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“My wife had a very interesting story. My wife was in a relationship for five years with a gentleman, nice guy, a Christian.

It’s not about marrying an Unbeliever, I will get to that point, the person can even be in the same Church with you but God is saying, ‘this is not My best’. There is a good, an acceptable and perfect Will of God, so they are in three categories. If you want to marry a good Christian that is good, it is acceptable but it might not be the perfect plan that God has. How many of you are getting what I am saying?

She was in a relationship for five years with another Christian.

The guy was a medical doctor, better and doing well. He just traveled to the UK to go and do his Masters. But you see all the while she was there she knew she wasn’t very happy, it was okay. Listen to me, when you are a child of God okay should not be okay with you. Okay is not God’s Will for you. She was okay, he was not a bad guy, good Christian guy. You know what happened?

One day God told her that, ‘call him, ask him that if I want you to do ministry, will he be okay with it?

Oh, my wife thought that was an easy question. He would agree. My wife picked her phone and called him, five years, they have done introduction, and asked him, ‘If God wants me to do ministry, will you be okay with it? He said, ‘never’. He said that is not what I want, I didn’t marry a Pastor. She was shocked because in her mind that was nothing.

God said, ‘the man you are with is not your husband ‘. God showed her by Scripture and that Scripture was that woman by the well. She was shocked and the relationship began to dwindle from that point until they finally broke up.

Now, when they broke up, she was saying that Lord the way You showed me through Scripture who I should not marry show me who I should marry.

By that time I was already in the picture. God showed her again first Samuel 16 or so, God said,’ the one you are supposed to marry, he is the last born, talking about David in the Bible and he is keeping sheep and God asked her, what position is Kingsley, that is me in his family? I am the last born in my family. And He said, ‘what do Pastors do? She said they are Shepherds, they keep sheep. God said, ‘ arise and anoint him for he is the one’, all in Scripture.

Are you getting what I am saying, somebody? So don’t just go by yourself, be led of God.

I know it’s not common in the younger generation but you are going to suffer it if you don’t follow God because God always has a better plan.

PRAYER:
For as many of you singles that I trusting God for a life partner in marriage, I join my faith with yours and pray that the Almighty reveal to you who it is that you would spend the rest of your life with in Jesus name. You shall not miss it in marriage in Jesus name.

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My boyfriend has never cheated on me. Any lady that tries to come close, he reports her to me. I love him so much – Nigerian Lady

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My boyfriend has never cheated on me. Any lady that tries to come close, he reports her to me. I love him so much. Even though I’m not working, this man you see here gives me money each time I ask and also provides for my every need. Unlike other men, he allows me to check his phone whenever I want, assuring me that I have absolutely no reason to worry or doubt him.

 

We’ve been through thick and thin together. I stood by him even when he had nothing, and now God is gradually blessing us. Today, we have a TV of our own, a good bed, a fridge, and other luxurious properties. Our lives have changed for the better.

 

God will bless us more, my love, and I also promise to always stand by you. It’s a blessing to have you, my king. Today, I’m so proud to show you off to the world. You are my boss, every woman’s dream, my leader, and God-sent husband-to-be. I’m so proud to be your woman.

 

 

Please, wish us well as we continue to build our lives together.❤️

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9 DANGEROUS S£X YOU MUST NEVER HAVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE

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Sex is lawful in marriage, it’s one of the rights of married couples in the family. But I need to let you know that, there are some forms of sex you must never have in your family. They are: 9 S£X YOU MUST NEVER HAVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE

1.BROWN S£X: Sex is called brown if you have it with anyone that is not your spouse. It’s known as adultery, affairs or infidelity . It easily destroys marriage, avoid it.

2.YELLOW SEX: This is the kind of sex that happens between a couple who always struggle to sleep together. They fight often fight about sex  and it has turn to a bone of contention in their marriage instead of being a tool of intimacy and love.

3.RED SEX: This a sexless marriage. Couples in it hardly make love because bitterness in marriage has taken over to the level of war.So, they hardly sleep together.

4. NECESSITY SEX: I met a couple recently, who have not been in talking term for Months but they still sleep together regularly because they need Children. They will just sleep together inside darkness, roll to the other side and sleep off but continue their fight the second day, this is a necessity Sex.

5. GRUDGE MATCH: This is the kind of sex where couple sleep together without love or affection, they do it without any affection or desire. They only have sex as a responsibility in marriage or to give peace a chance. This is very common among wives.

6.BABY SEX: This is when couples sleep together only when they need sex. They believe sex is not for love or pleasure ,it should only happen when baby is needed, this is very wrong. Sex should bring couple together and should be done regularly and joyfully.

7.FRIDGE SEX: This is also known as “No Action sex”. This involves husband and wife sleeping together but cold or when a “Fridge” action is displayed by the wife. That is, she is never involve; only lie down like a log of wood.It’s a bad example of sex in Marriage .

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8 WOMEN YOU MUST AVOID AS A STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN

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1) Avoid a broke woman who depends on you for money  and spend it  unnecessarily , She’s a financial vampire and parasite, she will ruin you and date another man

2) Avoid an arrogant woman who doesn’t takes instructions, corrections and direction from you. But love so much fake life , that always  pressure you to buy any latest expensive trending materials , as a STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN you can’t go far with such woman

3) Avoid an agree woman who’s always quarreling and fighting with you, who disrespect you and give you no peace.

4) Avoid a woman who’s surrounded by many men, who she calls her friends or bestie. Those men are your replacement waiting for your relationship to have problems and then they will move in and replace you.

5) Avoid a woman who doesn’t want to listen to your simple explanation but always want what she need from you and doesn’t care how you will go about risking your life to get it for her.

6) Avoid woman, that’s without handwork and she’s not ready to learn any, the economic is not favorable, you may not have money always as a husband or boyfriend , most  men you see out there, their wife is their backbone financially, having a good plan together with your wife is the secret of most men success.

7 ) Avoid high demanding woman, you can never get or achieve ur dreams with such woman, as a STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN.

8) Avoid woman who doesn’t appreciate your little efforts to make her okay,  such woman doesn’t think of the past sacrifices, if she sees any boy that is doing more better than you she will  leave you.

Men, always be guided…

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