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How I Nearly Lose My Lifetime Savings Chasing The Love of My Life – Uzodimma Victor Chikwendu
Uzodimma Victor Chikwendu unravels a tale of heartache, financial loss, and the pursuit of love. Through his transparent narration, Chikwendu takes us on an emotional rollercoaster, sharing the gripping details of his ill-fated
attempt to preserve both his heart and his financial stability.
The first time I laid eyes on her, I knew my life would never be the same. She had an aura that captivated me, an
infectious smile that warmed my heart, and eyes that sparkled like stars. We met at a mutual friend’s party, and from
that moment on, I was drawn to her like a moth to a flame. Our conversations flowed effortlessly, and it felt as if we had
known each other for a lifetime. Little did I know that this encounter would be the catalyst for a series of events that
would change the course of my life forever.
The beginning of our relationship
As our relationship blossomed, I felt like the luckiest man alive. We spent countless hours together, exploring the city,
trying new restaurants, and creating memories that I thought would last a lifetime. We were inseparable, and I couldn’t imagine my life without her. Every moment spent with her felt like a dream, and I was convinced that we were destined
to be together.
However, as time went on, I began to notice subtle signs of trouble. She became distant, canceling plans at the last
minute and offering vague excuses. Our once meaningful conversations turned into awkward silences, and the spark
that had once ignited our love seemed to fade away. I brushed these signs off as mere bumps in the road, convinced
that our love could withstand any challenge.
Determined to salvage what we had, I made the decision to chase her love at all costs.
I showered her with gifts,
planned extravagant surprises, and even went as far as taking out loans to finance our extravagant lifestyle. I believed
that if I could just prove my love to her, she would realize how much I was willing to sacrifice for our relationship. Little
did I know that my actions were driving me further into a financial abyss.
As the months went by, my bank account dwindled, and the mountain of debt I had accumulated grew higher. I found
myself juggling multiple jobs and working tirelessly to make ends meet. The once stable future I had envisioned for
myself was now overshadowed by the overwhelming burden of financial strain. I had sacrificed my own financial
security in the name of love, and it was slowly destroying me.
It wasn’t until I stumbled upon undeniable evidence of her infidelity that the truth hit me like a ton of bricks. My heart
shattered into a million pieces as I realized that the love I had been chasing was nothing more than an illusion. I had
been blind to the warning signs, too consumed by my own desires to see the truth. The realization of her betrayal was a
bitter pill to swallow, and I was left questioning everything I thought I knew.
DON’T GIVE YOUR HUSBAND BLUE BALLS
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1. Don’t seduce your husband and leave him hanging
2. Don’t be all sexy, working in the home, no bra, nipples showing, butt popping as you clean; then look at him funny when he touches you because your view turns him on
3. Don’t cuddle up with your husband, teasing him, playing with his chest and commando; then tell him no love making when he wants to go all the way
4. Don’t tell him “I am not in the mood tonight, I am tired, my head is paining. Tomorrow morning we will make love” then tomorrow morning you act like you forgot. Keep your promise
5. Don’t text him and flirt with him during the day, making him look forward to good times with you; then when he comes you act as if those sexy conversations never happened
6. Don’t walk out of the shower when your horny husband decides to join you naked for some steamy love making
7. Don’t wear a sexy lingerie to bed then expect every night to have conversations of bills, children and in-laws. He sees your sexy body, he struggles to concentrate
8. Don’t sleep next to him popping your butt and he can literally have a good view of you and he wants to do things to sexy you only for you to look at him as if he is bothering you
9. Don’t play around with his penis, get him hard then that is the time you are remembering to call your mom or to go hang the clothes
10. Don’t tell him “I am on my periods. When it is over, you can have me all you want” then after your periods you build The Great Wall of China between you and him
This is torture. Sexual intimacy is dear to your husband. You should be grateful you have a husband who desires you and who can’t keep his hands off you. Once that desire is gone, it is hard to get it back. A sexually rejected man might eventually give up making advances.
An unused erection is painfu especially when you have a wife whom you treat right but she just turns you down. Don’t give him blue balls, milk him good.
Please bless
When some Women turn 40 or 50 years, something major shifts in their personality.
They become bolder, more rebellious, more religious, more focused, more opinionated and more emphatic about what they want.
Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive Woman on turning 40/50 changes completely.
Most especially when she had given birth to Children.
At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to ask some questions :
– Is sex food?
– Query some of your instructions
– Even the way you behave.
She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind.
If care is not taken, you may have to do for yourself :
– Dry cleaning
– Preparing food to eat
Because it might take her more time before she responds to your request.
There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for Women.
If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.
The only way to avoid total breakdown of Peace and Harmony in the home is for Men to become fair, objective and reasonable in their approaches to issues at home and/or at work.
Men should bear in mind that at this age, Women also harbour lots of regrets about the decisions they have made in life so far … Their Husbands may be one of them!
A woman at this age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a Man using very different & weird parameters.
Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their Wives/Partners/Bosses/Subordinates.
What you put in is what you get!
If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about.
She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past.
On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.
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My ex-husband and I dated for 6 years. We where best of friends.I waited until he completed college and started work. My family and his family then met.We got married and had a son
A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER WROTE:
I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it’s good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.
I am 32 years of age.
My ex-husband and I dated for 6 years. We where best of friends.I waited until he completed college and started work. My family and his family then met.We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).
My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn’t control me.
Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.
If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me. I never wanted divorce. I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.
One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside. I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!
But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally. He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case. I felt that what I was doing was wrong.
My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.
I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled. After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone. After two days, I
received a call that he was in the hospital.
My family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.
All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.
I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me. I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.
