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A Thoughtful Reflection on Marriage, Fatherhood, and Future Planning at 36 – Kelvin Onovo message to Men

As a 36-year-old man who isn’t married yet, I want you to know that if you decide to marry this year or even next year, you should be aware that at your 40 years old, your first child will be three years old, if God is merciful and you have a child.

Now, I want you to consider this; I am not trying to scare you, but I want you to acknowledge that you aren’t getting any younger. I am not trying to force you to get married before you take this post out of context.

Yes, we are aware that some individuals of your age are already dec€ased, yes we know that narrative.

As you are busy making money, do you also have plans for the future, especially for men? I am addressing you specifically. Now, imagine that you get married this year; it would mean that when you are 50 years old, your first child will be 13 years old. We’re talking about the first child. So when you are 60 years old, your first child will be 23 years old. If it’s a man, the possibility of you seeing your grandchildren might be when you are like 70 or more, that’s if God keeps you alive.

Oboy, we are in a new year. If you are 36, you will be 37 this year. If you are 40, you will be 41. I know money is essential in marriage, but how much do you think you will make before getting married?

Even if you say you don’t want kids, think about it. Someone gave birth to you, so why would reproduction stop in your own lineage? If your mom or father had said the same thing you are saying now, do you think you would be in existence?

Nwanne, check this out. I want you to think about it. You aren’t getting any younger oooo..


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