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I’m tired. I’m not a baby-making machine!” begins her poignant revelation. For ten long years, she has been married to Felix, a man who lives abroad. Their marriage, which started with promises of a bright future, has turned into a nightmare.
In a raw and emotional outpouring, a 33-year-old woman shares her harrowing experience of a decade-long marriage fraught with deceit, neglect, and heartbreak. This is her story—a plea for understanding and a call for justice.
“I’m tired. I’m not a baby-making machine!” begins her poignant revelation. For ten long years, she has been married to Felix, a man who lives abroad. Their marriage, which started with promises of a bright future, has turned into a nightmare.
“This man here is my husband. He lives abroad. This picture was taken just two days after our traditional marriage. For over four years now, I haven’t set eyes on him.” Her voice trembles with exhaustion and pain as she recounts her reality. Despite being married for a decade, she has only seen her husband a handful of times, mostly when he visits every couple of years to conceive another child. They have three daughters, with their eldest being six years old.
“I’m broken and I’m tired of this type of distant marriage,” she confesses. “I do not even feel like a married woman. I’m no different from a widow or a single lady.” The loneliness and isolation have taken a toll on her, as she endures the stigma and hardships of raising her children alone.
Felix had promised to process her papers immediately after their marriage so she could join him abroad. “But can you imagine that it’s been ten whole years, yet nothing has been done?” she laments. Over the years, Felix’s excuses for the delay in her visa processing have worn thin. Her patience has given way to suspicion and despair.
“Before this man married me, he confided in me and told me he was married to a white lady abroad,” she reveals. Felix had assured her that his marriage to the other woman was only a means to secure his papers and that he would divorce her after their traditional marriage. However, her findings four years ago shattered any remaining trust she had in him. “I discovered that my husband is still married to this same white woman, and they even have a child together,” she states. Felix’s continued denials have only added to her anguish.
Desperate for answers and resolution, she has tried to confront Felix, only to be met with silence. “He has blocked me on all social platforms and even stopped taking my calls,” she says, her voice breaking. “He only gets in touch with me when he wants to send money or ask after his kids.”
Her frustration reaches a boiling point as she questions Felix’s motives. “Why did you come down here to ruin my relationship and deceive me into marrying you, meanwhile, you very well knew that you’d not be serious nor there for me?” she asks, reflecting on the love and stability she lost due to his actions.
“I’m 33 years old and have three kids for you. Where do you expect that I start from after ruining my life?” she pleads, her words echoing the deep sense of betrayal and hopelessness she feels.
In a final cry for help, she turns to the public for support. “Please, people, pity me and help me to expose him, so this can get to his wife abroad, so she can divorce him,” she implores, tears streaming down her face. “I’m crying almost every day, going through depression because of this.”
This story is more than a personal tragedy; it’s a stark reminder of the devastating effects of broken promises and emotional neglect. It is a call to action for justice and empathy for those suffering in silence.
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His first coming was like a lamb…
He was slaughtered.
So his 2nd coming is as a Lion – he will slaughter them -Charles Awuzie Analysis on Donald Trump
While I may have fundamental differences with Donald Trump as a person, but I am open minded to learn from his intentionality.
The problem I have with humans is bias – if they love Kamala then everything about Trump must be evil. And if they love Trump, anyone who disagrees with him is antichrist. The same applies to those who love Tinubu but think Obi is a scam and those who love Obi but sees nothing good in Tinubu – just low vibration, low frequency human consciousness – symptom of an ‘Unstretched’ Mind.
There are very few humans who are conscious of their own bias and are genuinely making efforts to KEEP AN OPEN MIND. These ones have STRETCHED their minds.
I have learnt so much from President Bola Ahmed Tinubu and his political moves.
I have learnt also from President Donald Trump.
I have learnt from the Holy Koran just as I have learned from the Holy Bible.
And That’s how I maintain a constant flow of inspiration – by keeping an open mind.
Trump’s intentional use of Crypto, Religion and Nationalism is worth studying.
Crypto is the modern financial culture – it’s a cult.
Religion is an ancient universal culture – it’s a cult.
Nationalism excludes people who are not from your nation while placing your nation first – it’s a cult.
This cult strategy wins every time if well executed.
If you want to win an election in your country, align with the ideals of the majority. If they want to deport all immigrants, champion it even if your wife and biggest donors are both immigrants.
Politics is a mind game. If you don’t understand this, you are still a baby. The difference between a smiling Trump and a frowning Trump is Mind Game. Your mind will effortlessly liken him to the lamb and Lion branding of Jesus.
Good morning!
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Ladies beware of this man. He tricked me that he’ll divorce his wife & marry me not knowing they’re all fat lies!
