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I’ve had questions from Mums here in the UK and some in Nigeria how I’ve been able to live without my children for the past 9months and them without me, some genuinely wanting answers because they are in the same situation as myself while others, maybe trying to also take a bold step of moving Abroad and reuniting with family later

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I’ve had questions from Mums here in the UK and some in Nigeria how I’ve been able to live without my children for the past 9months and them without me, some genuinely wanting answers because they are in the same situation as myself while others, maybe trying to also take a bold step of moving Abroad and reuniting with family later.

The truth and the whole truth that I’d tell you is this; if your Support system is not strong please think and think again, it took me months to decide if i want to leave my family especially my Babies behind, another months to put structure in place. Don’t leave your spouse/kids behind and move abroad without a good structure and solid support. What has carried me and my children and still carrying us is first God and secondly our very very solid support system.

Because trust me, you won’t find it easy, you’d be mentally and emotionally exhausted, you’d miss home, I’ve been there and i don’t have a good story to tell even though i don’t know if I’m going to share my story at all. I’m a Mummy to the T, i can’t do without my children and vice versa. I miss my children so much, so much that i shy from speaking about how much i miss them so i don’t open up my wounds that is just healing, but the why is what keeps me going. I can’t come this far and turn back now and it’s only but a little more time like i always tell my Children

I recorded this video one evening when my husband called me to say Kiki won’t sleep and had taken one of my picture frame to bed with her, i called and she started crying, i bawled my eyes out after the call. But then again, it’s for the best…

And today, I’m grateful for the gift of good people in my life, my Family/Friends Home and Abroad, My Tribe, my community, my church family here in the UK (I love these people specially), My friends who open their door to me when i need to be around children, my colleagues, my Kids teachers and their Nannies, our Neighbors and everyone who has been helpful in one way or the other.

PS : I’m fine, i just thought to share to encourage someone who may be in this phase, we all need ourselves to pull through in this journey called life

Pss : Dawn is fine too , chopping her mothers money

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MY HUSBAND HAS NEVER MADE LOVE TO ME IN OUR 1 YEAR OF MARRIAGE

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I am 27 years old. And I got married to my husband who is 34 last year and it was a marriage I prayed for to happen because I love him.

Dee loves me too and he sacrificed a lot for my happiness when we were dating. He is a church guy, that’s why I agreed to marry him. We practiced no sex before marriage. He joined our church and we met and liked each other. Our pastor blessed the marriage. On the night of our wedding, I was all ready for my husband to touch him. He told me to relax. I went to bed with my phone trying to reply to messages as I waited for him. As I was pressing my phone, I heard my husband moaning like one who was making out. He was sitting on the couch watching a movie on his laptop. I looked in his direction so I could know what was happening. I found out my husband was masturbating. I went closer to his position and he was watching porn, gay porn.

I was shocked but I didn’t make him feel like it was bad. I jokingly told him that he should focus on me but he rejected my advances and that felt like the beginning of the end for our marriage. After 3 weeks in  I asked him what the problem is, my husband said he enjoys watching porn more than making love to a woman. I asked him why he married me and he said “So the world won’t question his sexuality.” My husband opened up to me that he has never made love to any woman in his life and he would rather be with a man but was too afraid to make that move so he reverts to porn instead.

I became speechless and weak. One day, he went out and bought me toys to use on myself whenever I needed someone inside me, or I could go outside and get to from one particular guy. He promised to pay me a huge monthly allowance which he has begun in exchange for my silence or if I defy him he will ruin me and my family.

The thing is because Dee is very wealthy he took care of not only me during courtship by my entire family, established a business for my parents, put my siblings in very good and expensive schools, and upgraded our entire lives including our family home.

The thought of paying him back financially is not even possible as we can’t afford it as a family. It’s been a year and I am suffering as I feel too guilty to cheat as well and can’t leave because my family is so stuck in a sexless marriage.

It’s so bad people have begun to notice I’m unhappy and keep asking me but I am trying to protect the image of my husband. I am craving intimacy but afraid of going outside of my marriage even though my husband has given me permission, as well I’m unable to leave at least not yet, what can I do? How can I survive?

Please what should I do?much pain  in my heart

Hmmmmm  this one choke

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Meet my great, great grandpa, he just turned 190 years-old. Grandpa doesn’t speak, he has memory lost

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We only bring him out for fresh air & sunlight. Really been a blessing for us all his great grand children in the family to still be having him & even his wife who happens to be 163 years still alive as well.

The prayer of every parent is to live long to see their children’s children my great grandpa is one of the few whom have achieved that. We thank God for his life..

A very Happy Birthday to you Grandpa Joseph”

Credit Shegu

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‘Aunt, I’m asking for help. ‘Aunty, please help me. It’s not money that I want; I just need you to buy me exercise books for school – 12-year-old boy named Ernest Make a Viral Headline Request

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“I met a 12-year-old boy named Ernest who approached me and said, ‘Aunt, I’m asking for help.’ Initially, I hesitated and ignored him, but he persisted, saying, ‘Aunty, please help me. It’s not money that I want; I just need you to buy me exercise books for school.’ He explained that he lives with his grandmother and younger brother, and his grandmother’s legs are swollen to the extent that she cannot walk. He told me he attends a small community primary school and has no one to provide him with books, although he already has a uniform and shoes from the earnings of the odd jobs he’s been doing.

We went to a shop in the market, and I bought 10 exercise books for him. The boy was overjoyed and said, ‘Aunty, they’ll last me the whole year until I write my final exams.’ He shared that his grandmother used to sell vegetables to support him and his brother, but her swelling legs prevent her from continuing, leaving him with no choice but to walk to town every day to seek help or find work if available to earn money for food.

His eloquence and the details he shared in such a short time amazed me.

Please, let’s not ignore those who ask for help, as some truly need it. I’m glad I could extend a helping hand to this little boy in the best way I could.”

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