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Our parents only respect the same yahoo boys you condemn more than us who do legit but don’t bring big money home – Fans tells Charles Awuzie
“Baba, our parents only respect the same yahoo boys you condemn more than us who do legit but don’t bring big money home. Baba, you don’t know what we are suffering. I go soon enter street at least make my parents respect me too.”
Me: (sobs). Dear young blood, my name is Charles Awuzie. I tell you my truth without packaging. I have been where you are. When I came to South Africa, I connected with some varsity mates who also relocated here. In 2 years, those friends picked big money from the streets – ego mbute. I mean millions of Rands. They bought the latest cars and came to Nigeria to flex their money. They painted Nigeria red, built houses for their family, f**ked people’s girlfriends/wives and came back to South Africa. Their names were mentioned in several highlife songs and they reigned for a while.
My people back home heard of some of them and started thinking I was ‘bewitched’. They called me and told me how “my mates” came home and painted the city red while nobody was seeing my “brake lights”. I laughed. I warned them to stop telling me such stories because I was busy studying. And as a student, I need focus and not competition. At that point, I was training on Linux-From-Scratch – LFS. My dream was to build my own Linux OS from scratch. So while they wanted me to come build mansions, I just wanted to build Systems. And upto this point, despite building systems which currently serve hundreds of thousands of users, I still have no passion to build any mansion in my village. It doesn’t matter the pressure anyone puts on me, I am a very FOCUSED PERSON.
Those guys who picked big money in those days are mostly broke today. The house they built in Nigeria are dilapidated. Some of them can’t afford rent in SA today while others are in jail or dead. But I’m still here, building one day at a time.
Listen, every human being has peer pressure. As long as you have Peers, you will experience peer pressure. Your parents are also under peer pressure hence they always compare you to “your Age mates” or siblings. Please don’t let their desperation become a distraction. Focus on your purpose. A person’s life does not consist only of how much money they have but how they live out their unique purpose on earth.
Focus on your purpose. The only reason why I make money is to fund PURPOSE – not to show off or please parents and society.
Dear young blood, I know you have pressures. We all do. But don’t allow external pressures to distort your convictions. Stick to your unique journey and build one day at a time.
My name is Charles Awuzie and I encourage parents to stop being a source of pressure to their children. Stop expecting your children to achieve in one year what you couldn’t achieve in your lifetime.
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I’m 6 months married our marriage is going good but our sex life is the most boring experience ever.
I have this pr0blem with my hubby.. The guy is just so boring in bed, he doesn’t m0an during s-x. No matter what, even when he’s enjoying it. Severally I’ve tried to talk to him about it. I’ve begged & pleaded with this man severally to at least, even try & make small sound to turn me on more.. because it’s really getting annoying.
Everytime, persin go just dey keep quiet like wood. Na only silent knacking. Me sef i kukuma stop to the m0an because I’m tired & i dey vex. Both of us go dey knack & just dey look ourselves, na just fukum fukum persin go dey hear…. My hubby is a good man, he loves me & treats me right but this is the only issue i have with him. This might sound little but to be honest it’s affecting our marriage. It’s just been 3 months of marriage but it’s getting boring already.
Plz i need help on how to handle this kind of man. Even when he’s cú’m”” m”” ng. I’ll steadily be looking at his face to see if he’ll even make a sound. but instead Human being go just dey silent like stick.. pls I’m getting tired of the whole marriage thing abeg, I’m not sure this is how I want to spend the rest of my l!fe… I honestly know I won’t be able to keep up like this. I’m afraid of what I’m nursing in my mind”
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I’m Age 43, currently and specifically in search of a virgin between 19 to 29 years to marry. Actually i haven’t been lucky with women – Derick Ajeie
Been married twice. I believe my ex- wives some how, tempered with their womb reason why they couldn’t take in for me. Thats why i honestly do not just want a wife, i actually need a real woman, someone that can make me a father. Reason why I’m being specific of marrying a virgin this time. Trying to avoid same old experience. Well, As for my profile, I’m a Primarily school teacher. Teaching for 15yrs now, I’m comfortable. i stay in my own house. I’m tall, dark & handsome ..
Pls, note; we must have a written agreement. Specifying, you’ll get pregnant before we can proceed with any wedding plans. However, if you insist that, we must get married first because you’re from a Christian home. ok, but, that will mean that; you must get pregnant for me & give me a son in a space of 1 year. In which, if you don’t, Then, your family will have to calculate & refund every dime, spend on you in the name of “Bride Price/Dowry”
Pls, You must be a virgin between the age of 18 to 29, As, I want a lady whose skin is still very fresh & attractive, I actually do not need old women of 30 & above. Dark or Light in complexion. I don’t mind as long as your well brought up”
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I’ve made up my mind to expoe this old cargo today, Her full name is Kenza Emeline Jein. She’s a married businesswoman who deals in ladies’ fashion
She’s so un-gråté-ful. I’ve had an affair for about 4 years gone with this w0-man. She claimed her husband wasn’t satisfying her in bed, I was always at her service whenever she needed me. In turn, she rented an apartment for me, opened up a shoe business for me, also gave me pocket allowances per month.
Our relationship had been moving well until she got pregnant with the second child & gave birth to a baby girl about 6 months ago. Afterwards, she automatically changed & suddenly stopped seeing me & picking my calls, even went to the extent of blocking me. I only get to reach her when I use a different line. Immediately she realizes it’s me, she’ll cut the call after telling me she’s no longer interested in the relationship, then block the new line too.
I was shocked by this new development. I’ve lost the girl I loved so much & who loved me so much too, all because of this woman. Now she thinks she can just use & dump me like that after giving her two beautiful kids, like I’m some kind of rag. See, I’m not a kid, Mrs. Jein. If you think you can play me like a child, then you should think twice.
Even my business is going down, my house rent has expired, my landlord isn’t giving me any breathing space. I’ve asked this woman for just 2.5million as compensation so i can move on & fix my l!fe that she destroyed but she has given a deaf ear.
Mrs Jein, I’ve given you 2 beautiful girls & I cannot be here suffering while I’ve been wasting my time & energy servicing & giving an old cargo fresh blood with absolutely nothing of benefit nor gain. You very well know our affair cost me my sweet relationship. All bcoz of you i lost the woman that truly loves me. However, I do not need the kids either; you can keep them. I’m 24yrs old still young with fresh blood; I can always make other babies.
I only insist that you compensate me with 2.5 million for my time & energy wasted on you. If not. You leave me with no choice than get back at you by uploading your n””-ü,”ds on social media & also come for my babies & you’ll lose everything, which I’m very sure you wouldn’t want that. This is a promise Mrs Jein. You can’t use me & dump me like a rag; I’m not a kid madam! I’m giving just a week to see that money in my account so i can fix my life i do not want any trouble”
