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YES! I was once an addict to masturbation, infact, I almost obtained my degree certificate in it
HOW I OVERCAME MASTURBATION!
It started from my secondary school days, when I involved myself in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, My boyfriend then was matured than me and I was easily exposed to most things except sex… Maybe if I didn’t met him, I would not have been a victim..
Even we didn’t had sex, I fell into the trap of masturbation even without watching porn.. Nobody taught me how to masturbate, infact, nobody told me what I do is called masturbation before I know the Name..
(What a demonic Spirit).
Gradually! I started watching porn and I move from one grade to another…
After doing this in my secret place; I always find myself crying with bitterness of heart, I couldn’t share my pains with anyone, so I kept it a secret to myself.
This habit stunted my spiritual growth, I was struggling
with this act and at a point I got very frustrated because I was really struggling spiritually.I kept confessing sin every week, sometimes twice a week; guilt and condemnation overcame me.
I masturbate daily and I cried daily.. Whenever I’m touched with a message, I’m always genuinely broken, I promised God I would not do it anymore, but I couldn’t fufil my promise..
This weakened me, it reduced my strength that I couldn’t pray anymore… Even though I wish to share this with someone, but I’m always scared and shy!
What if they know? They will make jest of me, they will see me as a sinner! This is always my thoughts.
After 8years of hiding my pains; I decided to open up to a man of God! I stopped nursing this secret, and that’s where my victory started..
Overcoming this addiction is never an easy or straightforward process. It requires conscious work, effort and time….
Here are however some steps that helped me beat my addiction..
1. I Acknowledge my addiction and Admit I can beat it, I believe my addiction does not defines me..Yes, I have an addiction, my actions are sinful. But those things are not who I am.
2. I Take Responsibility;
When I started struggling with this, i blame others for the cause of my addiction, but during the process of freedom, I stopped blaming others.. It hurt, it is hard. But nothing about this process is easy.
I stop making excuses, I stop blaming other people or circumstances, and stop justifying my actions..
Instead, I acknowledge personal responsibility for the decisions and actions that led me to it. I know what happened in the past can no longer be changed. Also, I take a moment to forgive yourself for indulging in this addiction.
3: I went back to God!
I went back to him on my knees! I surrender my life totally to him to help me! I tarried in his presence! I ask for Mercy, I confess my sins to him…. If he don’t help me, where else can I go? Nowhere!
4. I Gain Knowledge and Support!
The more knowledge I have about my addiction, the greater sense of control I have over this behavior. I gathered knowledge from books, articles, videos,etc. I Read and watch everything I can on the topic. The more i know, the more you i understand how to overcome them.
Also, I Seek out people who are working through this addiction or who have successfully overcome it.
5. I Generate a New Behavior:
Reshaping my belief systems is never an easy or straightforward process. It takes work and effort… I dealt with my source of temptation such as lustful thought, pornographic pictures etc.
6: I Take Gradual Steps:
Overcoming an addiction isn’t something I do in a day, week or even a month. It’s something that i work on over time. Old habits/addictions fade, but they never truly go away, which is why I was vigilant at all times to stay the course.
You see, masturbation is like a tree with roots. Unless the roots are removed, it will continue to release poisons that damage you.The longer you allow the roots to remain in
you, the deeper the damages it will cause..
Hmm, while enjoying my freedom from masturbation, I make mistake again and fall; BUT I DON’T ALLOW THAT FALL TO HOLD ME DOWN, I QUICKLY RUN BACK TO GOD IN REPENTANCE.
1John 2:1 says “My dear children, I amwriting this to you so that you will not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ, the one who is truly righteous.”
NOTE: Here is just a testimony of how someone overcame masturbation..
YOU TOO CAN BE SAVED!
You are child of God. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. God’s love for you has not diminished or decreased. And it will not, because it isn’t dependent upon your behavior…
Stop feeling rejected! Work towards it and surrender your life to him!
JESUS LOVES YOU.
Share your victorious testimonies with others! Each victory will help some others to win! Fight manfully onward! Look ever to Jesus, He will carry you through..
Thanks for reading through!
I pray that you will be blessed through this and you shall be free indeed..
See you next time!
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His first coming was like a lamb…
He was slaughtered.
So his 2nd coming is as a Lion – he will slaughter them -Charles Awuzie Analysis on Donald Trump
While I may have fundamental differences with Donald Trump as a person, but I am open minded to learn from his intentionality.
The problem I have with humans is bias – if they love Kamala then everything about Trump must be evil. And if they love Trump, anyone who disagrees with him is antichrist. The same applies to those who love Tinubu but think Obi is a scam and those who love Obi but sees nothing good in Tinubu – just low vibration, low frequency human consciousness – symptom of an ‘Unstretched’ Mind.
There are very few humans who are conscious of their own bias and are genuinely making efforts to KEEP AN OPEN MIND. These ones have STRETCHED their minds.
I have learnt so much from President Bola Ahmed Tinubu and his political moves.
I have learnt also from President Donald Trump.
I have learnt from the Holy Koran just as I have learned from the Holy Bible.
And That’s how I maintain a constant flow of inspiration – by keeping an open mind.
Trump’s intentional use of Crypto, Religion and Nationalism is worth studying.
Crypto is the modern financial culture – it’s a cult.
Religion is an ancient universal culture – it’s a cult.
Nationalism excludes people who are not from your nation while placing your nation first – it’s a cult.
