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When you find yourself helping a partner in an abusive relationship to achieve his or her agenda in dealing with you, you are not in love. It is a sign of Stockholm syndrome – Fada Angelo Chidi Unegbu





Here is a picture (the first picture) of the three of the four hostages and bank robber Clark Olofsson (standing right) in a bank in Stockholm, Sweden, on August 27, 1973, shortly before the gunmen were overwhelmed by police.

Dramatically, the victims developed real love for their captors.

It was this unusual experience that gave rise to what is called the Stockholm syndrome, which is a term used in psychology today “to describe the bond that victims of kidnappings or hostage situations sometimes develop with their captors.”

It is a psychological response, typically displayed in victims of kidnapping, hostage situations, and abuse.

“Experiencing an undoubtedly traumatic situation, the captive begins to identify closely with their captor(s), as well as with their agenda and demands.”

Most psychologists and medical professionals agree that Stockholm syndrome is “an emotional and behavioral coping mechanism developed by the victim to survive the trauma they’re going through.”

When you find yourself helping a partner in an abusive relationship to achieve his or her agenda in dealing with you, you are not in love. It is a sign of Stockholm syndrome.

When you find yourself defending or admiring a political or spiritual leader who is exploiting you, or when you see yourself helping him or her to have his or her way of exploiting you, you are not in love. It is a sign of Stockholm syndrome.

When you see yourself really loving anyone whose aim is to oppress or destroy you, your family, or your community, you are suffering from Stockholm syndrome.

In fact, when you find yourself loving or sympathizing with anyone whose aim is to oppress, exploit, or destroy you, you are not being tolerant. You are suffering from Stockholm syndrome.

Do not come here and begin to say that Jesus asked us to love our enemies. Loving your enemy is different from helping your enemy achieve his or her mischievous goal against you or someone else.

One suffering from Stockholm syndrome needs to visit a psychotherapist. Unfortunately, psychotherapists are scarce in Nigeria and other parts of Africa.

Stockholm syndrome remains one of the most difficult psychological disorders to treat because the patient sees his or her victim as his or her idol. He or she is even ready to sacrifice his or her life or entire wealth to his or her oppressor.

For Nigerian patients with Stockholm syndrome, may God deliver you.

Fada Angelo Chidi Unegbu

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One Mr. Fredrick destroyed goods worth of millions in a mini store owned by his wife.
According to report, Mr Fredrick established the Business on the wife’s name with the intention of the business serving as a financial support for the family.

But reverse is the case, he complains that ever since he established the business the wife has never supported the house with profit from the business, even when the kids needs money for book or pencil she direct them to him, even if he his away the children will go to school without books until he comes back.

Things got furious when he heard the wife single handedly fund the over sea trip of her younger brother.

Out of anger he (Mr. Fredrick) got to the shop and started pulling down every standing product on the shelves.

Question now is! Was his action RIGHT or WRONG ???

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Of a sudden, Pastor Dr. Paul Enenche is a fake man of God because of a single mistake according to some keyboard warriors who have been waiting for privilege – Sen Onono




Of a sudden, Pastor Dr. Paul Enenche is a fake man of God because of a single mistake according to some keyboard warriors who have been waiting for privilege.

Well, all I can say is; This man right here have his own blame likewise the woman. Why? If you watch the video and you are the type that judge base on people’s command of English, You wouldn’t need a pre-convincing argument that the said “Woman Lawyer” is telling lies. The man of God couldn’t agree less than to embarrass her which was totally wrong but quite understandable considering the fact he acted on emotions! The testimony teams aren’t left out as well because courtesy demand interviews should be given before anyone comes to the alter to give any testimony!
while we all await Pastor’s apology, let me pen this down.

Once you become a public figure, You become a television everyone focuses on why? Because many await the day you will flop so they can use it as a yardstick to pour out their mind!

Nigerians expect public figures to be hundred percent perfect not knowing they (public figures) are humans too.

I read some comments and I can’t help but shake my head.

Trust me, Few persons have the woman at heart because all I can say is, Most of the verbal outbursts on the man of God are uncalled for.

Why are Nigerians so quick to label others “Bad” and as well, Forget the days they were once a good person?

Why don’t we give people second chance?

Well, as said earlier on, Pastor should tender apology to the woman better still, He should do “MORE” for the sake of his reputation and those who are his true fans. If Pastor fail to apologize, some gullible fans would toil with his children’s mental health!

Pastor Sir, I won’t join others to crucify you because it’s okay to make mistake.
Sir, you are not God because he alone is perfect!

Your actions towards her is the reason why she’s trending on the internet today. (Still,not a good one for your brand and her mental health).

Please, Do the needful (Apology) and I would join your ‘True fans’ to celebrate you.



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Lungu, the Next Lying President Of Zambia in View: A Questionable Token of Appreciation




In a recent revelation that has sent shockwaves across Zambia, former President Edgar Lungu reportedly disclosed to his legal representatives from Makebi and Company that the hefty sum of 24 million dollars from KCM (Konkola Copper Mines) was merely a “token of appreciation.” This statement has ignited widespread skepticism and further eroded trust in Lungu’s leadership capabilities.

Lungu’s assertion raises numerous red flags, particularly in light of the ongoing investigations into corruption and mismanagement during his presidency. The timing of this disclosure, coupled with the staggering amount involved, casts doubt on the true nature of the transaction between Lungu and KCM.

The notion that 24 million dollars could be categorized as a mere token of appreciation is not only absurd but also insulting to the intelligence of the Zambian people. Such a significant sum of money cannot be dismissed as a gesture of gratitude without raising serious questions about the motives behind it.

Moreover, Lungu’s track record for honesty and transparency is far from impeccable. Throughout his tenure, he faced allegations of corruption, election rigging, and human rights abuses, tarnishing Zambia’s reputation on the international stage.

This latest revelation only adds fuel to the fire of distrust surrounding Lungu’s leadership. If indeed the 24 million dollars from KCM was a token of appreciation, what favors were granted in return? What other undisclosed dealings occurred during Lungu’s presidency?

As Zambia prepares for its next presidential election, the electorate must scrutinize candidates’ integrity and commitment to accountability. Lungu’s admission serves as a stark reminder of the dangers of entrusting power to individuals with questionable ethical standards.

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The future of Zambia hinges on its ability to elect leaders who prioritize the interests of the nation above personal gain. Lungu’s legacy as the next lying president in view serves as a cautionary tale, urging citizens to demand transparency, accountability, and integrity from those vying for public office.

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