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My Husband And His Family Kidnapped My Only Son, Threatening to Kill Me – Ebonyi Woman Cries Out
A middle aged woman, Precious David has cried out for help and accused her in-laws of threatening to kill her after allegedly kidnapping her only son.
Speaking with our source, Precious David said trouble started after she got married to her husband Prosper Ifeanyi Obasi in August, 2021 in Abuja, the nation’s capital.
She said both of them came from Ebonyi state though different local governments, while the husband is from Uburu LGA, she is from Onicha LGA.
According to her, “I was in 200L level doing part time studies and as well working while he’s doing white collar job in Abuja Geographic information systems AGIS.”
“Before we got married he was the most caring man I have ever met ND will always want my happiness but few months after our marriage everything changed for the worst. He will beat me up at the slightest provocation and would even starve me for days and most times lock me out of the house.”
“Thank God I was working ND schooling I was able to fend for myself from my little income while believing everything will turn for the better. But it only worsened even to the point of him beating me all through my pregnancy in 2022 till I put to birth.”
” He comes back late at night, stopped caring if there was food at home, he doesn’t care about the wellbeing of our son, he only spends his time and money with unknown women which one of them bought him a smart phone, he told me vividly one of his female friends bought it , he will always sneak outside to make calls sometimes he’ll stay outside for hours talking on the phone and laughing out loud.”
“And each time I complain he will pounce on me, chucking, slamming my head on the wall and punching me, saying he will kill me or use me for rituals and no one will do about it because he felt he came from a rich home while my family isn’t buoyant enough.”
“I became scared for my life and that of my child and decided to tell his 2 elder sisters Anita Anuri Udom Obasi and Ifenyiwa Obasi both working at Abuja Geographic Information Systems AGIS and equally residing here in Abuja about the abuse I’m going through and about his irresponsibility towards me ND our son, they will always tell me I’m the cause and I should pray , that it’s one of the challenges in marriage, sometimes they’ll shout at me and switch off the phone.”
“I was using my little income to take care of my son and I, both in paying for his daycare fees, baby food, clothes, diapers with other necessities and bills in the house. Each time I ask for money from him to get something for our son he will tell me they have not been paid at his place of work and would pounce on me, at times he will lock me out of the house for hours and tell me I should not use any of his properties in the house that I should go and buy my own properties. I kept enduring everything praying for a change. the stress and trauma was becoming unbearable for me, each time I complain to his two elder sisters Anurika and Ifenyinwa they wil advice me to be patient with him that that’s one of the challenges of marriage.”
She further said that after two years of going through hell, torture, abuse, violence, maltreatment, starvation, depression, emotional and mental stress, she finished her final year exams in December, 2023 decided to travel home for Christmas and visit her parents in Anambra state, when they saw how terrible she looked and asked her what was going on.
According to her, “I had to open up and tell them everything I was passing through in my marriage. They asked me to go ND narrate everything to my husband parents and other extended family members at Owerri, imo state where they reside hoping they will put heads together and solve the issue but when I got to Owerri with my son on the 11th of January, 2024 ND narrated everything to them, they asked me to wait so they can get across to my husband and talk to him, after staying for about 3 days without any response from them my father asked me to come back to Anambra. When I told them I wil be going back to my father’s house on 17th January, 2024 the family members together with his parents ganged up together, beat me up and snatched my 11 months old baby from me, threatening to kill me and my parents if I dare try step my foot in Abuja again. Four of my husband siblings Anurika Anita Obasi Udom, Ifenyiwa Obasi, Nkechi Enkay Obasi and Jeffery Nnanna Obasi together with my husband Prosper Ifeanyi Obasi went to the extent of going to my elder brother’s house by name Stephen David in Abuja on the 6th of February, 2024 with thugs and beat him up and even seized my school certificates and my important documents”
“I have been receiving death threats from his sisters and other siblings, one of my sister in-law by name oluchi Ikechukwu Obasi called me on the 10th of February threatening to kill me and my family anywhere she sees me. I dont have any access to my own son or know his whereabouts since they snatched him from me.”
“When I came back from owerri on 17th of January 2023 , my parents and Godfather BISHOP O.B NWEZE invited my ex husband and his family to fix the issue.”
“They arrived with long long faces and refused to co_operate with my people to fix the issue , they left with anger and quarrel .”
“Since then they have been calling me and threatening to kill me and my parents, I have some recorded phone conversation of one of them.”
“Nigerians should please come to my help “.
Efforts to speak with the ex-husband, Mr Prosper Ifeanyi Obasi as at the time of filing this report proved abortive as calls and messages sent to him were not returned or replied.
