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My boyfriend, whom I dated for one year and even got engaged to, broke up with me just because he found someone he feels is better
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For a whole year, I supported this guy financially, helping him pay some of his bills with the little I earn from where I work.
I always supported him financially.
This guy is a barber, so I work in a fuel station because there is no electricity in his area.
I gave him fuel worth 1000 every day without him paying for it for a complete year.
He cheated on me, and I forgave him.
I caught him with girls so many times, yet I forgave and acted as an understanding girlfriend.
I rejected rich and well-to-do suitors. He is 30, and I am 24, also a single mom.
He has never bought anything for me, instead, I buy for him. I helped him pay his rent for his new shop, making him have two barber shops.
I used my money to cook food for him and many more. My family rejected him, but I loved and accepted him.
Just yesterday night, after closing from work, I decided to pay him a surprise visit in his shop. Hmm, I caught him there with a married woman on his lap. He told me that it was his friend who was dating this lady, but I didn’t believe him.
The girl stood eyeing me from head to toe.
He started shouting at me, asking why I was in his shop at that time, accusing me of tracing him.
He broke up with me and blocked me everywhere.
He told me to my face that he has found someone else to build his future with, someone who has money, and that he is going to leave me because my workplace is in his town.
I am seriously heartbroken now. I just need some words of encouragement.
This is the second time I am suffering from heartbreak. They just come, make me fall in love, use me, and dump me. I don’t think I can ever fall in love again.
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My boyfriend has never cheated on me. Any lady that tries to come close, he reports her to me. I love him so much – Nigerian Lady
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My boyfriend has never cheated on me. Any lady that tries to come close, he reports her to me. I love him so much. Even though I’m not working, this man you see here gives me money each time I ask and also provides for my every need. Unlike other men, he allows me to check his phone whenever I want, assuring me that I have absolutely no reason to worry or doubt him.
We’ve been through thick and thin together. I stood by him even when he had nothing, and now God is gradually blessing us. Today, we have a TV of our own, a good bed, a fridge, and other luxurious properties. Our lives have changed for the better.
God will bless us more, my love, and I also promise to always stand by you. It’s a blessing to have you, my king. Today, I’m so proud to show you off to the world. You are my boss, every woman’s dream, my leader, and God-sent husband-to-be. I’m so proud to be your woman.
Please, wish us well as we continue to build our lives together.❤️
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9 DANGEROUS S£X YOU MUST NEVER HAVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE
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Sex is lawful in marriage, it’s one of the rights of married couples in the family. But I need to let you know that, there are some forms of sex you must never have in your family. They are: 9 S£X YOU MUST NEVER HAVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE
1.BROWN S£X: Sex is called brown if you have it with anyone that is not your spouse. It’s known as adultery, affairs or infidelity . It easily destroys marriage, avoid it.
2.YELLOW SEX: This is the kind of sex that happens between a couple who always struggle to sleep together. They fight often fight about sex and it has turn to a bone of contention in their marriage instead of being a tool of intimacy and love.
3.RED SEX: This a sexless marriage. Couples in it hardly make love because bitterness in marriage has taken over to the level of war.So, they hardly sleep together.
4. NECESSITY SEX: I met a couple recently, who have not been in talking term for Months but they still sleep together regularly because they need Children. They will just sleep together inside darkness, roll to the other side and sleep off but continue their fight the second day, this is a necessity Sex.
5. GRUDGE MATCH: This is the kind of sex where couple sleep together without love or affection, they do it without any affection or desire. They only have sex as a responsibility in marriage or to give peace a chance. This is very common among wives.
6.BABY SEX: This is when couples sleep together only when they need sex. They believe sex is not for love or pleasure ,it should only happen when baby is needed, this is very wrong. Sex should bring couple together and should be done regularly and joyfully.
7.FRIDGE SEX: This is also known as “No Action sex”. This involves husband and wife sleeping together but cold or when a “Fridge” action is displayed by the wife. That is, she is never involve; only lie down like a log of wood.It’s a bad example of sex in Marriage .
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8 WOMEN YOU MUST AVOID AS A STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN
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1) Avoid a broke woman who depends on you for money and spend it unnecessarily , She’s a financial vampire and parasite, she will ruin you and date another man
2) Avoid an arrogant woman who doesn’t takes instructions, corrections and direction from you. But love so much fake life , that always pressure you to buy any latest expensive trending materials , as a STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN you can’t go far with such woman
3) Avoid an agree woman who’s always quarreling and fighting with you, who disrespect you and give you no peace.
4) Avoid a woman who’s surrounded by many men, who she calls her friends or bestie. Those men are your replacement waiting for your relationship to have problems and then they will move in and replace you.
5) Avoid a woman who doesn’t want to listen to your simple explanation but always want what she need from you and doesn’t care how you will go about risking your life to get it for her.
6) Avoid woman, that’s without handwork and she’s not ready to learn any, the economic is not favorable, you may not have money always as a husband or boyfriend , most men you see out there, their wife is their backbone financially, having a good plan together with your wife is the secret of most men success.
7 ) Avoid high demanding woman, you can never get or achieve ur dreams with such woman, as a STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN.
8) Avoid woman who doesn’t appreciate your little efforts to make her okay, such woman doesn’t think of the past sacrifices, if she sees any boy that is doing more better than you she will leave you.
Men, always be guided…