Viral Gist
One incident that gave my dad a leg-up in his business was when someone slumped and there was no heartbeat, my dad performed CPR and revived the person before rushing him to the hospital. That singular act, made everyone go to him for solutions to their health issues.
The uncertainty of life can happen to anyone, be prepared and ready to adjust when there’s an upend in life. Nothing seems to be permanent.
That, is the summary of my life.
Growing up in the northern part of Nigeria is a side of my story that I will always treasure.
My dad lived in a community in Kaduna, he used to be a chemist man whose business thrived because he was everyone’s go to when they fall sick. He is not a trained pharmacist neither is he a medical person but from his life story he told us, he learnt the trade (the usual Igbo apprenticeship system) from his community man living in another part of the northern community, whose business excelled too. My father was good with drugs that he knows drugs to give when there’s a health issue(s) except for very serious cases.
One incident that gave him a leg-up in his business was when someone slumped and there was no heartbeat, my dad performed CPR and revived the person before rushing him to the hospital. That singular act, made everyone go to him for solutions to their health issues. They see him as their doctor and even referred to him as a doctor. If my dad tells a patient to go to the hospital, just know that it is a serious issue. The people were always afraid when my dad refers them to the hospital because it means the case is serious.
Aside being their doctor, my dad is also a counselor, settling family feud, and he was involved with the affairs of the community like he is a northerner. He bagged a title conferred to him by the community head.That, is how prominent he is.
My father bought properties in KD, was taking care of his family, his siblings and parents because he was doing well financially even though he’s not the first son confirming the Igbo adage that the person who is able should bury his or her parents it mustn’t be the first son. We had very good upbringing and my dad is a disciplinarian who made sure we’re well behaved. He also doesn’t joke with his parents and siblings.
My father traveled to the village to see his parents as it is his duty every six months, he met his elder brother and family who returned home because things were very difficult for them in the city and they couldn’t keep up, reason they returned, to see if they can find their feet.
My dad was disturbed and asked why he didn’t call to inform him so he can move to Kaduna with his family instead of the village. He called my mom to inform her that he’ll be bringing his elder brother to our house in KD, to stay with us till he finds his feet and move his family.
My mom agreed because she is family oriented and a woman that sees her husband’s family as hers and carries everyone along.
My uncle Dubem arrived Kaduna and was receiving training from my dad and helping him out in the business. Uncle Dubem started going out with women. Every morning when we all leave the house including mom who sells Ankara in the market. Uncle Dubem will tell my dad he wants to go see a friend, he will take our house key without my dad’s knowledge and bring in women, sleep with them and go back to the shop. The day he was caught, he pleaded to my parents to allow him bring his wife and children to Kaduna as it will make him stop womanizing. My parents gave their consent and made financial arrangements and prepared the boy’s quarters for them, that became the beginning of our distress days.
To be continued
In recent weeks, Prophet Jeremiah Omotosho, a notable figure in the Nigerian religious community, has become the center of a heated controversy. This drama unfolds as “Very Dark Man” challenges the authenticity of Prophet Omotosho’s spiritual products, leading to a legal dispute that has caught the attention of many.
Prophet Omotosho is renowned for offering spiritual guidance and selling items claimed to possess miraculous properties, including soap, water, and LED bulbs. These products are marketed as having the power to heal and bring wealth, with prices sometimes exceeding $1500.
The controversy began when “Very Dark Man” questioned the legitimacy of these claims. He demanded proof of the NAFDAC (National Agency for Food and Drug Administration and Control) number associated with the soap and called for transparency about the spiritual materials used. In response, Prophet Omotosho has filed a lawsuit against “Very Dark Man,” alleging defamation and demanding an investigation.
The case has ignited a broader debate about the ethics of monetizing spiritual services. Here are some key concerns of the public:
- Exploitation of Faith: Critics argue that selling spiritual items at such high prices exploits individuals’ faith and desperation. The hefty price tags on these items raise ethical questions about the intentions behind their sale.
