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YES! I was once an addict to masturbation, infact, I almost obtained my degree certificate in it
HOW I OVERCAME MASTURBATION!
It started from my secondary school days, when I involved myself in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, My boyfriend then was matured than me and I was easily exposed to most things except sex… Maybe if I didn’t met him, I would not have been a victim..
Even we didn’t had sex, I fell into the trap of masturbation even without watching porn.. Nobody taught me how to masturbate, infact, nobody told me what I do is called masturbation before I know the Name..
(What a demonic Spirit).
Gradually! I started watching porn and I move from one grade to another…
After doing this in my secret place; I always find myself crying with bitterness of heart, I couldn’t share my pains with anyone, so I kept it a secret to myself.
This habit stunted my spiritual growth, I was struggling
with this act and at a point I got very frustrated because I was really struggling spiritually.I kept confessing sin every week, sometimes twice a week; guilt and condemnation overcame me.
I masturbate daily and I cried daily.. Whenever I’m touched with a message, I’m always genuinely broken, I promised God I would not do it anymore, but I couldn’t fufil my promise..
This weakened me, it reduced my strength that I couldn’t pray anymore… Even though I wish to share this with someone, but I’m always scared and shy!
What if they know? They will make jest of me, they will see me as a sinner! This is always my thoughts.
After 8years of hiding my pains; I decided to open up to a man of God! I stopped nursing this secret, and that’s where my victory started..
Overcoming this addiction is never an easy or straightforward process. It requires conscious work, effort and time….
Here are however some steps that helped me beat my addiction..
1. I Acknowledge my addiction and Admit I can beat it, I believe my addiction does not defines me..Yes, I have an addiction, my actions are sinful. But those things are not who I am.
2. I Take Responsibility;
When I started struggling with this, i blame others for the cause of my addiction, but during the process of freedom, I stopped blaming others.. It hurt, it is hard. But nothing about this process is easy.
I stop making excuses, I stop blaming other people or circumstances, and stop justifying my actions..
Instead, I acknowledge personal responsibility for the decisions and actions that led me to it. I know what happened in the past can no longer be changed. Also, I take a moment to forgive yourself for indulging in this addiction.
3: I went back to God!
I went back to him on my knees! I surrender my life totally to him to help me! I tarried in his presence! I ask for Mercy, I confess my sins to him…. If he don’t help me, where else can I go? Nowhere!
4. I Gain Knowledge and Support!
The more knowledge I have about my addiction, the greater sense of control I have over this behavior. I gathered knowledge from books, articles, videos,etc. I Read and watch everything I can on the topic. The more i know, the more you i understand how to overcome them.
Also, I Seek out people who are working through this addiction or who have successfully overcome it.
5. I Generate a New Behavior:
Reshaping my belief systems is never an easy or straightforward process. It takes work and effort… I dealt with my source of temptation such as lustful thought, pornographic pictures etc.
6: I Take Gradual Steps:
Overcoming an addiction isn’t something I do in a day, week or even a month. It’s something that i work on over time. Old habits/addictions fade, but they never truly go away, which is why I was vigilant at all times to stay the course.
You see, masturbation is like a tree with roots. Unless the roots are removed, it will continue to release poisons that damage you.The longer you allow the roots to remain in
you, the deeper the damages it will cause..
Hmm, while enjoying my freedom from masturbation, I make mistake again and fall; BUT I DON’T ALLOW THAT FALL TO HOLD ME DOWN, I QUICKLY RUN BACK TO GOD IN REPENTANCE.
1John 2:1 says “My dear children, I amwriting this to you so that you will not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ, the one who is truly righteous.”
NOTE: Here is just a testimony of how someone overcame masturbation..
YOU TOO CAN BE SAVED!
You are child of God. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. God’s love for you has not diminished or decreased. And it will not, because it isn’t dependent upon your behavior…
Stop feeling rejected! Work towards it and surrender your life to him!
JESUS LOVES YOU.
Share your victorious testimonies with others! Each victory will help some others to win! Fight manfully onward! Look ever to Jesus, He will carry you through..
Thanks for reading through!
I pray that you will be blessed through this and you shall be free indeed..
See you next time!
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I’ve made up my mind to expoe this old cargo today, Her full name is Kenza Emeline Jein. She’s a married businesswoman who deals in ladies’ fashion
She’s so un-gråté-ful. I’ve had an affair for about 4 years gone with this w0-man. She claimed her husband wasn’t satisfying her in bed, I was always at her service whenever she needed me. In turn, she rented an apartment for me, opened up a shoe business for me, also gave me pocket allowances per month.
Our relationship had been moving well until she got pregnant with the second child & gave birth to a baby girl about 6 months ago. Afterwards, she automatically changed & suddenly stopped seeing me & picking my calls, even went to the extent of blocking me. I only get to reach her when I use a different line. Immediately she realizes it’s me, she’ll cut the call after telling me she’s no longer interested in the relationship, then block the new line too.
