RELATIONSHIP
My ex-husband and I dated for 6 years. We where best of friends.I waited until he completed college and started work. My family and his family then met.We got married and had a son
A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER WROTE:
I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it’s good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.
I am 32 years of age.
My ex-husband and I dated for 6 years. We where best of friends.I waited until he completed college and started work. My family and his family then met.We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).
My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn’t control me.
Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.
If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me. I never wanted divorce. I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.
One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside. I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!
But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally. He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case. I felt that what I was doing was wrong.
My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.
I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled. After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone. After two days, I
received a call that he was in the hospital.
My family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.
All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.
I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me. I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.
Yes, it is possible to love someone and not like the person. Love and liking are two distinct emotions that can coexist or exist separately. Here’s a breakdown:
Love:
– Deep emotional connection
– Unconditional acceptance
– Commitment and responsibility
– Empathy and compassion
– Long-term attachment
Liking:
– Enjoying someone’s company
– Sharing common interests
– Appreciating their personality
– Feeling comfortable and relaxed around them
– Short-term pleasure
You can love someone for who they are, their values, and the memories you share, but not necessarily like their behavior, habits, or personality traits. This can happen in various situations, such as:
1. Family relationships: You may love your family members but not necessarily like their behavior or actions.
2. Romantic relationships: You may love your partner but not like their habits or personality quirks.
3. Friendships: You may love your friends but not like their behavior or decisions.
Remember, love is a complex emotion that encompasses acceptance, empathy, and commitment. Liking is more about enjoyment and pleasure. It’s possible to love someone without liking them all the time, and vice versa.
RELATIONSHIP
My boyfriend has never cheated on me. Any lady that tries to come close, he reports her to me. I love him so much – Nigerian Lady
My boyfriend has never cheated on me. Any lady that tries to come close, he reports her to me. I love him so much. Even though I’m not working, this man you see here gives me money each time I ask and also provides for my every need. Unlike other men, he allows me to check his phone whenever I want, assuring me that I have absolutely no reason to worry or doubt him.
We’ve been through thick and thin together. I stood by him even when he had nothing, and now God is gradually blessing us. Today, we have a TV of our own, a good bed, a fridge, and other luxurious properties. Our lives have changed for the better.
God will bless us more, my love, and I also promise to always stand by you. It’s a blessing to have you, my king. Today, I’m so proud to show you off to the world. You are my boss, every woman’s dream, my leader, and God-sent husband-to-be. I’m so proud to be your woman.
Please, wish us well as we continue to build our lives together.❤️
Sex is lawful in marriage, it’s one of the rights of married couples in the family. But I need to let you know that, there are some forms of sex you must never have in your family. They are: 9 S£X YOU MUST NEVER HAVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE
1.BROWN S£X: Sex is called brown if you have it with anyone that is not your spouse. It’s known as adultery, affairs or infidelity . It easily destroys marriage, avoid it.
2.YELLOW SEX: This is the kind of sex that happens between a couple who always struggle to sleep together. They fight often fight about sex and it has turn to a bone of contention in their marriage instead of being a tool of intimacy and love.
3.RED SEX: This a sexless marriage. Couples in it hardly make love because bitterness in marriage has taken over to the level of war.So, they hardly sleep together.
4. NECESSITY SEX: I met a couple recently, who have not been in talking term for Months but they still sleep together regularly because they need Children. They will just sleep together inside darkness, roll to the other side and sleep off but continue their fight the second day, this is a necessity Sex.
5. GRUDGE MATCH: This is the kind of sex where couple sleep together without love or affection, they do it without any affection or desire. They only have sex as a responsibility in marriage or to give peace a chance. This is very common among wives.
6.BABY SEX: This is when couples sleep together only when they need sex. They believe sex is not for love or pleasure ,it should only happen when baby is needed, this is very wrong. Sex should bring couple together and should be done regularly and joyfully.
7.FRIDGE SEX: This is also known as “No Action sex”. This involves husband and wife sleeping together but cold or when a “Fridge” action is displayed by the wife. That is, she is never involve; only lie down like a log of wood.It’s a bad example of sex in Marriage .
