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I might not survive this one. The pain is killing me. This is my wife’s story and mine. I’m based in the United States. After so much hard work, I can say I’ve done well for myself. But after the very bad experiences I’ve had with women
I might not survive this one. The pain is killing me. This is my wife’s story and mine. I’m based in the United States. After so much hard work, I can say I’ve done well for myself. But after the very bad experiences I’ve had with women, I thought it wise to ask for my mom’s advice and recommendation to find me a decent girl back home. And she did.
I actually knew this lady back home before I left for abroad, but then, she was just a teenager. We found each other interesting. Our marriage date was set. I went home, and we did all the necessary arrangements and finally became a married couple. Before leaving back to the States, we discussed, and she pleaded with me not to be in a hurry to process her documents. Instead, she wanted to register into a nursing institution since it would be expensive over there. Then, I could start processing her papers when she was almost ready for graduation.
I was amazed by this very smart idea, unlike other women who would rather be in a hurry to travel abroad instead of finishing school and grabbing something they can lean back on or easily get a good-paying job once they join their husband abroad. I spent so much money to register her in one of the best schools we have in the country, rented and furnished an apartment for her, and then went back abroad.
The following month, I was hoping she would call and tell me she missed her period, but she didn’t. Well, that was okay since she was schooling. I really didn’t bother. A few years later, she was almost done with her studies. By then, I had already processed and started working on her documents. After her graduation, just in time, after a few months, she got her visa and finally joined me in the States.
The very first week my wife stepped into America, she immediately started making inquiries on how she could get a job. I was impressed by this move, to have a smart and ambitious lady for a wife. I even helped her out in the process of getting a work permit and submitting her CV to several hospitals. Luckily, she was called up by two very big hospitals here in the States, and we picked the one with better pay.
Three years down the line, my wife was already doing well for herself. I was proud of her. Unfortunately, babies still weren’t coming, even after we both did several tests confirming both of us to be okay. Things suddenly took a different turn in the fourth year after my wife’s arrival in the States. She started behaving strangely, coming home late, and refusing to let me touch her. I didn’t suspect anything then, but this kept going for close to seven months. So, I decided to do my findings.
You’ll not believe that this woman had this planned out from the very beginning. Before our marriage to her arrival in America, my wife was in a serious relationship with her boyfriend, which I had absolutely no idea of. Still, she went ahead to accept my proposal. I also found out the apartment I rented and furnished for her to live in while she completed her studies had her boyfriend moved in with her. All these years, my own wife had been taking pills so she wouldn’t get pregnant for me. Now, what pains and annoys me most is that this woman is pregnant, meanwhile, she hasn’t allowed me to touch her for six months.
All this while, I thought I had the best of marriages, a smart and loving wife, meanwhile my own wife has been in love with someone else and even had his papers processed so he can join her here in the States. I just discovered he is the one my wife has been seeing all this time and is probably the father of the baby she’s carrying. As if that’s not enough, after confronting this woman, she has no sort of remorse for what she has done. Instead, she tells me she has never loved me, and that she only went on to marry me to please her parents. She is ready to financially repay everything I’ve done or ever spent on her.
Even after everything, I still asked us to fix our marriage, but she insists she has made up her mind. I’ve called her family several times, but they always tell me it’s their daughter who decides, not them because she’ll be the one to stay in the marriage, not them. As it is now, I’m frustrated. I do not know what else to do or whom to turn to.
Please, I want to know where I went wrong loving and wanting the best for a woman that I love, my own wife! Oh God! I do not deserve this! All my life, I’ve been unlucky with women, even when I treat them right. I’m going through this for the fourth time. This one hurts most because it’s coming from a wife. My fears about marriage have finally come to pass. Kelly! Up till now, I still don’t know what I did to deserve this pain that I’m feeling right now. I’ve been good to you and your family since day one, but it’s okay.
I’ve signed the divorce papers you served me. I’m heartbroken, Kelly. I hope I survive this one. The pain and depression are killing me.
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His first coming was like a lamb…
He was slaughtered.
So his 2nd coming is as a Lion – he will slaughter them -Charles Awuzie Analysis on Donald Trump
While I may have fundamental differences with Donald Trump as a person, but I am open minded to learn from his intentionality.
The problem I have with humans is bias – if they love Kamala then everything about Trump must be evil. And if they love Trump, anyone who disagrees with him is antichrist. The same applies to those who love Tinubu but think Obi is a scam and those who love Obi but sees nothing good in Tinubu – just low vibration, low frequency human consciousness – symptom of an ‘Unstretched’ Mind.
There are very few humans who are conscious of their own bias and are genuinely making efforts to KEEP AN OPEN MIND. These ones have STRETCHED their minds.
I have learnt so much from President Bola Ahmed Tinubu and his political moves.
I have learnt also from President Donald Trump.
I have learnt from the Holy Koran just as I have learned from the Holy Bible.
And That’s how I maintain a constant flow of inspiration – by keeping an open mind.
Trump’s intentional use of Crypto, Religion and Nationalism is worth studying.
Crypto is the modern financial culture – it’s a cult.
Religion is an ancient universal culture – it’s a cult.
Nationalism excludes people who are not from your nation while placing your nation first – it’s a cult.
This cult strategy wins every time if well executed.