I was shocked by this new development. I’ve lost the girl I loved so much & who loved me so much too, all because of this woman. Now she thinks she can just use & dump me like that after giving her two beautiful kids, like I’m some kind of rag. See, I’m not a kid, Mrs. Jein. If you think you can play me like a child, then you should think twice.
Even my business is going down, my house rent has expired, my landlord isn’t giving me any breathing space. I’ve asked this woman for just 2.5million as compensation so i can move on & fix my l!fe that she destroyed but she has given a deaf ear.
Mrs Jein, I’ve given you 2 beautiful girls & I cannot be here suffering while I’ve been wasting my time & energy servicing & giving an old cargo fresh blood with absolutely nothing of benefit nor gain. You very well know our affair cost me my sweet relationship. All bcoz of you i lost the woman that truly loves me. However, I do not need the kids either; you can keep them. I’m 24yrs old still young with fresh blood; I can always make other babies.
I only insist that you compensate me with 2.5 million for my time & energy wasted on you. If not. You leave me with no choice than get back at you by uploading your n””-ü,”ds on social media & also come for my babies & you’ll lose everything, which I’m very sure you wouldn’t want that. This is a promise Mrs Jein. You can’t use me & dump me like a rag; I’m not a kid madam! I’m giving just a week to see that money in my account so i can fix my life i do not want any trouble”
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In 2003, Chief Chuba Okadigbo was allegedly gassed with poisonous tear gas in Kano State, Nigeria
Okadigbo also known as the Oyi of Oyi was Vice presidential aspirant of the All Nigeria People’s Party (ANPP) with Mohammad Buhari, as leader of the ticket.
Unlike other Igbo politicians who aligned themselves with their Igbo kinsmen, Okadigbo aligned himself with the North and had more respect for the Northern region and its people.
Okadigbo attended the rally which was held in Kano State Nigeria.
Apart from the Governor of Kano State, no other ANPP Governor was in attendance which was unusual.
Aware of Okadigbo’s respiratory health challenge (asthma), the then federal government under the reign of Chief Olusegun Obasanjo did not want the rally to proceed.
Security personnel mounted the gate to prevent entry, but this did not sit well with the Kano State Governor; Malam Ibrahim Shekarau, so he ordered the youths to bring down the gate allowing opposition figures to enter.
Police in order to instill calmness released tear gas which they allegedly poured on ANPP leaders in the rally.
According to Hajiya Naja’tu Mohammad report to Voice Of America (VOA), Okadigbo’s body was allegedly soaked with the offensive smelling liquid.
He lost control of his breathe after inhaling the substance and the other party men administered first aid on him in a bid to revive him.
He eventually gave up the ghost in his Asokoro home, Abuja a day or two after the tear gas event.
Many still believed that there is more to his dæth.
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I slept with my younger sisters husband on their wedding eve and Ever since then I swore that I would take her husband away from her no matter the cost.
The whole thing began when I and Chris (my sisters husband) started chatting on Facebook, by then Chris and my sister haven’t met. I fell deeply for Chris and I always imagined him as the father of my kids, but through our chat Chris never confessed any love to me.
One day while I was bathing I received a text from Chris asking us to meet. I was curious to meet him for the first time in person, but as girls I had to force him to let me tag my sister along . Chris obliged but after so many persistence he gave in .
When I and my sister got to the location of the dinner date, Chris and my sister got along to the extent I began to feel left out throughout the dinner night. When we were done Chris exchanged contacts with my sister.
After that day I and Chris kept chatting but something changed. Chris would some times leave my message read but still won’t reply.
After few weeks of Chris change of behaviour I felt like he was no longer interested in me so I completely blocked him. Two days after I blocked him .
One day while I was laying on the parlour couch pressing my phone, my sister rushed to me screaming.
“He asked me to be his girlfriend, rachel he asked me to be his girlfriend ” she said repeatedly.
“WHO! who asked you to be his girlfriend?” I asked sitting up well.
“Chris, the guy I followed you to a dinner date with few weeks ago” she said rejoicing.
At that point I felt this grudge in my heart for my sister but I decided to let go concluding that Chris was never mine that’s why.
Soon my sister started going on dates and shopping with Chris. It even got to a point that Chris bought her a car to ease her to work.
On one special evening while I was in the parlour with a friend, I noticed my sister walking downstairs and spraying fragrance in the entire house.
I was curious so I asked her the reason she was spraying the house and of course it was because Chris was coming to visit.
After few hours Chris walked in and they hugged and k!ssed right in front of us. My friend was already offended but she waited for them to leave.
“Is that not the guy that you told me you both had a thing before ?”
“Yes he is the one I told you about, but nothing to worry; if it’s meant to be, it will be” I said and scoffed .
“But if you don’t work for it to be how will it be” my friend said to me and walked out.
I was sitting all alone in the parlour when my sister walked in with bright smiles on her face. As soon as she saw me she stretched her hand out and revealed the engagement ring. That was when I know that I had to take back what rightfully belongs to me by all means.
TO BE CONTINUED ON
SLEEPING WITH MY SISTER’S HUSBAND EPISODE 1
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