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WHAT MEN ACCUSE WOMEN OF WHEN IT COMES TO SEX
1. Many women dress up for the public but they don’t put as much effort to dress up for their husband in bed. Lady, your number one audience is your man
2. Many women complain that their husbands don’t sex them good, yet they do not express what they want their husbands to sexually do to them. Lady, your man doesn’t read minds
3. Many women are shy in bed, largely because of their low self esteem making the husband feel as if he is forcing a sexual encounter with her since she comes off as disengaged in the act. Lady work on your self esteem, it directly affects your sex life
4. Many women do not praise their husband’s performance in bed even when he is good. Lady, the more you talk well about his penis, the way he touches you, the way he licks you; the more he want to please you. Work on his ego
5. Many women belittle their husband, talk down at him with disrespect and then expect him to give great sex. Lady, when you undermine him and talk to him as if he is not man enough because he doesn’t earn “enough money”, he has failed in his goals a few times; be sure he will not be so interested in making love to you
6. Many women are inactive during sex because they think it is the husband’s role to lead in sex. So she lies in bed, lifeless, passive and bored expecting him to do all the sexual heavy lifting. Lady, men too want to be sexually made advances on: both of you giving, both of you taking
7. Many women think that complaining and nagging will get a man to do the right thing. What they fail to realize is that it only leads to the man repelling the woman, he will struggle to desire to kiss her and touch her. She will drain him. To get a man to do what you want, inspire him, compliment him for the good he has done so far, show him how him doing right makes you smile because men love to be the reason a woman smiles. Then in bed, he will pursue you because he feels safe with you
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My boyfriend has never cheated on me. Any lady that tries to come close, he reports her to me. I love him so much – Nigerian Lady
My boyfriend has never cheated on me. Any lady that tries to come close, he reports her to me. I love him so much. Even though I’m not working, this man you see here gives me money each time I ask and also provides for my every need. Unlike other men, he allows me to check his phone whenever I want, assuring me that I have absolutely no reason to worry or doubt him.
We’ve been through thick and thin together. I stood by him even when he had nothing, and now God is gradually blessing us. Today, we have a TV of our own, a good bed, a fridge, and other luxurious properties. Our lives have changed for the better.
God will bless us more, my love, and I also promise to always stand by you. It’s a blessing to have you, my king. Today, I’m so proud to show you off to the world. You are my boss, every woman’s dream, my leader, and God-sent husband-to-be. I’m so proud to be your woman.
Please, wish us well as we continue to build our lives together.❤️
Sex is lawful in marriage, it’s one of the rights of married couples in the family. But I need to let you know that, there are some forms of sex you must never have in your family. They are: 9 S£X YOU MUST NEVER HAVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE
1.BROWN S£X: Sex is called brown if you have it with anyone that is not your spouse. It’s known as adultery, affairs or infidelity . It easily destroys marriage, avoid it.
2.YELLOW SEX: This is the kind of sex that happens between a couple who always struggle to sleep together. They fight often fight about sex and it has turn to a bone of contention in their marriage instead of being a tool of intimacy and love.
3.RED SEX: This a sexless marriage. Couples in it hardly make love because bitterness in marriage has taken over to the level of war.So, they hardly sleep together.
4. NECESSITY SEX: I met a couple recently, who have not been in talking term for Months but they still sleep together regularly because they need Children. They will just sleep together inside darkness, roll to the other side and sleep off but continue their fight the second day, this is a necessity Sex.
5. GRUDGE MATCH: This is the kind of sex where couple sleep together without love or affection, they do it without any affection or desire. They only have sex as a responsibility in marriage or to give peace a chance. This is very common among wives.
6.BABY SEX: This is when couples sleep together only when they need sex. They believe sex is not for love or pleasure ,it should only happen when baby is needed, this is very wrong. Sex should bring couple together and should be done regularly and joyfully.
7.FRIDGE SEX: This is also known as “No Action sex”. This involves husband and wife sleeping together but cold or when a “Fridge” action is displayed by the wife. That is, she is never involve; only lie down like a log of wood.It’s a bad example of sex in Marriage .
1) Avoid a broke woman who depends on you for money and spend it unnecessarily , She’s a financial vampire and parasite, she will ruin you and date another man
2) Avoid an arrogant woman who doesn’t takes instructions, corrections and direction from you. But love so much fake life , that always pressure you to buy any latest expensive trending materials , as a STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN you can’t go far with such woman
3) Avoid an agree woman who’s always quarreling and fighting with you, who disrespect you and give you no peace.
4) Avoid a woman who’s surrounded by many men, who she calls her friends or bestie. Those men are your replacement waiting for your relationship to have problems and then they will move in and replace you.
5) Avoid a woman who doesn’t want to listen to your simple explanation but always want what she need from you and doesn’t care how you will go about risking your life to get it for her.
6) Avoid woman, that’s without handwork and she’s not ready to learn any, the economic is not favorable, you may not have money always as a husband or boyfriend , most men you see out there, their wife is their backbone financially, having a good plan together with your wife is the secret of most men success.
7 ) Avoid high demanding woman, you can never get or achieve ur dreams with such woman, as a STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN.
8) Avoid woman who doesn’t appreciate your little efforts to make her okay, such woman doesn’t think of the past sacrifices, if she sees any boy that is doing more better than you she will leave you.
Men, always be guided…
