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My Friend Has Learnt Her Lesson In A Hardway And Has Realised  The Cost of Taking Love for Granted

I once had a friend, she was the type that likes violence right from school days, she literally began to fall out of love with her boyfriend. The guy that loves her so much, if gentility, calmness, humility and niceness was a name.

My friend will deliberately disrespect him, cheat on him right in his very before. Sometimes will go out with another man, to a lounge the boyfriend will be with his clients. So he can provoke him and see, if he will get angry or embarrassed her. Or lay hands on her at home, sometimes will pretend to cheat on him, do things to make him feel agitated. But the guy will never react, rather keep loving her more, he will ask if there’s anything he’s not doing right.

We keep telling her she’ll regret it one day, she said she can’t deal with such a man, because  she was raised that way apparently, her father told her that. A man who doesn’t hit her when she misbehave isn’t a real man, and doesn’t really love her.

The day the guy proposed to her in his house, when he got his second car. She bluntly and vehemently refused, she refused to accept his proposal, called him a weak man and can’t be man enough for her.

She left the guy so heartbroken, because he loved her so much. With everything she will do, the guy could even barely raise his voice on her, I should say, he was every woman’s dreams.

The guy was so heartbroken and hurt for months, she immediately started going out with someone. The first day she tried same thing with the new guy, what she’s been doing over and over with her ex. She got a very hot slap, she fell in love with him, unknown to her that she was in big time. She didn’t know what she was getting into. Technically she thought she’s gotten what she’s always wanted to prove a point, to be a man. Not knowing she was basically digging her grave.

Little did she know she was into hot soup, the guy was a chronic and thorough woman beater, he doesn’t drink nor smoke. That even when a woman blinks at him, he will hit her. We were always visiting her at the hospital, the other time the guy crippled her, told her he will take her to the hospital if she won’t die as usual.

There she was looking for help, she regret ever leaving a good man, when the guy beat her so much, that he was using a big stick to hit her. According to her, when we visited her at the hospital, mind you, she’s always with bruises, we knew she was in.

We never felt pity for her, myself literally didn’t feel nothing for her, because she missed a wonderful man. The day he beat her bloody, blood gushing out of her mouth, she called us, we rushed down, the guy left her almost lifeless.

She was on bed for months, when she started recovering, after aborting many times for the guy. She started looking for her ex, apologizing for him to take her back. We didn’t know that, one of our friend was madly crushing on the guy, he’s cute, very comfortable financially, and very calm and quiet. Adesua was secretly madly in love with him.

When she realized and went back, the guy was already in love with adesua one of our friend, infact we literally encourage the girl to go for him. She was helping him heal from the heartbreak, they were setting plans for their wedding and we were happy.

She regret it for a very long time, and keep thanking God for saving her life at least.

Why did I tell you this.

We don’t know and appreciate what we have until we lose it, we don’t know  how lucky at times we are. For the kind of partners we may have, but our ignorance won’t let us see it.

Sometimes we can never have the exact same thing we lost, sometimes it could be near but can’t be the same.

I won’t wanna jeopardize a happy moment I do have with one person that gives me joy, to live my life in regret.

We should always learn to appreciate what we have now, because a bird in hand is much more than ten in the bush. You don’t know what’s outside, quit looking outside because there’s nothing there.

I am Mirach Amba