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My dad died at age 15 and from then, it was as if whistle was blown for all men around me. From our gateman to my Sunday school teacher, my seniors in school and our neighbors. I thought it was just because I was blessed beautifully by God but with time I found out that even the not so beautiful ones were going through same.
” The hardest decision I made as a very beautiful, tall, curvy, and loaded lady is to be sexually pure until marriage. My parents would always preach on keeping yourself until marriage but never really told me how tough it is and the reality surrounding it.
My dad died at age 15 and from then, it was as if whistle was blown for all men around me. From our gateman to my Sunday school teacher, my seniors in school and our neighbors. I thought it was just because I was blessed beautifully by God but with time I found out that even the not so beautiful ones were going through same.
Sometimes I would tell my mom and she would confront them and it will end in a huge fight and even create more attention that I didn’t want so I stopped telling her. There was this married man that lives in our street and was always pestering me whenever he saw me coming back or going to school.
It gradually turned to harassment and I reported him to my landlord. Our landlord told his wife about it, I don’t know what else happened but that never never attempted harassing me again.
When I entered university, that was when the struggle went over the roof. Being a very jovial, cheerful and brilliant girl, I caught attention of so many including my lecturers. At first, I felt it was a good thing but with time it became a problem for me.
Some lecturers that used to admire me for being so brilliant in class, began to make advances at me and few threatened to always fail me in their courses. As if that wasn’t enough, some of my female friends distanced themselves from me because I wasn’t in their league.
Even the genuine make friends I had in school, at some point started developing feelings for me and it ended up spoiling the good friendship we had. It was emotionally hard for me, sometimes I wished to do otherwise since my mates are doing it comfortably.
At some point, I felt I was c*ur*sed because it wasn’t making sense why 98% men that come around me all want just one thing I wasn’t ready to give. I was so young and didn’t want to ruin my future as my mom would term it, so I distanced myself carefully from anything that would lead me into it.
I gradually turned an introvert, stopped engaging in much social activities, stopped going for workout sessions etc. After my final papers as a final year student, I needed to do my clearance and my mom was financially incapable at that moment.
I approached one of my male friends from the gym who claimed to have good intentions for me. He is a police man and also into politics and was in his late 30s. He is financially loaded from all indications so I pleaded with him to lend me some money for my clearance so I can go for NYSC with my mates.
He agreed to give me the money and told me not to bother paying back but on the day he asked me to come and have the money, he wanted to have his way with me. He started begging me to give him a chance, he wants me to have a baby for him so his baby will have my gene etc.
I was so dissapointed because I rated him so high but that offer was so hard for me to decline. I followed him to his hotel room and just as I was about to enter the room, my mom’s call came in. I didn’t pick the call but it destabilized me so I turned from there and went home.
I decided to just hope on God to send help my way and he did through a lady I met in a salon that was so attracted to me and wanted to introduce me to her brother for marriage. After much persuasion whenever she sees me, I accepted and she linked me up with her brother.
Her brother was living abroad, he’s a nice person just like his sister. He asked about my school and I told him everything. He sent me 500k through his sister and that’s how I did my clearance without much stress.
We were compatible to a good extent until we found out that we weren’t medically compatible. We are both AS genotypes and we clearly couldn’t think of getting married. I was a sad one for us as we decided to just remain friends.
I informed his sister about it and she invited me to her house for the first time. I went and to my greatest surprise, I saw her wedding pictures in her parlor and her husband is the police guy that I begged to lend me money.
I was so shocked because that guy denied and even swore to me that he wasn’t married. He’s so young, you wouldn’t doubt him. I told that woman that I know her husband from the gym but I didn’t go further.
Turned out they’ve been married for 9 years without a child, little wonder he was begging me to have a child for him. I felt so much pity for that woman but was glad I never had anything intimate with her husband, it would have been a total mess.
The woman is a very beautiful and kind lady, she just loved everything about me. She treated me very nicely and was sad things didn’t work out for I and her brother. I guess that was God’s plan.
