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I’m tired. I’m not a baby-making machine!” begins her poignant revelation. For ten long years, she has been married to Felix, a man who lives abroad. Their marriage, which started with promises of a bright future, has turned into a nightmare.
In a raw and emotional outpouring, a 33-year-old woman shares her harrowing experience of a decade-long marriage fraught with deceit, neglect, and heartbreak. This is her story—a plea for understanding and a call for justice.
“I’m tired. I’m not a baby-making machine!” begins her poignant revelation. For ten long years, she has been married to Felix, a man who lives abroad. Their marriage, which started with promises of a bright future, has turned into a nightmare.
“This man here is my husband. He lives abroad. This picture was taken just two days after our traditional marriage. For over four years now, I haven’t set eyes on him.” Her voice trembles with exhaustion and pain as she recounts her reality. Despite being married for a decade, she has only seen her husband a handful of times, mostly when he visits every couple of years to conceive another child. They have three daughters, with their eldest being six years old.
“I’m broken and I’m tired of this type of distant marriage,” she confesses. “I do not even feel like a married woman. I’m no different from a widow or a single lady.” The loneliness and isolation have taken a toll on her, as she endures the stigma and hardships of raising her children alone.
Felix had promised to process her papers immediately after their marriage so she could join him abroad. “But can you imagine that it’s been ten whole years, yet nothing has been done?” she laments. Over the years, Felix’s excuses for the delay in her visa processing have worn thin. Her patience has given way to suspicion and despair.
“Before this man married me, he confided in me and told me he was married to a white lady abroad,” she reveals. Felix had assured her that his marriage to the other woman was only a means to secure his papers and that he would divorce her after their traditional marriage. However, her findings four years ago shattered any remaining trust she had in him. “I discovered that my husband is still married to this same white woman, and they even have a child together,” she states. Felix’s continued denials have only added to her anguish.
Desperate for answers and resolution, she has tried to confront Felix, only to be met with silence. “He has blocked me on all social platforms and even stopped taking my calls,” she says, her voice breaking. “He only gets in touch with me when he wants to send money or ask after his kids.”
Her frustration reaches a boiling point as she questions Felix’s motives. “Why did you come down here to ruin my relationship and deceive me into marrying you, meanwhile, you very well knew that you’d not be serious nor there for me?” she asks, reflecting on the love and stability she lost due to his actions.
“I’m 33 years old and have three kids for you. Where do you expect that I start from after ruining my life?” she pleads, her words echoing the deep sense of betrayal and hopelessness she feels.
In a final cry for help, she turns to the public for support. “Please, people, pity me and help me to expose him, so this can get to his wife abroad, so she can divorce him,” she implores, tears streaming down her face. “I’m crying almost every day, going through depression because of this.”
This story is more than a personal tragedy; it’s a stark reminder of the devastating effects of broken promises and emotional neglect. It is a call to action for justice and empathy for those suffering in silence.
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I’m 6 months married our marriage is going good but our sex life is the most boring experience ever.
I have this pr0blem with my hubby.. The guy is just so boring in bed, he doesn’t m0an during s-x. No matter what, even when he’s enjoying it. Severally I’ve tried to talk to him about it. I’ve begged & pleaded with this man severally to at least, even try & make small sound to turn me on more.. because it’s really getting annoying.
Everytime, persin go just dey keep quiet like wood. Na only silent knacking. Me sef i kukuma stop to the m0an because I’m tired & i dey vex. Both of us go dey knack & just dey look ourselves, na just fukum fukum persin go dey hear…. My hubby is a good man, he loves me & treats me right but this is the only issue i have with him. This might sound little but to be honest it’s affecting our marriage. It’s just been 3 months of marriage but it’s getting boring already.
Plz i need help on how to handle this kind of man. Even when he’s cú’m”” m”” ng. I’ll steadily be looking at his face to see if he’ll even make a sound. but instead Human being go just dey silent like stick.. pls I’m getting tired of the whole marriage thing abeg, I’m not sure this is how I want to spend the rest of my l!fe… I honestly know I won’t be able to keep up like this. I’m afraid of what I’m nursing in my mind”
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I’m Age 43, currently and specifically in search of a virgin between 19 to 29 years to marry. Actually i haven’t been lucky with women – Derick Ajeie
Been married twice. I believe my ex- wives some how, tempered with their womb reason why they couldn’t take in for me. Thats why i honestly do not just want a wife, i actually need a real woman, someone that can make me a father. Reason why I’m being specific of marrying a virgin this time. Trying to avoid same old experience. Well, As for my profile, I’m a Primarily school teacher. Teaching for 15yrs now, I’m comfortable. i stay in my own house. I’m tall, dark & handsome ..
Pls, note; we must have a written agreement. Specifying, you’ll get pregnant before we can proceed with any wedding plans. However, if you insist that, we must get married first because you’re from a Christian home. ok, but, that will mean that; you must get pregnant for me & give me a son in a space of 1 year. In which, if you don’t, Then, your family will have to calculate & refund every dime, spend on you in the name of “Bride Price/Dowry”
Pls, You must be a virgin between the age of 18 to 29, As, I want a lady whose skin is still very fresh & attractive, I actually do not need old women of 30 & above. Dark or Light in complexion. I don’t mind as long as your well brought up”
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I’ve made up my mind to expoe this old cargo today, Her full name is Kenza Emeline Jein. She’s a married businesswoman who deals in ladies’ fashion
She’s so un-gråté-ful. I’ve had an affair for about 4 years gone with this w0-man. She claimed her husband wasn’t satisfying her in bed, I was always at her service whenever she needed me. In turn, she rented an apartment for me, opened up a shoe business for me, also gave me pocket allowances per month.
Our relationship had been moving well until she got pregnant with the second child & gave birth to a baby girl about 6 months ago. Afterwards, she automatically changed & suddenly stopped seeing me & picking my calls, even went to the extent of blocking me. I only get to reach her when I use a different line. Immediately she realizes it’s me, she’ll cut the call after telling me she’s no longer interested in the relationship, then block the new line too.
I was shocked by this new development. I’ve lost the girl I loved so much & who loved me so much too, all because of this woman. Now she thinks she can just use & dump me like that after giving her two beautiful kids, like I’m some kind of rag. See, I’m not a kid, Mrs. Jein. If you think you can play me like a child, then you should think twice.
Even my business is going down, my house rent has expired, my landlord isn’t giving me any breathing space. I’ve asked this woman for just 2.5million as compensation so i can move on & fix my l!fe that she destroyed but she has given a deaf ear.
Mrs Jein, I’ve given you 2 beautiful girls & I cannot be here suffering while I’ve been wasting my time & energy servicing & giving an old cargo fresh blood with absolutely nothing of benefit nor gain. You very well know our affair cost me my sweet relationship. All bcoz of you i lost the woman that truly loves me. However, I do not need the kids either; you can keep them. I’m 24yrs old still young with fresh blood; I can always make other babies.
I only insist that you compensate me with 2.5 million for my time & energy wasted on you. If not. You leave me with no choice than get back at you by uploading your n””-ü,”ds on social media & also come for my babies & you’ll lose everything, which I’m very sure you wouldn’t want that. This is a promise Mrs Jein. You can’t use me & dump me like a rag; I’m not a kid madam! I’m giving just a week to see that money in my account so i can fix my life i do not want any trouble”
