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How I Was Accused of Taking Advantage of My Fiancée in Her Time of Need – Heart Broken Nigerian Taxi driver
I’m writing this not out of bitterness, but because I need to clear my name and share my side of the story. Please bear with me as this is a long and painful account of what I’ve been through.
I’m a taxi driver, and due to the nature of my job, I hardly have time to cook for myself. There was a woman across the street who sold rice and beans, and I’d often grab breakfast from her before starting my day. Over time, I noticed a young lady helping the old woman in the restaurant. She was smart, humble, and caught my attention immediately.
I gradually gained her attention by asking her to keep the change and occasionally buying her small gifts. Eventually, I confessed my feelings, and after a while, we started dating. She told me about her tragic past—losing her mother during childbirth, her father’s death due to diabetes, and how she became an orphan. She shared how her only uncle, who took her in, made inappropriate advances towards her, forcing her to flee. She ended up with the old woman who, out of pity, allowed her to stay and assist in her business.
Two weeks into our relationship, she showed up at my door, crying, around 9 p.m., saying she had been kicked out by the old woman. She admitted that the woman suspected her of having an affair with her husband, something she regretted not being upfront about. I assured her it was okay for her to stay with me. From that moment on, I did everything I could to make her happy—emotionally, morally, and financially. She often told me how much she appreciated the comfort and happiness I brought into her life, something she said she never experienced, even with her father.
A few months later, she became pregnant. A year after our baby was born, I asked her to take me to her hometown. I introduced myself to her grandmother and others, explaining that I would soon officially visit to pay her dowry. I had saved some money, intending to open a small provision store for her near my house, so she could have something to do and be less dependent on me financially.
Two years later, I met an old friend who offered to help me get a good job but advised that I go back to school, as the job required a degree. I decided that my fiancée should be the one to return to school, so she could graduate and secure a good job that would improve our lives. I gave our child to my mother to take care of and used all my savings, including selling a piece of land I inherited, to support her education.
Six months after she graduated, I discovered she had been cheating on me. Despite everything I had done, she told me she had fallen in love with another man. She claimed that she never truly loved me and that she was too young and naive to make mature decisions when we met. To my disbelief, she offered to repay me financially for everything I had done for her, even doubling the amount.
Out of anger, I walked out on her. Two weeks later, frustrated, I conspired with a few friends to disrupt their traditional wedding ceremony. We were reported to the police and locked up for almost six days. While I was in custody, she went ahead with the marriage. When I was released, I received a cheque for ₦500,000, which I was told was from her and her husband—a so-called repayment for everything I had done.
Blessing, I sent you to school to upgrade our lives, not to graduate and marry someone else. I never thought you could do this to me after all we had been through together. I loved you and wanted the best for you, but you chose to betray me and spread lies that I took advantage of you.
So ₦500,000 is the “double payment” for everything I did for you? I don’t need your money. Thank you for everything, but I’m tired. I don’t know if I’ll survive this.
Most Men, especially African men, do feel they are doing women favour when they marry them as single mothers, but it’s a paradox and a social myth that must be educated.
90% of single mothers are also good wives in the marriage market .
Firstly, why do women become single mothers?
Some are DELIBERATE, some are TRAGEDIES (widows) while some are MISTAKES. So if you happen to like a single mother, investigate her motive before you configure the drivers of your feelings.
If it was a MISTAKE OF TRAGEDY, trust me she can be the best WIFE you can ever think of.
1. Single mothers that made mistakes do bring total SUBMISSION to the table of marriage once they know that the man is honest and sincere, because they will see marriage as a classroom where they must correct the mistakes they made in the past.
2. If you want to WIN her, love her child first, and you will see that she will LOVE you with her last breath and blood.
3. Don’t forget that as a woman that has put to BED before, there’s 85% assurance that she will conceive without toiling from one prayer house to the other to conceive; the baby is evidence of her fruitfulness.
4. Single Mums treat their husbands as LORDS for the sacrifices they make, and easily forgive them no matter the gravity of what they err.
5. If you marry her, do not discriminate the child in your children’s budget, see them as equals so you don’t sprout the seed of jealousy.
6. If she is a single mum as a widow you may not have problem but if the child’s father is alive, both of you should have an agreement from the beginning on welfare and information management. Don’t deny the father access to his child but put a password before he can have access to your wife; it implies the gateway should be defined while you monitor the parameters; trust me, the child will grow up to love you as the man that made his/her mother happy more than the biological father.
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I’m age 42 My mom has rejected every woman I’ve brought home to marry bcoz she wants the best for me
My first wife was actually chosen by my mom. Before that, I had introduced several women to her, but she rejected all of them. She said they were missing something. To make my mom happy, I married the woman she chose. But a year later, my wife was unable to get pregnant for me. My mom demanded that i leave her because she was barren, and I did.
Then, mom again introduced me to her best friend’s youngest daughter. She actually thought she was very fertile bcuz all her siblings had children. Plus, marrying her would strengthen my mom’s friendship with her mom. We married, but two years later, she still wasn’t pregnant. My mom told me to take another wife. I told my wife about my plans, but she chose to divorce me instead, saying she was tired of everything. Since then, I’ve brought home many women for marriage, but my mom won’t let me marry any of them. She finds fault in each one.
Pls note that, My mom is actually a very good woman and a devoted Christian. She goes to church every Sunday & also a church elder. She raised me alone after my dad died when I was just 3. She is the reason I’m successful today & I really do not want to disobey or hurt her feelings. I’m her only child. I love her very much & I believe that she wants the best for me.
But also, I really want to get married too. Please advise me on how to handle this situation.”
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Ever Since I got a scholarship & traveled abroad, I haven’t visited my family back home for almost 10 years. Since I’m on leave, I decided to use the opportunity to take a vacation to the village to see my mom & little cousins whom I haven’t seen in a very long time, and also do the traditional rites for my new wife.
“I JUST RECEIVED THE GREATEST SHOCK OF MY LIFE !!
Ever Since I got a scholarship & traveled abroad, I haven’t visited my family back home for almost 10 years. Since I’m on leave, I decided to use the opportunity to take a vacation to the village to see my mom & little cousins whom I haven’t seen in a very long time, and also do the traditional rites for my new wife.
Before i left, i decided to visit some uncles & old friends & gifts them. I was running late but, Mama insisted on praying for me before i leave. Before i left, I made sure my mother’s health was good & everyone was happy. i was very fulfilled & satisfied with the vacation. But on my way back to Town, something Terrible happened. – the back tires of our vehicle suddenly came off! We almost had a terrible accident, But by God’s grace, the driver managed to control the vehicle so it doesn’t run to the other side of the bush were there exist a very deep valley. We all survived even though, a few people got injured. No one died.
I want to thank God for this miracle. I’m the only child of my Mother. I keep imagining what if something bad had happened to me!? Who will take care of my poor old mom especially now that she needs me the most!? After taking care of me all this years & just the time for her to start enjoying the fruits of her labor but instead she would have gotten news that I’m no more
I just received the greatest shock of my life! I couldn’t hold back this testimony, please, help me thank this awesome God. He is so merciful.”
