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Can a man who loves his wife very much start seeing another woman on the side?

In relationships, particularly in marriage, fidelity is often considered a cornerstone.However, the reality is that some married men engage in relationships outside their marriage, known as having “side chicks,” while still professing love for their wives. This behaviour can be annoying and hurtful, raising questions about love and loyalty.

Emotional and physical disconnect:
In some cases, men might look for someone else outside their marriage due to emotional or physical dissatisfaction. They may feel like they’re not close to their wives anymore due to various reasons like busy schedules, family responsibilities, or simply drifting apart over time. Finding someone new might temporarily fill this void, providing the affection or excitement they feel is missing. Importantly, this does not necessarily mean they no longer love their wives, but it shows a gap in their marital fulfilment.

The thrill of the chase
For some men, the allure of a new relationship is the excitement of the chase to get to know someone new. This thrill can be intoxicating, like a temporary escape from the routine of married life.Self-esteem and validation
Sometimes, a man might feel unsure about himself. Maybe he’s worried he’s not fun or handsome enough anymore. If another woman pays attention to him, it can make him feel valued, successful, or young again. It’s like a deep-seated need for approval.

Love is complicated:

The human capacity for love is vast and complex. It’s possible to love someone deeply but still make choices that hurt them. A man might truly love his wife and not want to leave her but still end up with another woman. It shows that people’s feelings can be very mixed up and hard to understand. This duality of love and betrayal is the complexities of human emotions and moral choices.

Lack of communication
A lot of times, men and women in a marriage don’t talk about what’s bothering them. Maybe they’re scared or don’t want to argue. But not talking can make things worse. If a man is unhappy and doesn’t say anything, he might look for happiness outside the marriage.

Societal and cultural influences
In some cultures or societies, it’s normal for men to see other women even when they’re married. The societal pressure to conform to certain norms of masculinity, including displaying sexual prowess, can also play a role.That doesn’t make it right, but it can make some men think it’s not a big deal.

How to fix it
The best way to solve this problem is to talk openly and honestly. If a man is feeling unhappy, he should tell his wife. They can work on it together. Maybe they need to spend more time together or find new ways to make each other happy. Love means being honest and taking care of each other’s feelings. Talking about problems and working on them together is the best way to keep love strong.

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A man of Ndola has sued his wife’s boss for allegedly having an affair with her after he discovered pictures of him playing with her wig in their office.

Godwin Malama of Kabushi Township has sued Bilkash Dapania, a man of Indian origin whom he accused of committing adultery with Naomi Bwalya, 33.

When the case came up before Ndola Main Local Magistrate Bizarre Nyoni, Malama told the court that what made him suspect Dapania of having an affair with Bwalya were the photos he found on her phone.

Malama told the court that the pictures were captured on September 27 last year around 07:00 hours, when the alleged adultery is suspected to have happened.
In his testimony, Dapania told the court that there were other employees in the office when the photos were captured.

And Nicholas Bwalya, who is Bwalya’s immediate supervisor, said on the material day, they were having a light moment in the morning with other employees before commencing work when Bwalya arrived at work.

“Bwalya came with a wig at the office so we started joking about how it looked on her considering her dark complexion. We joked that it would look better on our boss. So we got the wig from her and put it on his head,” he said.

Bwalya said that it was at that point that she started getting some pictures of Dapania putting on the wig.

In her testimony, she told the court that she suspects the reason her husband accused her of having an affair with her boss was because she filed for divorce before the incident.

Magistrate Nyoni adjourned the case to March 5, 2024 for judgement.

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Kanayo O. Kanayo recently expressed his frustration regarding Angel Unigwe and her mother. In a video he posted online, the veteran actor alleged that Angel, with her mother’s support, breached their contract by prematurely leaving his set.

Responding to these allegations, Angel Unigwe’s mother strongly denied the accusations and defamatory statements made by Mr. Kanayo in his video. She stressed their firm adherence to contractual terms and their dedication to honoring all legal commitments.

Angel Unigwe’s mother provided a detailed account of events from June 17th to June 19th, 2024, during which Angel was engaged in Kanayo’s film project with clear agreements, specifically finishing filming by 9 pm each day. Despite their initial concerns about filming fifty-seven scenes in three days, they agreed to proceed based on assurances from Mr. Kanayo O. Kanayo and his director.

On the final day, filming extended beyond 9 pm by an additional 45-50 minutes, which they accommodated as a gesture of goodwill. She emphasized that they left the location after fulfilling their obligations, without any objections from the director or production manager.