- Lack of Transparency: The absence of clear information regarding the ingredients and spiritual efficacy of these products has fueled skepticism. People are demanding more transparency about what exactly is being sold and whether these products genuinely deliver on their promises.
- Reputation of the Church: The scandal surrounding Prophet Omotosho has broader implications for the Christian community. When high-profile religious leaders become embroiled in controversies, it can erode public trust in the church and its leaders.
The ongoing lawsuit highlights the contentious nature of this issue. The outcome of this legal battle could set a precedent for how similar cases are handled in the future and might influence the practices of other religious leaders.
The situation with Prophet Jeremiah Omotosho serves as a crucial reminder of the complex dynamics at play when faith and commerce intersect. As legal proceedings continue, it is essential for both religious leaders and followers to consider the ethical implications of selling spiritual services and to advocate for greater transparency and integrity within the faith community, else the Christian community would be jeopardized by fake prophets and extortion of the general public.
source: https://www.churchpost.name.ng/2024/08/the-controversy-surrounding-prophet.html
Viral Gist
My mom was everything to me. Unfortunately, after we lost my dad, my mom fell into deep depression, and her mental illness has since taken her to another level
My Journey with My Mentally Ill Mother
My mom was everything to me. Unfortunately, after we lost my dad, my mom fell into deep depression, and her mental illness has since taken her to another level. But despite everything, I have never forgotten my mom or the sacrifices she made for me. It’s because of her, and by God’s grace, that I am here today. Every day, I bring her food, clean up her bed, and take care of her, even though it breaks my heart to see her this way.
It hurts deeply when people refer to me as “that daughter of a mad woman.” But I will never deny my mom. Most people who come close to me often distance themselves once they realize that I’m the daughter of a well-known mentally ill woman in the market. They mock me because of my mom’s condition, but I stand firm in my love and respect for her.
Mommy, I love you. You remain my mom, and nothing will ever change that. You gave birth to me, and I’m here to stay by your side. I will always love you, and I promise that I’ll never abandon you, Mama.
Sometimes, I can’t help but envy my friends whose moms are all okay, and I wish everything were fine with you, Mommy. But despite everything, you are still my mother, and my love for you will never fade.
Viral Gist
Look at me now—a child abandoned by her own mother when she was just 7 months old. My story is one of pain, survival, and ultimately, triumph
I was raised by my grandmother, but at age 7, I lost her too. My father took me in, and I was overjoyed at the thought of finally living with him. Little did I know, it was the beginning of a long, dark chapter in my life. My stepmother was cruel, subjecting me to all kinds of maltreatment. There were times I went hungry for days, starved to the point where I would see darkness in broad daylight. Once, in desperation, I ate our dog’s leftover food, only to be caught by the neighbor’s son. His mother later called me over and asked if it was true. Terrified, I begged her not to tell my stepmother, knowing she would punish me severely for not throwing the food away.
That kind woman wept for me and promised to give me food every day in secret. She kept that promise until we moved away. But as if starving me wasn’t enough, my stepmother also resorted to brutal beatings. She would flog me mercilessly until I fainted at times. She would apply pepper to my private parts, eyes, armpits, and neck, tie me up, and abandon me in one of the toilets for hours without food. When I begged for water, she would cruelly tell me to drink my own excrement and urine. I shed tears whenever I remember these things—I was living in hell on earth.
Despite all these horrors, I was bright academically and loved by God and many kind people. I knew that the only way to escape this suffering was through education, so I never joked with my studies. I was determined to succeed, and I did.
So you see, I have every right to be hateful, bitter, jealous, arrogant, sad, negative, and toxic—but I chose not to be. For years, my stepmother has been trying to reach me. But if I’m honest, I don’t know if I’m ready for her. And as for my mother, who chose to leave me—her own daughter, her firstborn—just because she had issues with my father, wherever you are, Momma, I want you to know this: The daughter you abandoned 29 years ago has finally achieved her dreams, even without the love of a father or mother. She is now a great woman in society.
This version emphasizes your strength and resilience while maintaining the emotional depth of your story. It highlights your achievements and the choices you’ve made despite the challenges you faced.