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When I got divorced the youngest was 11 and the oldest 18 but I remained in their lives until today . As far as I am concerned they are representing me and I will be judged by how they turn out – Francis Van-Lare
My advice to those men divorcing their wives and abandoning their children . The children did not just show up on earth , you poied their mother who carried them for nine months and birth them .
If you and their mother can no longer be together that is fine as no relationship should forced on anybody but you have to remain in the lives of your children with visits , financial support and vacation with them to bond .
When I got divorced the youngest was 11 and the oldest 18 but I remained in their lives until today . As far as I am concerned they are representing me and I will be judged by how they turn out .
I cannot be traveling or be focused on my business if they have been abandoned at youth because they are girls and they turn out to be something else that willl be requiring my constant attention .
Stay as friends with their mother too because being an ex wife does not mean she is an eneny because you didn’t poi an eneny to have children.
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THERE’S NO LADY AT AGE 30-35 SEEKING FOR MARRIAGE WHO HAVEN’T BEEN APPROACHED DURING 18-24
Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.
1. I’m too young for that.
2. Who cares about marriage.
3. I’m focused on my books.
4. I want to gather some money first.
5. Marriage is full of problems.
These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.
But these girls will be having serious promiscuous relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to be sleeping with boys.
No problem, God is watching you.
At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;
1. How far?
2. Don’t you have any one yet ?
3. Are you not planning to get married ?
4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married ?
5. Don’t you know you are getting old?
But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.
With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking and asking herself things like: My mates are marrying,
1. Does it mean am old enough to marry?
2. Hmmm, how should I go about it?
3. My boyfriends are not serious about asking my hand in marriage.
4. They are not even ready to marry yet.
5. Well, God knows the best. I believe in God.
See oooh…!, she has started putting her blame on God. “God’s time is the best” OK, I agree for argument sake.
At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to sleep and play with again.
They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage, but unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 not all men will be asking their hand in marriage.
You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don’t want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.
No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.
My sister, it matters a lot.
Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 and your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes, that’s how it feels like in marriage too.
Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?
That’s why some men go back to their villages to find young girl to marry when the city ones are not serious about marriage and those that are serious happen to be old for them.
At age 30-35, her friends will ask her:
1. Why are you not married yet by this age of yours?
2. Is it not getting too late for you ?
You will hear her asking you some silly questions like…
1. Are you God?
2. Or do you want to marry me?
3. Is it a crime to be single at 30 or 35?
4. Did I see a man willing to marry me but I refused?
5. God knows the best for everyone please.
At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she’s a Muslim, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.
If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say:
1. My brother, I’m not like them.
2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating.
3. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage.
4. I can’t do anything with you without my parents concern.
Dear parents, they have started knowing your worth. When she was 18-24, she was doing everything without considering you as parents.
You don’t expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there.
Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you.
Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.
Everything in life has its own season and time.
There’s no lady at age 30-35 seeking for marriage who haven’t been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE.
Not everything is about prayer. God who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don’t disturb the peace of God. Because, He will be busy planning for your younger sister.
Think about this when you have time.
Dr. Olumide Emmanuel’s journey from a failed marriage to becoming a beacon of hope and guidance for singles navigating the complexities of relationships is nothing short of inspiring. Despite experiencing the pain of marital dissolution, Dr. Olumide found purpose in his pain and embarked on a mission to help others avoid similar pitfalls.
Reflecting on the factors that contributed to the breakdown of his marriage, Dr. Olumide recognized the role of spirituality in clouding his judgment when it came to making informed relationship choices. Armed with this insight, he dedicated himself to educating singles on the importance of making logical and informed decisions in their pursuit of love and companionship.
Through his teachings on relationship topics, Dr. Olumide has become a source of wisdom and inspiration for countless individuals seeking guidance in matters of the heart. His message resonates deeply with those who have experienced the pain of failed relationships, offering them hope and practical advice for building healthier connections in the future.
One such individual who found solace and guidance in Dr. Olumide’s teachings is the founder of the popular Facebook page, Evangelist Edo Baba. Having gone through his own marital challenges, Evangelist Edo Baba was inspired to create a platform where individuals could share their experiences and receive support from like-minded individuals.
Despite facing challenges such as shadow banning and opposition from detractors, Evangelist Edo Baba remained steadfast in his mission to provide a safe space for individuals to express their frustrations and seek guidance. With a growing following and a determination to expand his reach to other social media platforms, Evangelist Edo Baba is poised to make an even greater impact in the lives of those grappling with relationship issues.
As Dr. Olumide Emmanuel and Evangelist Edo Baba continue to spread their message of hope and empowerment, they serve as shining examples of resilience, transformation, and the power of using personal experiences to uplift and inspire others.
Through their efforts, countless individuals are finding the strength to heal from past wounds and embrace the possibility of a brighter future in love and relationships.
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