Her statement:

“As a background to the events that led to this, between the 17th of June 2024 and the 19th of June 2024, Miss Unigwe participated in a film project under clear and agreed terms, most important of all being a daily wrap time of 9 pm. Despite our concerns about the feasibility of filming fifty-seven (57) scenes in three (3) days, we proceeded based on the assurances we received from Mr. Kanayo O. Kanayo and his director, in person of Ndifreke Matthew, that the three days period will be sufficient for shooting and that the talent’s shooting time of 12 hours starting from 9 am to 9 pm is acceptable to them, moreso there will be no extension considering her prior engagement. On the final day, despite the agreed terms regarding wrap up time of 9 pm, we accommodated an additional 45-50 minutes of filming beyond the agreed time, which was done out of the spirit of goodwill and understanding that had existed between us, Mr. Kanayo and the film Director. Upon completion of the shoot, we left the location without protest from the director or the production Manager Mr. Cosmos Nwaihe, having performed our obligations.”

Mrs. Unigwe was deeply shocked upon learning of the accusations made by Mr. Kanayo in his video. She shared the emotional distress caused by what she perceived as threats against her daughter, Angel Unigwe. She condemned these actions as cyberbullying and gender-based harassment, particularly hurtful given her long-standing respect for Kanayo.

Juliet Unigwe concluded her heartfelt statement by announcing their intention to seek legal action to ensure accountability and justice in this matter, asserting their refusal to be intimidated. She called on relevant security agencies and organizations to protect Miss Unigwe and herself from any potential hostility from Kanayo.

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Nigerian musician, David Adeleke, better known as Davido, and his newly wedded wife, Chioma, commenced their honeymoon in a grand style.

We reports that Davido married to his long-time lover, Chioma, in a lavish event attended by the bigwigs in the entertainment industry and top politicians and businessmen in Lagos on Wednesday.

Shortly after the event, Davido took to his X account with images of a private jet with the caption, “Let’s first launch this one.”

It could not be immediately confirmed, however, where the couples would enjoy their honeymoon.

A viral video clip on social media also captured the couple boarding the private jet in Lagos, accompanied by Davido’s team members, including Asa Asika, Lati, and Chioma’s manager, Ubi Franklin.

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The Secrets Behind Davido and Chioma’s Marriage: An Inside Look

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 On June 25, 2024, the world witnessed the union of one of Africa’s most beloved couples: Davido and Chioma. Their love story has been a topic of much speculation and fascination. As fans and followers celebrated their wedding, many wondered about the secrets that made their relationship so strong and enduring. Here, we uncover some of the key elements that have contributed to their journey together.

 

Davido and Chioma’s relationship began as a deep friendship. This foundation of trust and mutual respect has been a cornerstone of their bond. Friends before lovers, they have always valued open communication and support, which has helped them navigate the ups and downs of their relationship.

 

Both Davido and Chioma share a commitment to family and community. Their shared values have brought them closer, allowing them to work towards common goals. Whether it’s supporting each other’s careers or engaging in charitable activities, their unity in purpose has been evident.

 

As celebrities, Davido and Chioma have lived much of their relationship in the public eye. They have faced rumors, criticisms, and intense media scrutiny. However, they have consistently shown resilience and have maintained their privacy where it matters most. Their ability to focus on their relationship and block out external noise has been crucial to their success.

 

Davido’s support for Chioma has been unwavering, as has Chioma’s support for Davido. This mutual encouragement has helped them grow individually and as a couple. Davido has often expressed his admiration for Chioma’s strength and grace, while Chioma has praised Davido’s dedication and passion.

 

Like any couple, Davido and Chioma have had their share of disagreements and challenges. However, their willingness to forgive and move forward has been a defining feature of their relationship. They understand that no relationship is perfect and have shown a remarkable ability to learn from their experiences.

 

Both Davido and Chioma have achieved significant milestones in their careers. Davido, an international music sensation, and Chioma, a successful chef and entrepreneur, have always celebrated each other’s achievements. Their mutual respect for each other’s ambitions has strengthened their bond.

 

Family plays a crucial role in Davido and Chioma’s lives. Their families have been supportive of their relationship, providing a strong network of love and encouragement. Additionally, their shared cultural heritage has enriched their connection, giving them a deeper understanding of each other’s backgrounds and traditions.

 

Davido and Chioma’s marriage on June 25, 2024, is more than just a union of two individuals; it is a testament to love, resilience, and mutual respect. Their journey together has been filled with challenges and triumphs, but their commitment to each other has never wavered. As they embark on this new chapter, they continue to inspire countless fans with their love story.

What aspect of Davido and Chioma’s relationship do you find most inspiring? Share your thoughts in the comments below!

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