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YES! I was once an addict to masturbation, infact, I almost obtained my degree certificate in it

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HOW I OVERCAME MASTURBATION!



It started from my secondary school days, when I involved myself in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, My boyfriend then was matured than me and I was easily exposed to most things except sex… Maybe if I didn’t met him, I would not have been a victim..

Even we didn’t had sex, I fell into the trap of masturbation even without watching porn.. Nobody taught me how to masturbate, infact, nobody told me what I do is called masturbation before I know the Name..
(What a demonic Spirit).

Gradually! I started watching porn and I move from one grade to another…

After doing this in my secret place; I always find myself crying with bitterness of heart, I couldn’t share my pains with anyone, so I kept it a secret to myself.

This habit stunted my spiritual growth, I was struggling
with this act and at a point I got very frustrated because I was really struggling spiritually.I kept confessing sin every week, sometimes twice a week; guilt and condemnation overcame me.

I masturbate daily and I cried daily.. Whenever I’m touched with a message, I’m always genuinely broken, I promised God I would not do it anymore, but I couldn’t fufil my promise..

This weakened me, it reduced my strength that I couldn’t pray anymore… Even though I wish to share this with someone, but I’m always scared and shy!

What if they know? They will make jest of me, they will see me as a sinner! This is always my thoughts.

After 8years of hiding my pains; I decided to open up to a man of God! I stopped nursing this secret, and that’s where my victory started..

Overcoming this addiction is never an easy or straightforward process. It requires conscious work, effort and time….

Here are however some steps that helped me beat my addiction..

1.  I Acknowledge my addiction and Admit I can beat it, I believe my addiction does not defines me..Yes, I have an addiction, my actions are sinful. But those things are not who I am.

2. I Take Responsibility;
When I started struggling with this, i blame others for the cause of my addiction, but during the process of freedom, I stopped blaming others.. It hurt, it is hard. But nothing about this process is easy.

I stop making excuses, I stop blaming other people or circumstances, and stop justifying my actions..

Instead, I acknowledge personal responsibility for the decisions and actions that led me to it. I know what happened in the past can no longer be changed. Also, I take a moment to forgive yourself for indulging in this addiction.

3: I went back to God!
I went back to him on my knees! I surrender my life totally to him to help me! I tarried in his presence! I ask for Mercy, I confess my sins to him…. If he don’t help me, where else can I go? Nowhere!

4. I Gain Knowledge and Support!
The more knowledge I have about my addiction, the greater sense of control I have over this behavior. I gathered knowledge from books, articles, videos,etc. I Read and watch everything I can on the topic. The more i know, the more you i understand how to overcome them.

Also, I Seek out people who are working through this addiction or who have successfully overcome it.

5. I Generate a New Behavior:
Reshaping my belief systems is never an easy or straightforward process. It takes work and effort… I dealt with my source of temptation such as lustful thought, pornographic pictures etc.

6: I Take Gradual Steps:

Overcoming an addiction isn’t something I do in a day, week or even a month. It’s something that i work on over time. Old habits/addictions fade, but they never truly go away, which is why I was vigilant at all times to stay the course.

You see, masturbation is like a tree with roots. Unless the roots are removed, it will continue to release poisons that damage you.The longer you allow the roots to remain in
you, the deeper the damages it will cause..

Hmm, while enjoying my freedom from masturbation, I make mistake again and fall; BUT I DON’T ALLOW THAT FALL TO HOLD ME DOWN, I QUICKLY RUN BACK TO GOD IN REPENTANCE.

1John 2:1 says “My dear children, I amwriting this to you so that you will not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ, the one who is truly righteous.”

NOTE: Here is just a testimony of how someone overcame masturbation..

YOU TOO CAN BE SAVED!

You are child of God. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. God’s love for you has not diminished or decreased. And it will not, because it isn’t dependent upon your behavior…

Stop feeling rejected! Work towards it and surrender your life to him!

JESUS LOVES YOU.

Share your victorious testimonies with others! Each victory will help some others to win! Fight manfully onward! Look ever to Jesus, He will carry you through..

Thanks for reading through!
I pray that you will be blessed through this and you shall be free indeed..

See you next time!

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The Controversy Surrounding Prophet Jeremiah Omotosho and Very Dark Man

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In recent weeks, Prophet Jeremiah Omotosho, a notable figure in the Nigerian religious community, has become the center of a heated controversy. This drama unfolds as “Very Dark Man” challenges the authenticity of Prophet Omotosho’s spiritual products, leading to a legal dispute that has caught the attention of many.

 

Prophet Omotosho is renowned for offering spiritual guidance and selling items claimed to possess miraculous properties, including soap, water, and LED bulbs. These products are marketed as having the power to heal and bring wealth, with prices sometimes exceeding $1500.