I met this guy in 2022. I thought he was genuine & i fell for his looks not knowing that he is Lucifer’s twin brother who dresses in suit & tie. We dated for 3yrs but, he never took me to his house. He claims to be married with 2 kids but unhappy & also convinced me that he was no longer interested in his wife, promising to divorce her to be with me
He claims his parents pressurized him to marry the girl & after 4 yrs he’s fed up with the marriage & wants a divorce because he’s not happy in the marriage. I took him for his word after he successfully convincing me I’m the one that he truly loves & wanted to be with, promising to marry me as soon as the divorce proceedings with his wife was over, i believed him. During this time, I became pregnant with his child, & we now have a one-year-old daughter.
However, I’ve since discovered that he never initiated any divorce proceedings. Instead, he’s been using me emotionally & financially. instead of him giving me money like a man will normally do for the woman he claims to love, he has been collecting money from me. His latest excuse is that he doesn’t want to marry a woman with children from previous relationships. Gerald, so after 2 yrs you just realized that I’m a baby mama of 2 kids from different relationships!!? After using me all this time. I swrr Gerald, my God will surely Ponizh you!!
Ladies, plz beware of this guy, i want to xp0z h!m so others wouldn’t fall for his lies. pls, don’t fall for this guy. he’s even cute for nothing, he’s not even good in bed, a 2 minute man who wines his waste like an old grandmother who is sick of waist pain & on top of that, a fat l!år & a big ch!tt! plz help me xp0z this guy, he’s full names are Chanfe Gerald ike, he works as a traveling consultant”
UNIVERSITY of Zambia student’s quest to become a doctor has been temporarily halted after he was together with his ‘business’ partner for stealing phones from six students.
The student, Mike Musonda, 26, and his co-accused Equinox Tembo,24, unemployed, were jailed three years imprisonment with hard labour for stealing six phones valued at more than K14,000.
Musonda and Tembo appeared in court last week charged with six counts of theft, offences committed between August 1 and October 31, 2024.
Between the same dates, the duo stole a samsung galaxy M34 worth K4,500 from Grace Chanda, while in the second count, the accused stole an Iphone 6 worth K2,000 from Beatrice Mutale.
Accusations in the third count are that the accused stole a Huawei Pic Lite with K2,500 from Natasha Nyawa and that in the fourth count, the duo also stole an Itel S23 phone worth K2,500 from Catherine Chipasha.
In count five, the accused stole an Itel KB7 worth K2,600 from Dorcas Moyo and later stole a Techno pop 6 valued at K,1,800, the property of Mishel Siwale, in respect of the last count.
The both admitted the charges before Lusaka magistrate Amy Masoja-Chilangwa and told the court they had no claim to right to the phones.
Evidence is that during the material times, the first complaint, Ms Chanda, an UNZA student, was on her way to campus when she met Musonda, who introduced himself as an entrepreneur.
Musonda, who informed Ms Chanda that he was looking for people to ‘work’ with, later introduced her to Tembo, while at UNZA campus.
At the time, Ms Chanda had called her friend Beatrice Mutale informing her about a ‘job’ the two gentlemen were offering.
The accused later told Ms Chanda and Ms Mutale that they needed to capture their details so that they could give them identity cards for the ‘job’.
The accused then got a Samsung and an iPhone phone from the ladies on the pretext that they would get some details from the gadgets.
Musonda left with the phones leaving behind Tembo with the ladies before the latter also excused himself claiming that he wanted to use the toilet before he disappeared.
After realizing that they had been duped, the two ladies rushed to the university main entrance to alert security.
On the way, the duo met Tembo who then fled before the ladies ,security guards and other students pursued him while shouting thief.
After being apprehended, Tembo led security guards to the apprehension of Musonda before the duo was taken to Kalundu Police Post.
When news of the detention of the duo spread through campus, other affected students emerged and reported that their phones were equally stolen in a similar manner.
The affected victims went to Kalundu Police Station and gave their statements and positively identify the accused as the ones who stole their phones, which were not recovered.
In mitigation, Musonda, a medical student, asked for forgiveness because he had learnt a lesson while in remand
I’ve seen how much my friends are in pain because they now know that freedom is important. I’ve lost my sister and I am the first born. If I go for a long time, my family will be in pain” he said.
The convict said his conduct was motivated by joining bad company saying “It’s just that the friends I met made me start doing bad things’,” Musonda said.
The court heard that Musonda is a third year student but never wrote exams.
“So, instead of studying you were duping people” the magistrate said.
On his part, Tembo equally asked for leniency, pledging never to re-offend because “I am not supposed to do bad things. I want to go back to school. I want to rewrite biology”.
“You want to join him(Musonda) after rewriting biology,” the magistrate queried.
The magistrate observed that the convicts were not fully remorseful for stealing students phones, which carry vital information.
She sentenced them to three years imprisonment each.
