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My Friend Has Learnt Her Lesson In A Hardway And Has Realised The Cost of Taking Love for Granted
I once had a friend, she was the type that likes violence right from school days, she literally began to fall out of love with her boyfriend. The guy that loves her so much, if gentility, calmness, humility and niceness was a name.
My friend will deliberately disrespect him, cheat on him right in his very before. Sometimes will go out with another man, to a lounge the boyfriend will be with his clients. So he can provoke him and see, if he will get angry or embarrassed her. Or lay hands on her at home, sometimes will pretend to cheat on him, do things to make him feel agitated. But the guy will never react, rather keep loving her more, he will ask if there’s anything he’s not doing right.
We keep telling her she’ll regret it one day, she said she can’t deal with such a man, because she was raised that way apparently, her father told her that. A man who doesn’t hit her when she misbehave isn’t a real man, and doesn’t really love her.
The day the guy proposed to her in his house, when he got his second car. She bluntly and vehemently refused, she refused to accept his proposal, called him a weak man and can’t be man enough for her.
She left the guy so heartbroken, because he loved her so much. With everything she will do, the guy could even barely raise his voice on her, I should say, he was every woman’s dreams.
The guy was so heartbroken and hurt for months, she immediately started going out with someone. The first day she tried same thing with the new guy, what she’s been doing over and over with her ex. She got a very hot slap, she fell in love with him, unknown to her that she was in big time. She didn’t know what she was getting into. Technically she thought she’s gotten what she’s always wanted to prove a point, to be a man. Not knowing she was basically digging her grave.
Little did she know she was into hot soup, the guy was a chronic and thorough woman beater, he doesn’t drink nor smoke. That even when a woman blinks at him, he will hit her. We were always visiting her at the hospital, the other time the guy crippled her, told her he will take her to the hospital if she won’t die as usual.
There she was looking for help, she regret ever leaving a good man, when the guy beat her so much, that he was using a big stick to hit her. According to her, when we visited her at the hospital, mind you, she’s always with bruises, we knew she was in.
We never felt pity for her, myself literally didn’t feel nothing for her, because she missed a wonderful man. The day he beat her bloody, blood gushing out of her mouth, she called us, we rushed down, the guy left her almost lifeless.
She was on bed for months, when she started recovering, after aborting many times for the guy. She started looking for her ex, apologizing for him to take her back. We didn’t know that, one of our friend was madly crushing on the guy, he’s cute, very comfortable financially, and very calm and quiet. Adesua was secretly madly in love with him.
When she realized and went back, the guy was already in love with adesua one of our friend, infact we literally encourage the girl to go for him. She was helping him heal from the heartbreak, they were setting plans for their wedding and we were happy.
She regret it for a very long time, and keep thanking God for saving her life at least.
Why did I tell you this.
We don’t know and appreciate what we have until we lose it, we don’t know how lucky at times we are. For the kind of partners we may have, but our ignorance won’t let us see it.
Sometimes we can never have the exact same thing we lost, sometimes it could be near but can’t be the same.
I won’t wanna jeopardize a happy moment I do have with one person that gives me joy, to live my life in regret.
We should always learn to appreciate what we have now, because a bird in hand is much more than ten in the bush. You don’t know what’s outside, quit looking outside because there’s nothing there.
I am Mirach Amba
In recent weeks, Prophet Jeremiah Omotosho, a notable figure in the Nigerian religious community, has become the center of a heated controversy. This drama unfolds as “Very Dark Man” challenges the authenticity of Prophet Omotosho’s spiritual products, leading to a legal dispute that has caught the attention of many.
Prophet Omotosho is renowned for offering spiritual guidance and selling items claimed to possess miraculous properties, including soap, water, and LED bulbs. These products are marketed as having the power to heal and bring wealth, with prices sometimes exceeding $1500.
The controversy began when “Very Dark Man” questioned the legitimacy of these claims. He demanded proof of the NAFDAC (National Agency for Food and Drug Administration and Control) number associated with the soap and called for transparency about the spiritual materials used. In response, Prophet Omotosho has filed a lawsuit against “Very Dark Man,” alleging defamation and demanding an investigation.
