I can’t tell him because I don’t want to hurt his feelings or damage his ego. Actually, a year after our marriage, I reconnected with my ex, whom I dated in secondary school. We didn’t break up; distance separated us, & our relationship eventually soured. We started seeing each other again,  this has been going on for 6 yrs. Honestly, I only reunited with my ex to satisfy my sexual needs, He’s actually good in bed but later on, I realized I still love him & he truly loves me too.

However, leaving my husband is difficult & complicated. He’s been kind to me & my family. The thing us, When I met him, I had just lost my dad,. Life was challenging for us. But he helped my family, sponsoring my brother’s visa & trip to Canada, supporting my education, rented comfortable  house for my mom, & started a business for her too. Thanks to him, I graduated & became a nurse.Truth is, I once genuinely loved him, but now sincerely, I’m with him out of pity.

I love my ex deeply & he’s the father of our 3 kids & we want to get married.  I sincerely know that I’m doing wrong. But i honestly can’t help it. He’s a good man & my conscience is kllln me. It’s better i leave so he finds someone that genuinely loves him back. But i don’t know how. Pls help me. I need guidance – how do I make my husband understand all of this without hurting him? At 33, I deserve a fulfilling love life, including my sexual needs, which is obvious, I’ll never find with my husband. Pls i just don’t want to stay in marriage out of pity “

This lady with mental health issues gave birth to twins very cute boys amazingly, she had no medical care for 9 months.

For almost a year, I’ve seen this woman on my way to work. Unlike other people with mental health issues who can be violent, she’s calm and friendly. When I discovered she was pregnant, I shed tears thinking someone might have taken advantage of her kindness. I worried about how she’d manage her pregnancy.

Every weekend, I brought her food and cleaned her living space, which was dirty and unhealthy. During pregnancy, she never saw a doctor. I feared complications due to her poor living conditions. But today, everyone was shocked when she delivered healthy twins. Truly, God is wonderful.”

Good morning, Please help me post for opinions and keep me anonymous. My husband’s driver has been blackmailing me for the past 5 months, and I’m now fed up. I’m 27 years old, married for 2 years now, and my husband is 40. He looks fresh outside, but can’t do his duties as a man in the bedroom. Not even up to 2 minutes, and I still have to beg him before he will agree to that 2-minute silly performance.

We courted for 5 months and got married in the 6th month. During those 5 months, we engaged in int!!macy only twice because he is a busy man. He spends most of his time outside the country. Everything was so fast; ever since we got married, we can go 3 weeks without segz.

Five months ago, he went for a business trip at the States for 1 whole month. I have no kids with him yet, so I live alone in the house. I was home when his driver came to pay me a visit; we weren’t that close, but I guess I was fed up. One thing led to another, and we ended up int!!mate. I had been hungry for long. I felt so relieved. The following week we did it again, and my husband came back from his trip, so we stopped.

My conscience couldn’t stop bothering me whenever I’m with my husband, so I told the driver that he should let bygones be bygones because I can’t continue. He said okay, and after a few minutes, he sent me a once -view video. When I opened it, it was my segz tape with him from the second time we did it. I have no idea how he set up the camera.

He has been demanding huge amounts of money to delete the video, but he still has it and keeps sending it to me on view once. My shop keeps running down on funds, though it’s a busy mall. But this guy has been taking all the money, saying that if we don’t continue, he will leak the video and ruin my marriage. Please, what should I do?