The controversy began when “Very Dark Man” questioned the legitimacy of these claims. He demanded proof of the NAFDAC (National Agency for Food and Drug Administration and Control) number associated with the soap and called for transparency about the spiritual materials used. In response, Prophet Omotosho has filed a lawsuit against “Very Dark Man,” alleging defamation and demanding an investigation.

The case has ignited a broader debate about the ethics of monetizing spiritual services. Here are some key concerns of the public:

  1. Exploitation of Faith: Critics argue that selling spiritual items at such high prices exploits individuals’ faith and desperation. The hefty price tags on these items raise ethical questions about the intentions behind their sale.
  2. Lack of Transparency: The absence of clear information regarding the ingredients and spiritual efficacy of these products has fueled skepticism. People are demanding more transparency about what exactly is being sold and whether these products genuinely deliver on their promises.
  3. Reputation of the Church: The scandal surrounding Prophet Omotosho has broader implications for the Christian community. When high-profile religious leaders become embroiled in controversies, it can erode public trust in the church and its leaders.

The ongoing lawsuit highlights the contentious nature of this issue. The outcome of this legal battle could set a precedent for how similar cases are handled in the future and might influence the practices of other religious leaders.

The situation with Prophet Jeremiah Omotosho serves as a crucial reminder of the complex dynamics at play when faith and commerce intersect. As legal proceedings continue, it is essential for both religious leaders and followers to consider the ethical implications of selling spiritual services and to advocate for greater transparency and integrity within the faith community, else the Christian community would be jeopardized by fake prophets and extortion of the general public.

 

source: https://www.churchpost.name.ng/2024/08/the-controversy-surrounding-prophet.html

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My mom was everything to me. Unfortunately, after we lost my dad, my mom fell into deep depression, and her mental illness has since taken her to another level

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My Journey with My Mentally Ill Mother

My mom was everything to me. Unfortunately, after we lost my dad, my mom fell into deep depression, and her mental illness has since taken her to another level. But despite everything, I have never forgotten my mom or the sacrifices she made for me. It’s because of her, and by God’s grace, that I am here today. Every day, I bring her food, clean up her bed, and take care of her, even though it breaks my heart to see her this way.

It hurts deeply when people refer to me as “that daughter of a mad woman.” But I will never deny my mom. Most people who come close to me often distance themselves once they realize that I’m the daughter of a well-known mentally ill woman in the market. They mock me because of my mom’s condition, but I stand firm in my love and respect for her.

Mommy, I love you. You remain my mom, and nothing will ever change that. You gave birth to me, and I’m here to stay by your side. I will always love you, and I promise that I’ll never abandon you, Mama.

Sometimes, I can’t help but envy my friends whose moms are all okay, and I wish everything were fine with you, Mommy. But despite everything, you are still my mother, and my love for you will never fade.

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Look at me now—a child abandoned by her own mother when she was just 7 months old. My story is one of pain, survival, and ultimately, triumph

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I was raised by my grandmother, but at age 7, I lost her too. My father took me in, and I was overjoyed at the thought of finally living with him. Little did I know, it was the beginning of a long, dark chapter in my life. My stepmother was cruel, subjecting me to all kinds of maltreatment. There were times I went hungry for days, starved to the point where I would see darkness in broad daylight. Once, in desperation, I ate our dog’s leftover food, only to be caught by the neighbor’s son. His mother later called me over and asked if it was true. Terrified, I begged her not to tell my stepmother, knowing she would punish me severely for not throwing the food away.

That kind woman wept for me and promised to give me food every day in secret. She kept that promise until we moved away. But as if starving me wasn’t enough, my stepmother also resorted to brutal beatings. She would flog me mercilessly until I fainted at times. She would apply pepper to my private parts, eyes, armpits, and neck, tie me up, and abandon me in one of the toilets for hours without food. When I begged for water, she would cruelly tell me to drink my own excrement and urine. I shed tears whenever I remember these things—I was living in hell on earth.

Despite all these horrors, I was bright academically and loved by God and many kind people. I knew that the only way to escape this suffering was through education, so I never joked with my studies. I was determined to succeed, and I did.

So you see, I have every right to be hateful, bitter, jealous, arrogant, sad, negative, and toxic—but I chose not to be. For years, my stepmother has been trying to reach me. But if I’m honest, I don’t know if I’m ready for her. And as for my mother, who chose to leave me—her own daughter, her firstborn—just because she had issues with my father, wherever you are, Momma, I want you to know this: The daughter you abandoned 29 years ago has finally achieved her dreams, even without the love of a father or mother. She is now a great woman in society.



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