This cult strategy wins every time if well executed.
If you want to win an election in your country, align with the ideals of the majority. If they want to deport all immigrants, champion it even if your wife and biggest donors are both immigrants.
Politics is a mind game. If you don’t understand this, you are still a baby. The difference between a smiling Trump and a frowning Trump is Mind Game. Your mind will effortlessly liken him to the lamb and Lion branding of Jesus.
Good morning!
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Ladies beware of this man. He tricked me that he’ll divorce his wife & marry me not knowing they’re all fat lies!
I met this guy in 2022. I thought he was genuine & i fell for his looks not knowing that he is Lucifer’s twin brother who dresses in suit & tie. We dated for 3yrs but, he never took me to his house. He claims to be married with 2 kids but unhappy & also convinced me that he was no longer interested in his wife, promising to divorce her to be with me
He claims his parents pressurized him to marry the girl & after 4 yrs he’s fed up with the marriage & wants a divorce because he’s not happy in the marriage. I took him for his word after he successfully convincing me I’m the one that he truly loves & wanted to be with, promising to marry me as soon as the divorce proceedings with his wife was over, i believed him. During this time, I became pregnant with his child, & we now have a one-year-old daughter.
However, I’ve since discovered that he never initiated any divorce proceedings. Instead, he’s been using me emotionally & financially. instead of him giving me money like a man will normally do for the woman he claims to love, he has been collecting money from me. His latest excuse is that he doesn’t want to marry a woman with children from previous relationships. Gerald, so after 2 yrs you just realized that I’m a baby mama of 2 kids from different relationships!!? After using me all this time. I swrr Gerald, my God will surely Ponizh you!!
Ladies, plz beware of this guy, i want to xp0z h!m so others wouldn’t fall for his lies. pls, don’t fall for this guy. he’s even cute for nothing, he’s not even good in bed, a 2 minute man who wines his waste like an old grandmother who is sick of waist pain & on top of that, a fat l!år & a big ch!tt! plz help me xp0z this guy, he’s full names are Chanfe Gerald ike, he works as a traveling consultant”
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UNZA student jailed three years for phone thefts
UNIVERSITY of Zambia student’s quest to become a doctor has been temporarily halted after he was together with his ‘business’ partner for stealing phones from six students.
The student, Mike Musonda, 26, and his co-accused Equinox Tembo,24, unemployed, were jailed three years imprisonment with hard labour for stealing six phones valued at more than K14,000.
Musonda and Tembo appeared in court last week charged with six counts of theft, offences committed between August 1 and October 31, 2024.
Between the same dates, the duo stole a samsung galaxy M34 worth K4,500 from Grace Chanda, while in the second count, the accused stole an Iphone 6 worth K2,000 from Beatrice Mutale.
Accusations in the third count are that the accused stole a Huawei Pic Lite with K2,500 from Natasha Nyawa and that in the fourth count, the duo also stole an Itel S23 phone worth K2,500 from Catherine Chipasha.
In count five, the accused stole an Itel KB7 worth K2,600 from Dorcas Moyo and later stole a Techno pop 6 valued at K,1,800, the property of Mishel Siwale, in respect of the last count.
The both admitted the charges before Lusaka magistrate Amy Masoja-Chilangwa and told the court they had no claim to right to the phones.
Evidence is that during the material times, the first complaint, Ms Chanda, an UNZA student, was on her way to campus when she met Musonda, who introduced himself as an entrepreneur.
Musonda, who informed Ms Chanda that he was looking for people to ‘work’ with, later introduced her to Tembo, while at UNZA campus.
At the time, Ms Chanda had called her friend Beatrice Mutale informing her about a ‘job’ the two gentlemen were offering.
The accused later told Ms Chanda and Ms Mutale that they needed to capture their details so that they could give them identity cards for the ‘job’.
The accused then got a Samsung and an iPhone phone from the ladies on the pretext that they would get some details from the gadgets.
Musonda left with the phones leaving behind Tembo with the ladies before the latter also excused himself claiming that he wanted to use the toilet before he disappeared.
After realizing that they had been duped, the two ladies rushed to the university main entrance to alert security.
On the way, the duo met Tembo who then fled before the ladies ,security guards and other students pursued him while shouting thief.
After being apprehended, Tembo led security guards to the apprehension of Musonda before the duo was taken to Kalundu Police Post.
When news of the detention of the duo spread through campus, other affected students emerged and reported that their phones were equally stolen in a similar manner.
The affected victims went to Kalundu Police Station and gave their statements and positively identify the accused as the ones who stole their phones, which were not recovered.
In mitigation, Musonda, a medical student, asked for forgiveness because he had learnt a lesson while in remand
I’ve seen how much my friends are in pain because they now know that freedom is important. I’ve lost my sister and I am the first born. If I go for a long time, my family will be in pain” he said.
The convict said his conduct was motivated by joining bad company saying “It’s just that the friends I met made me start doing bad things’,” Musonda said.
The court heard that Musonda is a third year student but never wrote exams.
“So, instead of studying you were duping people” the magistrate said.
On his part, Tembo equally asked for leniency, pledging never to re-offend because “I am not supposed to do bad things. I want to go back to school. I want to rewrite biology”.
“You want to join him(Musonda) after rewriting biology,” the magistrate queried.
The magistrate observed that the convicts were not fully remorseful for stealing students phones, which carry vital information.
She sentenced them to three years imprisonment each.