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WHAT MEN ACCUSE WOMEN OF WHEN IT COMES TO SEX
1. Many women dress up for the public but they don’t put as much effort to dress up for their husband in bed. Lady, your number one audience is your man
2. Many women complain that their husbands don’t sex them good, yet they do not express what they want their husbands to sexually do to them. Lady, your man doesn’t read minds
3. Many women are shy in bed, largely because of their low self esteem making the husband feel as if he is forcing a sexual encounter with her since she comes off as disengaged in the act. Lady work on your self esteem, it directly affects your sex life
4. Many women do not praise their husband’s performance in bed even when he is good. Lady, the more you talk well about his penis, the way he touches you, the way he licks you; the more he want to please you. Work on his ego
5. Many women belittle their husband, talk down at him with disrespect and then expect him to give great sex. Lady, when you undermine him and talk to him as if he is not man enough because he doesn’t earn “enough money”, he has failed in his goals a few times; be sure he will not be so interested in making love to you
6. Many women are inactive during sex because they think it is the husband’s role to lead in sex. So she lies in bed, lifeless, passive and bored expecting him to do all the sexual heavy lifting. Lady, men too want to be sexually made advances on: both of you giving, both of you taking
7. Many women think that complaining and nagging will get a man to do the right thing. What they fail to realize is that it only leads to the man repelling the woman, he will struggle to desire to kiss her and touch her. She will drain him. To get a man to do what you want, inspire him, compliment him for the good he has done so far, show him how him doing right makes you smile because men love to be the reason a woman smiles. Then in bed, he will pursue you because he feels safe with you
DON’T GIVE YOUR HUSBAND BLUE BALLS
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1. Don’t seduce your husband and leave him hanging
2. Don’t be all sexy, working in the home, no bra, nipples showing, butt popping as you clean; then look at him funny when he touches you because your view turns him on
3. Don’t cuddle up with your husband, teasing him, playing with his chest and commando; then tell him no love making when he wants to go all the way
4. Don’t tell him “I am not in the mood tonight, I am tired, my head is paining. Tomorrow morning we will make love” then tomorrow morning you act like you forgot. Keep your promise
5. Don’t text him and flirt with him during the day, making him look forward to good times with you; then when he comes you act as if those sexy conversations never happened
6. Don’t walk out of the shower when your horny husband decides to join you naked for some steamy love making
7. Don’t wear a sexy lingerie to bed then expect every night to have conversations of bills, children and in-laws. He sees your sexy body, he struggles to concentrate
8. Don’t sleep next to him popping your butt and he can literally have a good view of you and he wants to do things to sexy you only for you to look at him as if he is bothering you
9. Don’t play around with his penis, get him hard then that is the time you are remembering to call your mom or to go hang the clothes
10. Don’t tell him “I am on my periods. When it is over, you can have me all you want” then after your periods you build The Great Wall of China between you and him
This is torture. Sexual intimacy is dear to your husband. You should be grateful you have a husband who desires you and who can’t keep his hands off you. Once that desire is gone, it is hard to get it back. A sexually rejected man might eventually give up making advances.
An unused erection is painfu especially when you have a wife whom you treat right but she just turns you down. Don’t give him blue balls, milk him good.
Please bless
When some Women turn 40 or 50 years, something major shifts in their personality.
They become bolder, more rebellious, more religious, more focused, more opinionated and more emphatic about what they want.
Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive Woman on turning 40/50 changes completely.
Most especially when she had given birth to Children.
At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to ask some questions :
– Is sex food?
– Query some of your instructions
– Even the way you behave.
She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind.
If care is not taken, you may have to do for yourself :
– Dry cleaning
– Preparing food to eat
Because it might take her more time before she responds to your request.
There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for Women.
If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.
The only way to avoid total breakdown of Peace and Harmony in the home is for Men to become fair, objective and reasonable in their approaches to issues at home and/or at work.
Men should bear in mind that at this age, Women also harbour lots of regrets about the decisions they have made in life so far … Their Husbands may be one of them!
A woman at this age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a Man using very different & weird parameters.
Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their Wives/Partners/Bosses/Subordinates.
What you put in is what you get!
If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about.
She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past.
On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.
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My ex-husband and I dated for 6 years. We where best of friends.I waited until he completed college and started work. My family and his family then met.We got married and had a son
A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER WROTE:
I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it’s good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.
I am 32 years of age.
My ex-husband and I dated for 6 years. We where best of friends.I waited until he completed college and started work. My family and his family then met.We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).
My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn’t control me.
Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.
If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me. I never wanted divorce. I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.
One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside. I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!
But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally. He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case. I felt that what I was doing was wrong.
My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.
I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled. After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone. After two days, I
received a call that he was in the hospital.
My family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.
All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.
I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me. I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.
