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That phrase, ’till death do us part’ or ‘for better for worse’ isn’t for this generation – True life story of a Nigerian bus driver

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I am a commercial driver in the city of Lagos. I’m married with three children. I love my wife and children and make sure they’re not denied the good things of life I can afford. I do well financially because the bus I’m driving is mine and don’t account for anyone.

Things were going on well, we’ll have issues and settle. I believe my wife loves me as much as I love her. I did not hold back from showing her that I love her. Little did I know she’d show me the true meaning of ‘terrible.’

My problem started when I had an accident that almost claimed my life, my legs were affected badly and I stayed months at LUTH. My wife stayed with me giving me care but pouring her frustration on me. I didn’t bother as I understood her reasons. She was angry money wasn’t coming in and I was using my savings to pay for hospital bills. My family was giving the little they have and coming to see us regularly at the hospital. Sometimes, they stay with me while my wife goes back to the children.

The accident almost incapacitated me because it affected my wife’s behavior towards me. She stopped seeing the future with me. On one occasion, she lashed at me and the nurses scolded her. I was bearing her ill treatments believing she’ll change or even understand I didn’t bring this predicament to myself and that anybody can be involved in an accident. Some people’s situations change even without an accident.
Several times, I’ve pleaded with her while in the hospital bed to bear with me and put up with this situation, that once I’m out, healthy and strong, things will be fine. But that didn’t yield any change in her attitude towards me. I resorted to bearing her and pretending those things weren’t happening.

On several occasions, she had told me that this is not what she will do all her life but I didn’t read meaning to that. I took it as mere words coming from someone who is angry. Sometimes, she will come stay with me at the hospital other days I won’t see her, I will call her on phone but to no avail. This kept happening and I stopped complaining since other caregivers whose loved ones are in same ward with me were helping me.

One morning, my wife brought my three kids to the hospital, I was happy believing it was a visit to see their father not knowing my wife brought them because she’s leaving me. In her exact words, she said, I’m tired of this thing, I am leaving. See your children.’ Before I could understand what she said, she had left. I was confused, I couldn’t talk, I felt my life was finished. How do I take care of these children while being confined in a hospital bed.

I called my family to inform them of the new development. They tried to reach her and her family members but it was futile.
My family members took my children.

When I got better a little, I begged to be discharged because I have exhausted all I had saved. I brought my two sons back to stay with me because I’d be needing help to stand and move around while I allow the eldest one my daughter to stay with my brother.
I’m looking forward to start something small in front of my house if I see money to help me cater for the two children with me. Since my wife left me, it hasn’t been easy but I believe I will be up on my feet one day and my children won’t forget my little efforts towards them.

If you ask me if I had seen the other side of life, do you know my reply? I have seen the extreme side of life!

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The Controversy Surrounding Prophet Jeremiah Omotosho and Very Dark Man

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In recent weeks, Prophet Jeremiah Omotosho, a notable figure in the Nigerian religious community, has become the center of a heated controversy. This drama unfolds as “Very Dark Man” challenges the authenticity of Prophet Omotosho’s spiritual products, leading to a legal dispute that has caught the attention of many.

 

Prophet Omotosho is renowned for offering spiritual guidance and selling items claimed to possess miraculous properties, including soap, water, and LED bulbs. These products are marketed as having the power to heal and bring wealth, with prices sometimes exceeding $1500.

The controversy began when “Very Dark Man” questioned the legitimacy of these claims. He demanded proof of the NAFDAC (National Agency for Food and Drug Administration and Control) number associated with the soap and called for transparency about the spiritual materials used. In response, Prophet Omotosho has filed a lawsuit against “Very Dark Man,” alleging defamation and demanding an investigation.

