RELATIONSHIP
THIS IS AN OPEN LETTER TO EVERY WOMAN ABOUT MEN
Dear Woman.
√ Not Every Man Is A Husband Material.
√ Some Are Friendzone Materials.
√ Some Are Boyfriend Materials.
√ Some Are Sex Mate Materials.
√ Some Are Baby-Papa Materials.
√ Some Are Husband Materials
√ Some Are Father Materials
~ Marry a Man that is a Brother, Husband and Father. Some of you, get into marriage with men who have no business being married. Marriage is not for everybody. Some men are not wired to function in matrimony.
~ Don’t allow marriage desperation or societal pressure to push you into the arms of a man who is not ready or suited for matrimony. Look around you, most men get married just for the status. Those are the men that marry wives and keep for their mothers and fathers to look after.
I have seen men who married wives and travelled out of the country for 5, 6 and even 7 years without coming home to see their wives. I mean what is that?
You shouldn’t be theoretically married. Marriage must be practical. Some men are very selfish. Take this from me, a selfish man can never be a good husband.
Matrimony thrives on mutualism. It is a give-and-take situation.
√ Don’t marry a man because you are pregnant for him.
√ Don’t marry him because he deflowered you.
√ Don’t marry him because you are unemployed.
√ Don’t marry him because you’ve dated him for long.
√ Don’t marry him because you invested in him financially.
Marry him because you believe he is worthy of being called your Husband and the father of your unborn kids. There are men everywhere but Husbands are scarce.
I pray for you yet to be married: you will not experience marriage bondage. And for that feel you’ve made a mistake, retrace your step, and rededicate your marriage to God.
God is faithful and readyto help you and he will help you out in Jesus’ name! Note : if you are a man reading this post don’t make it a gender war.
And don’t take it personal. This post is for men. I know
here are un-wifable women but that’s a post for another day.
RELATIONSHIP
My boyfriend has never cheated on me. Any lady that tries to come close, he reports her to me. I love him so much – Nigerian Lady
My boyfriend has never cheated on me. Any lady that tries to come close, he reports her to me. I love him so much. Even though I’m not working, this man you see here gives me money each time I ask and also provides for my every need. Unlike other men, he allows me to check his phone whenever I want, assuring me that I have absolutely no reason to worry or doubt him.
We’ve been through thick and thin together. I stood by him even when he had nothing, and now God is gradually blessing us. Today, we have a TV of our own, a good bed, a fridge, and other luxurious properties. Our lives have changed for the better.
God will bless us more, my love, and I also promise to always stand by you. It’s a blessing to have you, my king. Today, I’m so proud to show you off to the world. You are my boss, every woman’s dream, my leader, and God-sent husband-to-be. I’m so proud to be your woman.
Please, wish us well as we continue to build our lives together.❤️
Sex is lawful in marriage, it’s one of the rights of married couples in the family. But I need to let you know that, there are some forms of sex you must never have in your family. They are: 9 S£X YOU MUST NEVER HAVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE
1.BROWN S£X: Sex is called brown if you have it with anyone that is not your spouse. It’s known as adultery, affairs or infidelity . It easily destroys marriage, avoid it.
2.YELLOW SEX: This is the kind of sex that happens between a couple who always struggle to sleep together. They fight often fight about sex and it has turn to a bone of contention in their marriage instead of being a tool of intimacy and love.
3.RED SEX: This a sexless marriage. Couples in it hardly make love because bitterness in marriage has taken over to the level of war.So, they hardly sleep together.
4. NECESSITY SEX: I met a couple recently, who have not been in talking term for Months but they still sleep together regularly because they need Children. They will just sleep together inside darkness, roll to the other side and sleep off but continue their fight the second day, this is a necessity Sex.
5. GRUDGE MATCH: This is the kind of sex where couple sleep together without love or affection, they do it without any affection or desire. They only have sex as a responsibility in marriage or to give peace a chance. This is very common among wives.
6.BABY SEX: This is when couples sleep together only when they need sex. They believe sex is not for love or pleasure ,it should only happen when baby is needed, this is very wrong. Sex should bring couple together and should be done regularly and joyfully.
7.FRIDGE SEX: This is also known as “No Action sex”. This involves husband and wife sleeping together but cold or when a “Fridge” action is displayed by the wife. That is, she is never involve; only lie down like a log of wood.It’s a bad example of sex in Marriage .
1) Avoid a broke woman who depends on you for money and spend it unnecessarily , She’s a financial vampire and parasite, she will ruin you and date another man
2) Avoid an arrogant woman who doesn’t takes instructions, corrections and direction from you. But love so much fake life , that always pressure you to buy any latest expensive trending materials , as a STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN you can’t go far with such woman
3) Avoid an agree woman who’s always quarreling and fighting with you, who disrespect you and give you no peace.
4) Avoid a woman who’s surrounded by many men, who she calls her friends or bestie. Those men are your replacement waiting for your relationship to have problems and then they will move in and replace you.
5) Avoid a woman who doesn’t want to listen to your simple explanation but always want what she need from you and doesn’t care how you will go about risking your life to get it for her.
6) Avoid woman, that’s without handwork and she’s not ready to learn any, the economic is not favorable, you may not have money always as a husband or boyfriend , most men you see out there, their wife is their backbone financially, having a good plan together with your wife is the secret of most men success.
7 ) Avoid high demanding woman, you can never get or achieve ur dreams with such woman, as a STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN.
8) Avoid woman who doesn’t appreciate your little efforts to make her okay, such woman doesn’t think of the past sacrifices, if she sees any boy that is doing more better than you she will leave you.
Men, always be guided…
