clearly knew the problem was from him.
He still has the audacity to be so annoyed that I didn’t adopt a boy but I’ve zeroed my mind not to care anymore. I just want to be able to stay alive and take care of my daughter, give her the best life and create golden memories with her.”
Viral Gist
His first coming was like a lamb…
He was slaughtered.
So his 2nd coming is as a Lion – he will slaughter them -Charles Awuzie Analysis on Donald Trump
While I may have fundamental differences with Donald Trump as a person, but I am open minded to learn from his intentionality.
The problem I have with humans is bias – if they love Kamala then everything about Trump must be evil. And if they love Trump, anyone who disagrees with him is antichrist. The same applies to those who love Tinubu but think Obi is a scam and those who love Obi but sees nothing good in Tinubu – just low vibration, low frequency human consciousness – symptom of an ‘Unstretched’ Mind.
There are very few humans who are conscious of their own bias and are genuinely making efforts to KEEP AN OPEN MIND. These ones have STRETCHED their minds.
I have learnt so much from President Bola Ahmed Tinubu and his political moves.
I have learnt also from President Donald Trump.
I have learnt from the Holy Koran just as I have learned from the Holy Bible.
And That’s how I maintain a constant flow of inspiration – by keeping an open mind.
Trump’s intentional use of Crypto, Religion and Nationalism is worth studying.
Crypto is the modern financial culture – it’s a cult.
Religion is an ancient universal culture – it’s a cult.
Nationalism excludes people who are not from your nation while placing your nation first – it’s a cult.
This cult strategy wins every time if well executed.
If you want to win an election in your country, align with the ideals of the majority. If they want to deport all immigrants, champion it even if your wife and biggest donors are both immigrants.
Politics is a mind game. If you don’t understand this, you are still a baby. The difference between a smiling Trump and a frowning Trump is Mind Game. Your mind will effortlessly liken him to the lamb and Lion branding of Jesus.
Good morning!
Viral Gist
Ladies beware of this man. He tricked me that he’ll divorce his wife & marry me not knowing they’re all fat lies!
I met this guy in 2022. I thought he was genuine & i fell for his looks not knowing that he is Lucifer’s twin brother who dresses in suit & tie. We dated for 3yrs but, he never took me to his house. He claims to be married with 2 kids but unhappy & also convinced me that he was no longer interested in his wife, promising to divorce her to be with me
He claims his parents pressurized him to marry the girl & after 4 yrs he’s fed up with the marriage & wants a divorce because he’s not happy in the marriage. I took him for his word after he successfully convincing me I’m the one that he truly loves & wanted to be with, promising to marry me as soon as the divorce proceedings with his wife was over, i believed him. During this time, I became pregnant with his child, & we now have a one-year-old daughter.
However, I’ve since discovered that he never initiated any divorce proceedings. Instead, he’s been using me emotionally & financially. instead of him giving me money like a man will normally do for the woman he claims to love, he has been collecting money from me. His latest excuse is that he doesn’t want to marry a woman with children from previous relationships. Gerald, so after 2 yrs you just realized that I’m a baby mama of 2 kids from different relationships!!? After using me all this time. I swrr Gerald, my God will surely Ponizh you!!
Ladies, plz beware of this guy, i want to xp0z h!m so others wouldn’t fall for his lies. pls, don’t fall for this guy. he’s even cute for nothing, he’s not even good in bed, a 2 minute man who wines his waste like an old grandmother who is sick of waist pain & on top of that, a fat l!år & a big ch!tt! plz help me xp0z this guy, he’s full names are Chanfe Gerald ike, he works as a traveling consultant”
UNIVERSITY of Zambia student’s quest to become a doctor has been temporarily halted after he was together with his ‘business’ partner for stealing phones from six students.
The student, Mike Musonda, 26, and his co-accused Equinox Tembo,24, unemployed, were jailed three years imprisonment with hard labour for stealing six phones valued at more than K14,000.
Musonda and Tembo appeared in court last week charged with six counts of theft, offences committed between August 1 and October 31, 2024.
Between the same dates, the duo stole a samsung galaxy M34 worth K4,500 from Grace Chanda, while in the second count, the accused stole an Iphone 6 worth K2,000 from Beatrice Mutale.
Accusations in the third count are that the accused stole a Huawei Pic Lite with K2,500 from Natasha Nyawa and that in the fourth count, the duo also stole an Itel S23 phone worth K2,500 from Catherine Chipasha.
In count five, the accused stole an Itel KB7 worth K2,600 from Dorcas Moyo and later stole a Techno pop 6 valued at K,1,800, the property of Mishel Siwale, in respect of the last count.
The both admitted the charges before Lusaka magistrate Amy Masoja-Chilangwa and told the court they had no claim to right to the phones.
Evidence is that during the material times, the first complaint, Ms Chanda, an UNZA student, was on her way to campus when she met Musonda, who introduced himself as an entrepreneur.
Musonda, who informed Ms Chanda that he was looking for people to ‘work’ with, later introduced her to Tembo, while at UNZA campus.
At the time, Ms Chanda had called her friend Beatrice Mutale informing her about a ‘job’ the two gentlemen were offering.
The accused later told Ms Chanda and Ms Mutale that they needed to capture their details so that they could give them identity cards for the ‘job’.
The accused then got a Samsung and an iPhone phone from the ladies on the pretext that they would get some details from the gadgets.
Musonda left with the phones leaving behind Tembo with the ladies before the latter also excused himself claiming that he wanted to use the toilet before he disappeared.
After realizing that they had been duped, the two ladies rushed to the university main entrance to alert security.
On the way, the duo met Tembo who then fled before the ladies ,security guards and other students pursued him while shouting thief.
After being apprehended, Tembo led security guards to the apprehension of Musonda before the duo was taken to Kalundu Police Post.
When news of the detention of the duo spread through campus, other affected students emerged and reported that their phones were equally stolen in a similar manner.
The affected victims went to Kalundu Police Station and gave their statements and positively identify the accused as the ones who stole their phones, which were not recovered.
In mitigation, Musonda, a medical student, asked for forgiveness because he had learnt a lesson while in remand
I’ve seen how much my friends are in pain because they now know that freedom is important. I’ve lost my sister and I am the first born. If I go for a long time, my family will be in pain” he said.
The convict said his conduct was motivated by joining bad company saying “It’s just that the friends I met made me start doing bad things’,” Musonda said.
The court heard that Musonda is a third year student but never wrote exams.
“So, instead of studying you were duping people” the magistrate said.
On his part, Tembo equally asked for leniency, pledging never to re-offend because “I am not supposed to do bad things. I want to go back to school. I want to rewrite biology”.
“You want to join him(Musonda) after rewriting biology,” the magistrate queried.
The magistrate observed that the convicts were not fully remorseful for stealing students phones, which carry vital information.
She sentenced them to three years imprisonment each.