The case has ignited a broader debate about the ethics of monetizing spiritual services. Here are some key concerns of the public:
- Exploitation of Faith: Critics argue that selling spiritual items at such high prices exploits individuals’ faith and desperation. The hefty price tags on these items raise ethical questions about the intentions behind their sale.
- Lack of Transparency: The absence of clear information regarding the ingredients and spiritual efficacy of these products has fueled skepticism. People are demanding more transparency about what exactly is being sold and whether these products genuinely deliver on their promises.
- Reputation of the Church: The scandal surrounding Prophet Omotosho has broader implications for the Christian community. When high-profile religious leaders become embroiled in controversies, it can erode public trust in the church and its leaders.
The ongoing lawsuit highlights the contentious nature of this issue. The outcome of this legal battle could set a precedent for how similar cases are handled in the future and might influence the practices of other religious leaders.
The situation with Prophet Jeremiah Omotosho serves as a crucial reminder of the complex dynamics at play when faith and commerce intersect. As legal proceedings continue, it is essential for both religious leaders and followers to consider the ethical implications of selling spiritual services and to advocate for greater transparency and integrity within the faith community, else the Christian community would be jeopardized by fake prophets and extortion of the general public.
source: https://www.churchpost.name.ng/2024/08/the-controversy-surrounding-prophet.html
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My mom was everything to me. Unfortunately, after we lost my dad, my mom fell into deep depression, and her mental illness has since taken her to another level
My Journey with My Mentally Ill Mother
My mom was everything to me. Unfortunately, after we lost my dad, my mom fell into deep depression, and her mental illness has since taken her to another level. But despite everything, I have never forgotten my mom or the sacrifices she made for me. It’s because of her, and by God’s grace, that I am here today. Every day, I bring her food, clean up her bed, and take care of her, even though it breaks my heart to see her this way.
It hurts deeply when people refer to me as “that daughter of a mad woman.” But I will never deny my mom. Most people who come close to me often distance themselves once they realize that I’m the daughter of a well-known mentally ill woman in the market. They mock me because of my mom’s condition, but I stand firm in my love and respect for her.
Mommy, I love you. You remain my mom, and nothing will ever change that. You gave birth to me, and I’m here to stay by your side. I will always love you, and I promise that I’ll never abandon you, Mama.
Sometimes, I can’t help but envy my friends whose moms are all okay, and I wish everything were fine with you, Mommy. But despite everything, you are still my mother, and my love for you will never fade.
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Look at me now—a child abandoned by her own mother when she was just 7 months old. My story is one of pain, survival, and ultimately, triumph
I was raised by my grandmother, but at age 7, I lost her too. My father took me in, and I was overjoyed at the thought of finally living with him. Little did I know, it was the beginning of a long, dark chapter in my life. My stepmother was cruel, subjecting me to all kinds of maltreatment. There were times I went hungry for days, starved to the point where I would see darkness in broad daylight. Once, in desperation, I ate our dog’s leftover food, only to be caught by the neighbor’s son. His mother later called me over and asked if it was true. Terrified, I begged her not to tell my stepmother, knowing she would punish me severely for not throwing the food away.
That kind woman wept for me and promised to give me food every day in secret. She kept that promise until we moved away. But as if starving me wasn’t enough, my stepmother also resorted to brutal beatings. She would flog me mercilessly until I fainted at times. She would apply pepper to my private parts, eyes, armpits, and neck, tie me up, and abandon me in one of the toilets for hours without food. When I begged for water, she would cruelly tell me to drink my own excrement and urine. I shed tears whenever I remember these things—I was living in hell on earth.
Despite all these horrors, I was bright academically and loved by God and many kind people. I knew that the only way to escape this suffering was through education, so I never joked with my studies. I was determined to succeed, and I did.
So you see, I have every right to be hateful, bitter, jealous, arrogant, sad, negative, and toxic—but I chose not to be. For years, my stepmother has been trying to reach me. But if I’m honest, I don’t know if I’m ready for her. And as for my mother, who chose to leave me—her own daughter, her firstborn—just because she had issues with my father, wherever you are, Momma, I want you to know this: The daughter you abandoned 29 years ago has finally achieved her dreams, even without the love of a father or mother. She is now a great woman in society.
This version emphasizes your strength and resilience while maintaining the emotional depth of your story. It highlights your achievements and the choices you’ve made despite the challenges you faced.
