I know it is my mistake but hear me out. A man came and proposed to me twice and I rejected his proposal because I didn’t have full information about his financial status. He was too impatient.

He went ahead and proposed to my younger sister. He didn’t know she was my younger sister. My sister accepted him so easily. They went ahead and got married. He only discovered when they came to see my parents for bride price that she’s my little sister.
The issue here is the man is a senior accountant in a big company . He also runs private businesses( super market,  petrol station and hotel) that earn him multiple profits steadily.

When I ask for money from him he tells me to pass through my younger sister. But when i go to my young sister she will only give me 20k or sometimes 15k. Her husband gives her sometimes 500K from the businesses monthly. She will give my parents 100K and husband’s mother 100K too. But to me she’s been stingy.

She doesn’t know this man was actually mine. He proposed to me first. For him to propose to me first it means he loves me more than her. She’s very stingy and uncaring . I am hurt.

Am actually worried cos my Fiancé has a 4 yr-old daughter, her mother passed away while giving birth to her. So, he has been raising her ever since then with the help of his family.

But, the thing is, I am now in the picture & we’re getting married next year,  I’m even 7 months pregnant with his son. I very well know, I won’t treat his daughter thesame way as my son.To be honest, she annoys me! She looks exactly like her mother so, she constantly reminds my man of his late wife & to make things worse she’s very attached to her daddy, which makes me worried even more,..

It’s obvious my son will not be able to bond with his father because of her, I can’t live with her under the same roof. I mean her both grandparents are still alive & healthy, she can go live with them or better still we can find her a nice couple that wants to adopt a child. My worry now is, don’t know how to approach this situation to my man but really, I need to find a way to convince my fiancé’..

Pls note that I’m not a b@dd person, I’m just trying to look out for my son & make sure that he will get all his father’s love & attention that he deserves. Which is exactly what every woman in my shoe will do, i also need space with my husband, her presence is only going to be a distraction..

pls, kindly advice me on how to approach my husband with this issue i need some guidance “

A pregnant woman who was kidnapped while on her way to the hospital for delivery has reportedly given birth at the kidnappers’ den at Egede, Udi local government area of Enugu State.

The incident, which was said to have happened last Monday, saw the woman giving birth to a bouncing baby boy in the forest.

It was gathered that the woman whose name was given as Chinwendu Igwe, was with her two other little children aged between two and four years when the incident happened.

The lady’s husband, Mr. Ekene Igwe, who confirmed the development to newsmen added that he paid a ransom of N1.6 million before effecting the release of his wife and the newborn from the forest in Egede where the kidnappers asked him to deposit the ransom.

Igwe said that it was a kind motorcyclist who rescued his two kids abandoned on the road by the kidnappers.

“I paid a ransom of N1.6 million before I could get my wife and the new born baby,” he said.

Igwe who hails from Attakwu Akegbe Ugwu Awkunanaw said he was grateful to God for getting them back.