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My Husband is a terrible man but he is good to other people outside, Youths, Men and Women do flock around him in Church, at work it is Mr James, Mr James, Neighbours always come to ask for him, to them he is a good Man, but they did not know the true him
THE PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE MAY NOT BE WHAT YOU THINK IT IS
Take your time to read this post to the end.
Dianna wrote to me:
“My Husband is a terrible man but he is good to other people outside, Youths, Men and Women do flock around him in Church, at work it is Mr James, Mr James, Neighbours always come to ask for him, to them he is a good Man, but they did not know the true him.
But at home, he is very quiet, withdrawn, stays alone, too difficult to approach and he can be verbally abusive atimes and he is constantly bursting into Anger nowadays. He was not like this before our marriage but he suddenly change, please help me before i run mad, this marriage is running me crazy”
MY ANSWER: “Since I can only talk to you, I can’t reach your husband, let me try to use you to reach him and solve the problem in your marriage.
Since you said he was not like this before, why don’t you sit down and check, what happened to him, that made him to suddenly change and become irritable.
Let us pretend here that you are the problem, because you said he is good to other people.
DO A MIRROR LOOK, that is try to see what you are doing wrong at him, what has been his complains about you, write them out, even if you feel these complains are not reasonable, start to work on them.
TURN POSITIVE: Be positive the way you handle him, handle him with respect, remember he is the President of the Family, you are the First Lady. So every evening Cook good food, wait for him, smile and look good, look peaceful, loving and welcoming. Let him eat, bath and be at rest, play with him and have good sex with him even if you don’t feel like.
Try to get his attention for three to seven days like this, if he get irritable or speak roughly around these days, just apologise sincerely, without argument
After doing it for few days, you must have broken him, then sit him down to ask him what you did wrong, and how he want you to improve, do not tell him what he is doing wrong at this stage, listen to him and take notes, apologise after his words.
You may not even raise your own issue at this time, just let him have his way and soften him, then create avenue for you to then talk about what he is doing that is hurting you, but don’t sound as if you are accusing him, don’t shout, dont sound like a village head mistress, don’t disrespect him, No, don’t do it, remember you are looking for peace not for battles”
WHAT SHE DID
This Lady this just what I asked her to do with humility, then she sent this to me after three Months
HER REPORT CARD
Dear sir,
“It worked like juju oo, my husband is back, no more irritation. I didn’t even tell him what he did wrong, he told me mine and I was surprise of how rude and stupid I was. I did not see what e said coming at all, everything he said about me was true, I beg and beg and beg, for three days I was still apologising to him because I was so shock how disrespectful I was to him and how I embarrassed him even in the public, all was true. I was stubborn and argues a lot, it was as if I was competing with him.
He is now back to his playful and jovial past, he also took me out on a date yesterday, he really spent money on me, I did not know he can be this romantic, our sex life is also terrific, almost like our honey Moon days, I am greatful sir. I thank God I reached out to you”
MY WORDS FOR YOU.
The problem in your Marriage may not be what you take it to be. You may be pointing finger, it may actually be you, yes, you could be the problem. You will need to change your perspective if you want to change your marriage. If you want to insist that your spouse is the problem and you just score yourself a pass mark, then you will be the real problem in the marriage. So do a mirror look, see where you are wrong and change.
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From Selling Bananas On The Roadside To Owning A Mansion And Driving My Own Car. This Is My Story How I Rose From Poverty To Riches
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DON’T GIVE YOUR HUSBAND BLUE BALLS
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1. Don’t seduce your husband and leave him hanging
2. Don’t be all sexy, working in the home, no bra, nipples showing, butt popping as you clean; then look at him funny when he touches you because your view turns him on
3. Don’t cuddle up with your husband, teasing him, playing with his chest and commando; then tell him no love making when he wants to go all the way
4. Don’t tell him “I am not in the mood tonight, I am tired, my head is paining. Tomorrow morning we will make love” then tomorrow morning you act like you forgot. Keep your promise
5. Don’t text him and flirt with him during the day, making him look forward to good times with you; then when he comes you act as if those sexy conversations never happened
6. Don’t walk out of the shower when your horny husband decides to join you naked for some steamy love making
7. Don’t wear a sexy lingerie to bed then expect every night to have conversations of bills, children and in-laws. He sees your sexy body, he struggles to concentrate
8. Don’t sleep next to him popping your butt and he can literally have a good view of you and he wants to do things to sexy you only for you to look at him as if he is bothering you
9. Don’t play around with his penis, get him hard then that is the time you are remembering to call your mom or to go hang the clothes
10. Don’t tell him “I am on my periods. When it is over, you can have me all you want” then after your periods you build The Great Wall of China between you and him
This is torture. Sexual intimacy is dear to your husband. You should be grateful you have a husband who desires you and who can’t keep his hands off you. Once that desire is gone, it is hard to get it back. A sexually rejected man might eventually give up making advances.
An unused erection is painfu especially when you have a wife whom you treat right but she just turns you down. Don’t give him blue balls, milk him good.
Please bless
When some Women turn 40 or 50 years, something major shifts in their personality.
They become bolder, more rebellious, more religious, more focused, more opinionated and more emphatic about what they want.
Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive Woman on turning 40/50 changes completely.
Most especially when she had given birth to Children.
At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to ask some questions :
– Is sex food?
– Query some of your instructions
– Even the way you behave.
She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind.
If care is not taken, you may have to do for yourself :
– Dry cleaning
– Preparing food to eat
Because it might take her more time before she responds to your request.
There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for Women.
If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.
The only way to avoid total breakdown of Peace and Harmony in the home is for Men to become fair, objective and reasonable in their approaches to issues at home and/or at work.
Men should bear in mind that at this age, Women also harbour lots of regrets about the decisions they have made in life so far … Their Husbands may be one of them!
A woman at this age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a Man using very different & weird parameters.
Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their Wives/Partners/Bosses/Subordinates.
What you put in is what you get!
If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about.
She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past.
On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.