I graduated with a first class at the age of 21 and on my induction day, I met my husband. It was love at first sight and in 5 months time, we fixed our wedding. It was during our wedding plans that we found out that most of his friends that would be his groomsmen knew me.
I’ve met them one way or the other and 3 of them wanted be intimate with me and I’m glad I didn’t. It was a huge coincidence, the world is a very small place indeed. 50% of my husband’s friends(male and female)knew me and all had good things to say about me.
I now began to imagine how it would have turned out of any of them were intimate with me and my husband got to find out. He may not react to it but I would never feel free whenever I see them and I would want that.
My husband didn’t love me or marry me because of my sexual purity, infact he never knew I was pure because I lied to him that I was badly heartbroken by the first man I loved and it prompted my decision to never be intimate again till marriage and he believed it.
He loved me because aside being decent, I am a sincere being to the least. I am very kind and humane, very intelligent and respectful as well. Because my mom would always say that it’s better to marry a kind wh*ore than to marry a wicked vi*rgin and I made sure I built myself positively to deserve a good husband.
My husband is an angel deserving of a good woman and God blessed him with me. I’m a mother now and I’m raising my children to be self disciplined just the way my parents taught me because no matter how the present generation makes it look outdated, it remains a flex.
I do not judge those who aren’t able to achieve sexual purity because it is HARD but if you can, it’s worth it. It doesn’t just boost your confidence as a woman, it keeps you spiritually unsaturated because s*ex is spiritual than we know.”
Viral Gist
His first coming was like a lamb…
He was slaughtered.
So his 2nd coming is as a Lion – he will slaughter them -Charles Awuzie Analysis on Donald Trump
While I may have fundamental differences with Donald Trump as a person, but I am open minded to learn from his intentionality.
The problem I have with humans is bias – if they love Kamala then everything about Trump must be evil. And if they love Trump, anyone who disagrees with him is antichrist. The same applies to those who love Tinubu but think Obi is a scam and those who love Obi but sees nothing good in Tinubu – just low vibration, low frequency human consciousness – symptom of an ‘Unstretched’ Mind.
There are very few humans who are conscious of their own bias and are genuinely making efforts to KEEP AN OPEN MIND. These ones have STRETCHED their minds.
I have learnt so much from President Bola Ahmed Tinubu and his political moves.
I have learnt also from President Donald Trump.
I have learnt from the Holy Koran just as I have learned from the Holy Bible.
And That’s how I maintain a constant flow of inspiration – by keeping an open mind.
Trump’s intentional use of Crypto, Religion and Nationalism is worth studying.
Crypto is the modern financial culture – it’s a cult.
Religion is an ancient universal culture – it’s a cult.
Nationalism excludes people who are not from your nation while placing your nation first – it’s a cult.
This cult strategy wins every time if well executed.
If you want to win an election in your country, align with the ideals of the majority. If they want to deport all immigrants, champion it even if your wife and biggest donors are both immigrants.
Politics is a mind game. If you don’t understand this, you are still a baby. The difference between a smiling Trump and a frowning Trump is Mind Game. Your mind will effortlessly liken him to the lamb and Lion branding of Jesus.
Good morning!
Viral Gist
Ladies beware of this man. He tricked me that he’ll divorce his wife & marry me not knowing they’re all fat lies!
I met this guy in 2022. I thought he was genuine & i fell for his looks not knowing that he is Lucifer’s twin brother who dresses in suit & tie. We dated for 3yrs but, he never took me to his house. He claims to be married with 2 kids but unhappy & also convinced me that he was no longer interested in his wife, promising to divorce her to be with me
He claims his parents pressurized him to marry the girl & after 4 yrs he’s fed up with the marriage & wants a divorce because he’s not happy in the marriage. I took him for his word after he successfully convincing me I’m the one that he truly loves & wanted to be with, promising to marry me as soon as the divorce proceedings with his wife was over, i believed him. During this time, I became pregnant with his child, & we now have a one-year-old daughter.
