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Her husband died when she was 32 and my babe was in primary 4. She married very early, at 15 and went to university in her husband’s house
So I got married to this great human and absolutely beautiful family. My mother-in-law who just turned 58 is a Queen and more.
A little back story. Her husband died when she was 32 and my babe was in primary 4. She married very early, at 15 and went to university in her husband’s house. According to her, her husband loved her till death, he respected her and treated her like a queen. She gave birth to 6 kids, 4 boys and 2 girls and my babe is the last kid.
She went on to continue and grow her husband’s firm to a very big and successful business. That woman is so strong, beautiful and raised kings and queens. Her family is so loving and the oneness is just so amazing. She is so lonely but have refused to try out any other relationship or remarry. She will always say no one can live up to her husband and she will rather die than be with someone else.
After I got married to her son, her and my mom became great friends because they kinda looked alike and would go on vacation together as they were both widows. She is just a lovely soul that doesn’t support anything bad. She will always tell me to be the best version of myself, she paid for my masters and said she wants me to be better and improve the quality of her family.
She will always send her driver to come pick all her daughter in-laws and we would go shopping and go to lunch together. It’s a rule to come to the family house every second sunday and have lunch and hang out with everyone.
4 months into the marriage, my mom died and my mother-in-law took me like her last kid. I remember crying my eyes out when the news of my mom’s death was delivered. My babe traveled with his brothers and she left her office and drove right to the house, she held me and told me I will always have her if I ever find her worthy to be my foster mom.
Seeing that my babe is the last one and schooled from home, she is very close to him. Even though he had his house, he would always go stay at the family house with his mom so she doesn’t feel lonely. She practically lives in our house now and only goes home to supervise the cooking of food for the Sunday get together.
I noticed she always wants to be in the room next to ours. Example, I make the master bedroom downstairs for her and go upstairs with my babe, she will wake up in the room next to ours upstairs. If I make the room upstairs for her and we go downstairs, she will wake up downstairs too. There was this day that I was rushing downstairs to get ice cream and sweet I left downstairs, I bumped into her with her ears on the wall, as in she was listening to us make love. I stopped and was like, “Big mommy! What you doing?” She started laughing and said she wanted to make sure I was getting everything I needed to be happy in the marriage.
She walked into us in the sitting room and just stood there watching us till we finished. I was so shocked and shamefully went into the bathroom, she came to me and was saying what a premium man she raised and that she is glad I don’t have a problem with his massive d!ck. She says these things in the dirtiest of ways in Igbo while laughing. I spoke to my babe about it and he said she is just a very naughty person. I had to call my sister in-law, her first daughter to talk to her about this. She started laughing and said she knew I would soon call her because of her mom’s attitude.
She said her mom means no harm and she was always like this with their dad. That she was also like this when she came for omugwo in her house, her husband even got used to the dirty talk and would laugh. The entire family finds this funny.
This my MIL will come to me and say things like, “Nne, ache your back well when he goes in from behind”. I might be sleeping in the afternoon and she will go, “Baby, what do you want to eat?” If I spring up to cook, next thing you will hear is, No! rest from the intense love making my son gave you”
On Saturday, everyone hung out at the family house to exercise and started a competition. My team won and she turned to my babe and said in Igbo, “you obviously have not been hitting that pu$$y well that is why she can still compete in sport well and win. Everybody started laughing but it wasn’t funny to me. I am a very quiet and shy person and she keeps doing this everytime.
When she notices that I am not happy, she will come and hold me telling me it was just a joke and then goes on to say sometime in this line again and everybody starts laughing.
Please you people should help me, are there MIL that are like this? Is this normal? She is creeping me out with this attitude. This is the only problem I have with the woman. I don’t want to be the reason this lovely family starts having issues. Her family is amazing and she raised amazing children. My babe is 31 and I am 24, we have been married for 13 months now.
Apologies for the long long post. Thank you!
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Viral Gist
His first coming was like a lamb…
He was slaughtered.
So his 2nd coming is as a Lion – he will slaughter them -Charles Awuzie Analysis on Donald Trump
While I may have fundamental differences with Donald Trump as a person, but I am open minded to learn from his intentionality.
The problem I have with humans is bias – if they love Kamala then everything about Trump must be evil. And if they love Trump, anyone who disagrees with him is antichrist. The same applies to those who love Tinubu but think Obi is a scam and those who love Obi but sees nothing good in Tinubu – just low vibration, low frequency human consciousness – symptom of an ‘Unstretched’ Mind.
There are very few humans who are conscious of their own bias and are genuinely making efforts to KEEP AN OPEN MIND. These ones have STRETCHED their minds.
I have learnt so much from President Bola Ahmed Tinubu and his political moves.
I have learnt also from President Donald Trump.
I have learnt from the Holy Koran just as I have learned from the Holy Bible.
And That’s how I maintain a constant flow of inspiration – by keeping an open mind.
Trump’s intentional use of Crypto, Religion and Nationalism is worth studying.
Crypto is the modern financial culture – it’s a cult.
Religion is an ancient universal culture – it’s a cult.
Nationalism excludes people who are not from your nation while placing your nation first – it’s a cult.
This cult strategy wins every time if well executed.