The case has ignited a broader debate about the ethics of monetizing spiritual services. Here are some key concerns of the public:

  1. Exploitation of Faith: Critics argue that selling spiritual items at such high prices exploits individuals’ faith and desperation. The hefty price tags on these items raise ethical questions about the intentions behind their sale.
  2. Lack of Transparency: The absence of clear information regarding the ingredients and spiritual efficacy of these products has fueled skepticism. People are demanding more transparency about what exactly is being sold and whether these products genuinely deliver on their promises.
  3. Reputation of the Church: The scandal surrounding Prophet Omotosho has broader implications for the Christian community. When high-profile religious leaders become embroiled in controversies, it can erode public trust in the church and its leaders.

The ongoing lawsuit highlights the contentious nature of this issue. The outcome of this legal battle could set a precedent for how similar cases are handled in the future and might influence the practices of other religious leaders.

The situation with Prophet Jeremiah Omotosho serves as a crucial reminder of the complex dynamics at play when faith and commerce intersect. As legal proceedings continue, it is essential for both religious leaders and followers to consider the ethical implications of selling spiritual services and to advocate for greater transparency and integrity within the faith community, else the Christian community would be jeopardized by fake prophets and extortion of the general public.

 

source: https://www.churchpost.name.ng/2024/08/the-controversy-surrounding-prophet.html

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My mom was everything to me. Unfortunately, after we lost my dad, my mom fell into deep depression, and her mental illness has since taken her to another level

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My Journey with My Mentally Ill Mother

My mom was everything to me. Unfortunately, after we lost my dad, my mom fell into deep depression, and her mental illness has since taken her to another level. But despite everything, I have never forgotten my mom or the sacrifices she made for me. It’s because of her, and by God’s grace, that I am here today. Every day, I bring her food, clean up her bed, and take care of her, even though it breaks my heart to see her this way.

It hurts deeply when people refer to me as “that daughter of a mad woman.” But I will never deny my mom. Most people who come close to me often distance themselves once they realize that I’m the daughter of a well-known mentally ill woman in the market. They mock me because of my mom’s condition, but I stand firm in my love and respect for her.

Mommy, I love you. You remain my mom, and nothing will ever change that. You gave birth to me, and I’m here to stay by your side. I will always love you, and I promise that I’ll never abandon you, Mama.

Sometimes, I can’t help but envy my friends whose moms are all okay, and I wish everything were fine with you, Mommy. But despite everything, you are still my mother, and my love for you will never fade.

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Look at me now—a child abandoned by her own mother when she was just 7 months old. My story is one of pain, survival, and ultimately, triumph

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I was raised by my grandmother, but at age 7, I lost her too. My father took me in, and I was overjoyed at the thought of finally living with him. Little did I know, it was the beginning of a long, dark chapter in my life. My stepmother was cruel, subjecting me to all kinds of maltreatment. There were times I went hungry for days, starved to the point where I would see darkness in broad daylight. Once, in desperation, I ate our dog’s leftover food, only to be caught by the neighbor’s son. His mother later called me over and asked if it was true. Terrified, I begged her not to tell my stepmother, knowing she would punish me severely for not throwing the food away.

That kind woman wept for me and promised to give me food every day in secret. She kept that promise until we moved away. But as if starving me wasn’t enough, my stepmother also resorted to brutal beatings. She would flog me mercilessly until I fainted at times. She would apply pepper to my private parts, eyes, armpits, and neck, tie me up, and abandon me in one of the toilets for hours without food. When I begged for water, she would cruelly tell me to drink my own excrement and urine. I shed tears whenever I remember these things—I was living in hell on earth.

Despite all these horrors, I was bright academically and loved by God and many kind people. I knew that the only way to escape this suffering was through education, so I never joked with my studies. I was determined to succeed, and I did.

So you see, I have every right to be hateful, bitter, jealous, arrogant, sad, negative, and toxic—but I chose not to be. For years, my stepmother has been trying to reach me. But if I’m honest, I don’t know if I’m ready for her. And as for my mother, who chose to leave me—her own daughter, her firstborn—just because she had issues with my father, wherever you are, Momma, I want you to know this: The daughter you abandoned 29 years ago has finally achieved her dreams, even without the love of a father or mother. She is now a great woman in society.



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