When some Women turn 40 or 50 years, something major shifts in their personality.

They become bolder, more rebellious, more religious, more focused, more opinionated and more emphatic about what they want.

Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive Woman on turning 40/50 changes completely.

Most especially when she had given birth to Children.

At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to ask some questions :  
      –  Is sex food?
      –  Query some of your instructions
      –  Even the way you behave.

She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind.

If care is not taken, you may have to do for yourself :
     –  Dry cleaning
     –  Preparing food to eat

Because it might take her more time before she responds to your request.

There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for Women.

If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.

The only way to avoid total breakdown of Peace and Harmony in the home is for Men to become fair, objective and reasonable in their approaches to issues at home and/or at work.

Men should bear in mind that at this age, Women also harbour lots of regrets about the decisions they have made in life so far … Their Husbands may be one of them!

A woman at this age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a Man using very different & weird parameters.

Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their Wives/Partners/Bosses/Subordinates.

What you put in is what you get!
If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about.

She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past.

On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.

A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER WROTE:

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it’s good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.

I am 32 years of age.

My ex-husband and I dated for 6 years. We where best of friends.I waited until he completed college and started work. My family and his family then met.We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn’t control me.

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.

If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me. I never wanted divorce. I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside. I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!

But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally. He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case. I felt that what I was doing was wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.

I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled. After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone. After two days, I
received a call that he was in the hospital.

My family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.

I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me. I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.

My boyfriend has never cheated on me. Any lady that tries to come close, he reports her to me. I love him so much. Even though I’m not working, this man you see here gives me money each time I ask and also provides for my every need. Unlike other men, he allows me to check his phone whenever I want, assuring me that I have absolutely no reason to worry or doubt him.

We’ve been through thick and thin together. I stood by him even when he had nothing, and now God is gradually blessing us. Today, we have a TV of our own, a good bed, a fridge, and other luxurious properties. Our lives have changed for the better.

God will bless us more, my love, and I also promise to always stand by you. It’s a blessing to have you, my king. Today, I’m so proud to show you off to the world. You are my boss, every woman’s dream, my leader, and God-sent husband-to-be. I’m so proud to be your woman.

Please, wish us well as we continue to build our lives together.❤️