If you want to win an election in your country, align with the ideals of the majority. If they want to deport all immigrants, champion it even if your wife and biggest donors are both immigrants.
Politics is a mind game. If you don’t understand this, you are still a baby. The difference between a smiling Trump and a frowning Trump is Mind Game. Your mind will effortlessly liken him to the lamb and Lion branding of Jesus.
Good morning!
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Ladies beware of this man. He tricked me that he’ll divorce his wife & marry me not knowing they’re all fat lies!
I met this guy in 2022. I thought he was genuine & i fell for his looks not knowing that he is Lucifer’s twin brother who dresses in suit & tie. We dated for 3yrs but, he never took me to his house. He claims to be married with 2 kids but unhappy & also convinced me that he was no longer interested in his wife, promising to divorce her to be with me
He claims his parents pressurized him to marry the girl & after 4 yrs he’s fed up with the marriage & wants a divorce because he’s not happy in the marriage. I took him for his word after he successfully convincing me I’m the one that he truly loves & wanted to be with, promising to marry me as soon as the divorce proceedings with his wife was over, i believed him. During this time, I became pregnant with his child, & we now have a one-year-old daughter.
However, I’ve since discovered that he never initiated any divorce proceedings. Instead, he’s been using me emotionally & financially. instead of him giving me money like a man will normally do for the woman he claims to love, he has been collecting money from me. His latest excuse is that he doesn’t want to marry a woman with children from previous relationships. Gerald, so after 2 yrs you just realized that I’m a baby mama of 2 kids from different relationships!!? After using me all this time. I swrr Gerald, my God will surely Ponizh you!!
Ladies, plz beware of this guy, i want to xp0z h!m so others wouldn’t fall for his lies. pls, don’t fall for this guy. he’s even cute for nothing, he’s not even good in bed, a 2 minute man who wines his waste like an old grandmother who is sick of waist pain & on top of that, a fat l!år & a big ch!tt! plz help me xp0z this guy, he’s full names are Chanfe Gerald ike, he works as a traveling consultant”
UNIVERSITY of Zambia student’s quest to become a doctor has been temporarily halted after he was together with his ‘business’ partner for stealing phones from six students.
The student, Mike Musonda, 26, and his co-accused Equinox Tembo,24, unemployed, were jailed three years imprisonment with hard labour for stealing six phones valued at more than K14,000.
Musonda and Tembo appeared in court last week charged with six counts of theft, offences committed between August 1 and October 31, 2024.
Between the same dates, the duo stole a samsung galaxy M34 worth K4,500 from Grace Chanda, while in the second count, the accused stole an Iphone 6 worth K2,000 from Beatrice Mutale.
Accusations in the third count are that the accused stole a Huawei Pic Lite with K2,500 from Natasha Nyawa and that in the fourth count, the duo also stole an Itel S23 phone worth K2,500 from Catherine Chipasha.
In count five, the accused stole an Itel KB7 worth K2,600 from Dorcas Moyo and later stole a Techno pop 6 valued at K,1,800, the property of Mishel Siwale, in respect of the last count.
The both admitted the charges before Lusaka magistrate Amy Masoja-Chilangwa and told the court they had no claim to right to the phones.
Evidence is that during the material times, the first complaint, Ms Chanda, an UNZA student, was on her way to campus when she met Musonda, who introduced himself as an entrepreneur.
Musonda, who informed Ms Chanda that he was looking for people to ‘work’ with, later introduced her to Tembo, while at UNZA campus.
At the time, Ms Chanda had called her friend Beatrice Mutale informing her about a ‘job’ the two gentlemen were offering.
The accused later told Ms Chanda and Ms Mutale that they needed to capture their details so that they could give them identity cards for the ‘job’.
The accused then got a Samsung and an iPhone phone from the ladies on the pretext that they would get some details from the gadgets.
Musonda left with the phones leaving behind Tembo with the ladies before the latter also excused himself claiming that he wanted to use the toilet before he disappeared.
After realizing that they had been duped, the two ladies rushed to the university main entrance to alert security.
On the way, the duo met Tembo who then fled before the ladies ,security guards and other students pursued him while shouting thief.
After being apprehended, Tembo led security guards to the apprehension of Musonda before the duo was taken to Kalundu Police Post.
When news of the detention of the duo spread through campus, other affected students emerged and reported that their phones were equally stolen in a similar manner.
The affected victims went to Kalundu Police Station and gave their statements and positively identify the accused as the ones who stole their phones, which were not recovered.
In mitigation, Musonda, a medical student, asked for forgiveness because he had learnt a lesson while in remand
I’ve seen how much my friends are in pain because they now know that freedom is important. I’ve lost my sister and I am the first born. If I go for a long time, my family will be in pain” he said.
The convict said his conduct was motivated by joining bad company saying “It’s just that the friends I met made me start doing bad things’,” Musonda said.
The court heard that Musonda is a third year student but never wrote exams.
“So, instead of studying you were duping people” the magistrate said.
On his part, Tembo equally asked for leniency, pledging never to re-offend because “I am not supposed to do bad things. I want to go back to school. I want to rewrite biology”.
“You want to join him(Musonda) after rewriting biology,” the magistrate queried.
The magistrate observed that the convicts were not fully remorseful for stealing students phones, which carry vital information.
She sentenced them to three years imprisonment each.