If you want to win an election in your country, align with the ideals of the majority. If they want to deport all immigrants, champion it even if your wife and biggest donors are both immigrants.
Politics is a mind game. If you don’t understand this, you are still a baby. The difference between a smiling Trump and a frowning Trump is Mind Game. Your mind will effortlessly liken him to the lamb and Lion branding of Jesus.
Good morning!
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Ladies beware of this man. He tricked me that he’ll divorce his wife & marry me not knowing they’re all fat lies!
I met this guy in 2022. I thought he was genuine & i fell for his looks not knowing that he is Lucifer’s twin brother who dresses in suit & tie. We dated for 3yrs but, he never took me to his house. He claims to be married with 2 kids but unhappy & also convinced me that he was no longer interested in his wife, promising to divorce her to be with me
He claims his parents pressurized him to marry the girl & after 4 yrs he’s fed up with the marriage & wants a divorce because he’s not happy in the marriage. I took him for his word after he successfully convincing me I’m the one that he truly loves & wanted to be with, promising to marry me as soon as the divorce proceedings with his wife was over, i believed him. During this time, I became pregnant with his child, & we now have a one-year-old daughter.
However, I’ve since discovered that he never initiated any divorce proceedings. Instead, he’s been using me emotionally & financially. instead of him giving me money like a man will normally do for the woman he claims to love, he has been collecting money from me. His latest excuse is that he doesn’t want to marry a woman with children from previous relationships. Gerald, so after 2 yrs you just realized that I’m a baby mama of 2 kids from different relationships!!? After using me all this time. I swrr Gerald, my God will surely Ponizh you!!
Ladies, plz beware of this guy, i want to xp0z h!m so others wouldn’t fall for his lies. pls, don’t fall for this guy. he’s even cute for nothing, he’s not even good in bed, a 2 minute man who wines his waste like an old grandmother who is sick of waist pain & on top of that, a fat l!år & a big ch!tt! plz help me xp0z this guy, he’s full names are Chanfe Gerald ike, he works as a traveling consultant”
UNIVERSITY of Zambia student’s quest to become a doctor has been temporarily halted after he was together with his ‘business’ partner for stealing phones from six students.
The student, Mike Musonda, 26, and his co-accused Equinox Tembo,24, unemployed, were jailed three years imprisonment with hard labour for stealing six phones valued at more than K14,000.
Musonda and Tembo appeared in court last week charged with six counts of theft, offences committed between August 1 and October 31, 2024.
Between the same dates, the duo stole a samsung galaxy M34 worth K4,500 from Grace Chanda, while in the second count, the accused stole an Iphone 6 worth K2,000 from Beatrice Mutale.
Accusations in the third count are that the accused stole a Huawei Pic Lite with K2,500 from Natasha Nyawa and that in the fourth count, the duo also stole an Itel S23 phone worth K2,500 from Catherine Chipasha.
In count five, the accused stole an Itel KB7 worth K2,600 from Dorcas Moyo and later stole a Techno pop 6 valued at K,1,800, the property of Mishel Siwale, in respect of the last count.
The both admitted the charges before Lusaka magistrate Amy Masoja-Chilangwa and told the court they had no claim to right to the phones.
Evidence is that during the material times, the first complaint, Ms Chanda, an UNZA student, was on her way to campus when she met Musonda, who introduced himself as an entrepreneur.
Musonda, who informed Ms Chanda that he was looking for people to ‘work’ with, later introduced her to Tembo, while at UNZA campus.
At the time, Ms Chanda had called her friend Beatrice Mutale informing her about a ‘job’ the two gentlemen were offering.
The accused later told Ms Chanda and Ms Mutale that they needed to capture their details so that they could give them identity cards for the ‘job’.
The accused then got a Samsung and an iPhone phone from the ladies on the pretext that they would get some details from the gadgets.
Musonda left with the phones leaving behind Tembo with the ladies before the latter also excused himself claiming that he wanted to use the toilet before he disappeared.
After realizing that they had been duped, the two ladies rushed to the university main entrance to alert security.
On the way, the duo met Tembo who then fled before the ladies ,security guards and other students pursued him while shouting thief.
After being apprehended, Tembo led security guards to the apprehension of Musonda before the duo was taken to Kalundu Police Post.
When news of the detention of the duo spread through campus, other affected students emerged and reported that their phones were equally stolen in a similar manner.
The affected victims went to Kalundu Police Station and gave their statements and positively identify the accused as the ones who stole their phones, which were not recovered.
In mitigation, Musonda, a medical student, asked for forgiveness because he had learnt a lesson while in remand
I’ve seen how much my friends are in pain because they now know that freedom is important. I’ve lost my sister and I am the first born. If I go for a long time, my family will be in pain” he said.
The convict said his conduct was motivated by joining bad company saying “It’s just that the friends I met made me start doing bad things’,” Musonda said.
The court heard that Musonda is a third year student but never wrote exams.
“So, instead of studying you were duping people” the magistrate said.
On his part, Tembo equally asked for leniency, pledging never to re-offend because “I am not supposed to do bad things. I want to go back to school. I want to rewrite biology”.
“You want to join him(Musonda) after rewriting biology,” the magistrate queried.
The magistrate observed that the convicts were not fully remorseful for stealing students phones, which carry vital information.
She sentenced them to three years imprisonment each.