However, I’ve since discovered that he never initiated any divorce proceedings. Instead, he’s been using me emotionally & financially. instead of him giving me money like a man will normally do for the woman he claims to love, he has been collecting money from me. His latest excuse is that he doesn’t want to marry a woman with children from previous relationships. Gerald, so after 2 yrs you just realized that I’m a baby mama of 2 kids from different relationships!!? After using me all this time. I swrr Gerald, my God will surely Ponizh you!!
Ladies, plz beware of this guy, i want to xp0z h!m so others wouldn’t fall for his lies. pls, don’t fall for this guy. he’s even cute for nothing, he’s not even good in bed, a 2 minute man who wines his waste like an old grandmother who is sick of waist pain & on top of that, a fat l!år & a big ch!tt! plz help me xp0z this guy, he’s full names are Chanfe Gerald ike, he works as a traveling consultant”
UNIVERSITY of Zambia student’s quest to become a doctor has been temporarily halted after he was together with his ‘business’ partner for stealing phones from six students.
The student, Mike Musonda, 26, and his co-accused Equinox Tembo,24, unemployed, were jailed three years imprisonment with hard labour for stealing six phones valued at more than K14,000.
Musonda and Tembo appeared in court last week charged with six counts of theft, offences committed between August 1 and October 31, 2024.
Between the same dates, the duo stole a samsung galaxy M34 worth K4,500 from Grace Chanda, while in the second count, the accused stole an Iphone 6 worth K2,000 from Beatrice Mutale.
Accusations in the third count are that the accused stole a Huawei Pic Lite with K2,500 from Natasha Nyawa and that in the fourth count, the duo also stole an Itel S23 phone worth K2,500 from Catherine Chipasha.
In count five, the accused stole an Itel KB7 worth K2,600 from Dorcas Moyo and later stole a Techno pop 6 valued at K,1,800, the property of Mishel Siwale, in respect of the last count.
The both admitted the charges before Lusaka magistrate Amy Masoja-Chilangwa and told the court they had no claim to right to the phones.
Evidence is that during the material times, the first complaint, Ms Chanda, an UNZA student, was on her way to campus when she met Musonda, who introduced himself as an entrepreneur.
Musonda, who informed Ms Chanda that he was looking for people to ‘work’ with, later introduced her to Tembo, while at UNZA campus.
At the time, Ms Chanda had called her friend Beatrice Mutale informing her about a ‘job’ the two gentlemen were offering.
The accused later told Ms Chanda and Ms Mutale that they needed to capture their details so that they could give them identity cards for the ‘job’.
The accused then got a Samsung and an iPhone phone from the ladies on the pretext that they would get some details from the gadgets.
Musonda left with the phones leaving behind Tembo with the ladies before the latter also excused himself claiming that he wanted to use the toilet before he disappeared.
After realizing that they had been duped, the two ladies rushed to the university main entrance to alert security.
On the way, the duo met Tembo who then fled before the ladies ,security guards and other students pursued him while shouting thief.
After being apprehended, Tembo led security guards to the apprehension of Musonda before the duo was taken to Kalundu Police Post.
When news of the detention of the duo spread through campus, other affected students emerged and reported that their phones were equally stolen in a similar manner.
The affected victims went to Kalundu Police Station and gave their statements and positively identify the accused as the ones who stole their phones, which were not recovered.
In mitigation, Musonda, a medical student, asked for forgiveness because he had learnt a lesson while in remand
I’ve seen how much my friends are in pain because they now know that freedom is important. I’ve lost my sister and I am the first born. If I go for a long time, my family will be in pain” he said.
The convict said his conduct was motivated by joining bad company saying “It’s just that the friends I met made me start doing bad things’,” Musonda said.
The court heard that Musonda is a third year student but never wrote exams.
“So, instead of studying you were duping people” the magistrate said.
On his part, Tembo equally asked for leniency, pledging never to re-offend because “I am not supposed to do bad things. I want to go back to school. I want to rewrite biology”.
“You want to join him(Musonda) after rewriting biology,” the magistrate queried.
The magistrate observed that the convicts were not fully remorseful for stealing students phones, which carry vital information.
She sentenced them to three years imprisonment each.
