While you couldn’t sleep, that person slept with another person.
While you were crying every night, that person was going to sleep peacefully.
While you were waiting for that message, that person was sending messages with someone else.
And I did all this without feeling guilt, or concern for you.
The truth is that sometimes an apology isn’t enough, not even an apology, or a sorry. Because many times people feel bad just because they’re discovered, not because they’ve hurt you or despised you.
When you truly love someone you’re loyal to them in front and behind their back.
Forgive if you can, but if you can’t forgive, don’t do it. There are actions that do not deserve to be forgiven nor should be forgiven, nor lies, nor contempt, nor disrespect, nor unfaithfulness, nor betrayal.
And if you have to cry do it, but then get up and move on. That’s the best and only revenge that doesn’t hurt anyone

I wish to Xpox this person. I’m a single mom of 3. I’ve been working hard, trying my best to give my 3 children a better life, all by myself, with no help or support from their fathers. But it’s so annoying that while I’m here working hard to feed my babies & keep them healthy, someone somewhere is busy wasting my efforts by trying to reap where she did not sow.

This is my last child; I’ve paid her school fees in full. I’m not owing the school a dime. Every day, I pack my daughter’s bag, and I always make sure I pack enough food for her lunch. For over 2 months, I noticed my child’s losing weight. I asked her some questions, did my investigations, just to truly find out that this lady here, my daughter’s teacher in school, has been finishing my daughter’s food. and I’m sure she’s not doing that only to my daughter.

She asks them to bring their bags so she can help them keep it safe, but instead, she goes behind their backs, stealing & eating their food. I’ve been to the school to report the issue, but instead, they were being rude. I cannot be here struggling with my tomato business, working hard & sweating to feed my child, while someone somewhere is busy reaping where she didn’t sow & getting fat & fresh, while my daughter is losing weight.

Just an advice, Madam Lucia: please, before you leave your house for work in the morning, make sure that you feed well & stop the attitude of eating your pupils’ lunch. To the school administration i do not wish to Xpox you but, I urge you to take this matter seriously & address the issue promptly. Thank you.”

In a dramatic turn of events, a traditional marriage ceremony held at Eluagu Obukpa took a shocking twist when the bride, Faith Eze, unexpectedly ran away, leaving her soldier groom and the entire wedding party stunned. The incident, which occurred just yesterday, left family members, friends, and the Eluagu community in turmoil as they grappled with the public embarrassment and damages caused in the aftermath.

The marriage had been planned meticulously, with both families preparing for a joyous day. The groom, a soldier by profession, arrived at the bride’s family home accompanied by relatives, friends, music, and food, all in readiness for the traditional marriage rites. However, as preparations were underway, Faith seized an opportunity to slip away through the back door, abandoning her groom-to-be and her family in the midst of the celebration.

The unexpected action led to an outpouring of anger among Eluagu youth, particularly those who were friends with the groom. The frustration over the embarrassment resulted in some of the young men destroying canopies, chairs, and other event setups. The chaotic scene left guests and family members in shock, struggling to comprehend the bride’s sudden departure.



Faith’s decision to flee the ceremony has left many speculating about what might have driven her to such a drastic step. Some observers believe that Faith’s actions could stem from intense pressure from her family, possibly compelling her to marry against her own wishes. In many traditional settings, family expectations can weigh heavily on young women, leaving them with little room to express personal desires regarding marriage. In cases like these, the bride may feel forced into commitments that do not align with her own life goals or feelings, ultimately leading to last-minute decisions like Faith’s escape.

This incident serves as a reminder of the complexities involved in cultural and family expectations surrounding marriage, and the importance of considering the bride’s and groom’s true wishes before making such a lifelong commitment. While the incident caused disruption and disappointment for both families and guests, it also raises the need for open and honest conversations about marriage in Nigerian society.