My Husband is a terrible man but he is good to other people outside, Youths, Men and Women do flock around him in Church, at work it is Mr James, Mr James, Neighbours always come to ask for him, to them he is a good Man, but they did not know the true him
THE PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE MAY NOT BE WHAT YOU THINK IT IS
Take your time to read this post to the end.
Dianna wrote to me:
“My Husband is a terrible man but he is good to other people outside, Youths, Men and Women do flock around him in Church, at work it is Mr James, Mr James, Neighbours always come to ask for him, to them he is a good Man, but they did not know the true him.
But at home, he is very quiet, withdrawn, stays alone, too difficult to approach and he can be verbally abusive atimes and he is constantly bursting into Anger nowadays. He was not like this before our marriage but he suddenly change, please help me before i run mad, this marriage is running me crazy”
MY ANSWER: “Since I can only talk to you, I can’t reach your husband, let me try to use you to reach him and solve the problem in your marriage.
Since you said he was not like this before, why don’t you sit down and check, what happened to him, that made him to suddenly change and become irritable.
Let us pretend here that you are the problem, because you said he is good to other people.
DO A MIRROR LOOK, that is try to see what you are doing wrong at him, what has been his complains about you, write them out, even if you feel these complains are not reasonable, start to work on them.
TURN POSITIVE: Be positive the way you handle him, handle him with respect, remember he is the President of the Family, you are the First Lady. So every evening Cook good food, wait for him, smile and look good, look peaceful, loving and welcoming. Let him eat, bath and be at rest, play with him and have good sex with him even if you don’t feel like.
Try to get his attention for three to seven days like this, if he get irritable or speak roughly around these days, just apologise sincerely, without argument
After doing it for few days, you must have broken him, then sit him down to ask him what you did wrong, and how he want you to improve, do not tell him what he is doing wrong at this stage, listen to him and take notes, apologise after his words.
You may not even raise your own issue at this time, just let him have his way and soften him, then create avenue for you to then talk about what he is doing that is hurting you, but don’t sound as if you are accusing him, don’t shout, dont sound like a village head mistress, don’t disrespect him, No, don’t do it, remember you are looking for peace not for battles”
WHAT SHE DID
This Lady this just what I asked her to do with humility, then she sent this to me after three Months
HER REPORT CARD
Dear sir,
“It worked like juju oo, my husband is back, no more irritation. I didn’t even tell him what he did wrong, he told me mine and I was surprise of how rude and stupid I was. I did not see what e said coming at all, everything he said about me was true, I beg and beg and beg, for three days I was still apologising to him because I was so shock how disrespectful I was to him and how I embarrassed him even in the public, all was true. I was stubborn and argues a lot, it was as if I was competing with him.
He is now back to his playful and jovial past, he also took me out on a date yesterday, he really spent money on me, I did not know he can be this romantic, our sex life is also terrific, almost like our honey Moon days, I am greatful sir. I thank God I reached out to you”
MY WORDS FOR YOU.
The problem in your Marriage may not be what you take it to be. You may be pointing finger, it may actually be you, yes, you could be the problem. You will need to change your perspective if you want to change your marriage. If you want to insist that your spouse is the problem and you just score yourself a pass mark, then you will be the real problem in the marriage. So do a mirror look, see where you are wrong and change.
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RELATIONSHIP
My boyfriend has never cheated on me. Any lady that tries to come close, he reports her to me. I love him so much – Nigerian Lady
My boyfriend has never cheated on me. Any lady that tries to come close, he reports her to me. I love him so much. Even though I’m not working, this man you see here gives me money each time I ask and also provides for my every need. Unlike other men, he allows me to check his phone whenever I want, assuring me that I have absolutely no reason to worry or doubt him.
We’ve been through thick and thin together. I stood by him even when he had nothing, and now God is gradually blessing us. Today, we have a TV of our own, a good bed, a fridge, and other luxurious properties. Our lives have changed for the better.
God will bless us more, my love, and I also promise to always stand by you. It’s a blessing to have you, my king. Today, I’m so proud to show you off to the world. You are my boss, every woman’s dream, my leader, and God-sent husband-to-be. I’m so proud to be your woman.
Please, wish us well as we continue to build our lives together.❤️
Sex is lawful in marriage, it’s one of the rights of married couples in the family. But I need to let you know that, there are some forms of sex you must never have in your family. They are: 9 S£X YOU MUST NEVER HAVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE
1.BROWN S£X: Sex is called brown if you have it with anyone that is not your spouse. It’s known as adultery, affairs or infidelity . It easily destroys marriage, avoid it.
2.YELLOW SEX: This is the kind of sex that happens between a couple who always struggle to sleep together. They fight often fight about sex and it has turn to a bone of contention in their marriage instead of being a tool of intimacy and love.
3.RED SEX: This a sexless marriage. Couples in it hardly make love because bitterness in marriage has taken over to the level of war.So, they hardly sleep together.
4. NECESSITY SEX: I met a couple recently, who have not been in talking term for Months but they still sleep together regularly because they need Children. They will just sleep together inside darkness, roll to the other side and sleep off but continue their fight the second day, this is a necessity Sex.
5. GRUDGE MATCH: This is the kind of sex where couple sleep together without love or affection, they do it without any affection or desire. They only have sex as a responsibility in marriage or to give peace a chance. This is very common among wives.
6.BABY SEX: This is when couples sleep together only when they need sex. They believe sex is not for love or pleasure ,it should only happen when baby is needed, this is very wrong. Sex should bring couple together and should be done regularly and joyfully.
7.FRIDGE SEX: This is also known as “No Action sex”. This involves husband and wife sleeping together but cold or when a “Fridge” action is displayed by the wife. That is, she is never involve; only lie down like a log of wood.It’s a bad example of sex in Marriage .
1) Avoid a broke woman who depends on you for money and spend it unnecessarily , She’s a financial vampire and parasite, she will ruin you and date another man
2) Avoid an arrogant woman who doesn’t takes instructions, corrections and direction from you. But love so much fake life , that always pressure you to buy any latest expensive trending materials , as a STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN you can’t go far with such woman
3) Avoid an agree woman who’s always quarreling and fighting with you, who disrespect you and give you no peace.
4) Avoid a woman who’s surrounded by many men, who she calls her friends or bestie. Those men are your replacement waiting for your relationship to have problems and then they will move in and replace you.
5) Avoid a woman who doesn’t want to listen to your simple explanation but always want what she need from you and doesn’t care how you will go about risking your life to get it for her.
6) Avoid woman, that’s without handwork and she’s not ready to learn any, the economic is not favorable, you may not have money always as a husband or boyfriend , most men you see out there, their wife is their backbone financially, having a good plan together with your wife is the secret of most men success.
7 ) Avoid high demanding woman, you can never get or achieve ur dreams with such woman, as a STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN.
8) Avoid woman who doesn’t appreciate your little efforts to make her okay, such woman doesn’t think of the past sacrifices, if she sees any boy that is doing more better than you she will leave you.
Men, always be guided…
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