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I have been trying to japa since 2019 and has just been unlucky. My first move was Iceland, I got admission to study there and just when everything was about to be concluded, COVID-19 happened

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I thought the pandemic wouldn’t last for so long, I held my hope high but before I knew it, 1 year had gone, borders still closed and that was how Iceland pursuit ended with all the money spent.

I felt frustrated because my life was literally paused. I had administrative issues in my 3rd year in school and over 250 of us were laid off. Some had the courage to start afresh in a different university, some dropped out, some left to another department and started afresh.

I didn’t have the courage to start allover again, I lost every appetite to study in Nigeria because I feel the whole money and stress involved isn’t worth it. I wasn’t even studying my dream course because I don’t have 10-11years to spare.

That was my greatest motivation to study abroad. When that of Iceland failed, it got to me but I mustard courage to try again. I contacted a travel agent in 2021 and paid him to process a Canada Visa.

We started the whole process and while at it, I met my husband and we got married in 2022. My hopes were so high, I and my husband decided not to make babies yet because of my travel but I guess God had another plan for us.

I got pregnant and I was so depressed with thoughts of how I would cope alone with pregnancy and nursing a baby. I opened up to the agent and he told me not to worry, that it’s even a blessing because my child will become a citizen and getting a resident permit would be easier.

I felt better after speaking with him, I was so optimistic. We waited endlessly, the agent kept giving me new time expectations. I didn’t even purchase baby items until I entered 9 months because I felt there wouldn’t be a need to have too much luggages when I can easily get them abroad.

It was a long wait, I just occupied my mind with the excitement of being a mom on a short time. I gave my baby and the Visa was still not coming. The more I looked, the less I saw.

It finally dawned on me that the agent has been taking me on a ride with my money. Infact, we are still in the refund process. When my child passed 6months old, my husband suggested we try again.

This time, I told him to apply for a master’s program since he already has a HND certificate and he got admission in Canada. He applied for Visa and added me and our baby as dependents and on 27th November, our Visas were approved.

We’ve landed Canada and I still can’t contain my joy. It’s now I understand that God had another plan for me. I’m certain that if I had travelled in 2019, by today I wouldn’t even be interested in marriage because I would be all about making money.

I wouldn’t have met my prince charming of a husband. If I had travelled while pregnant, it would be so hard for me to cope because I now have first hand experience of motherhood and it’s definitely not a work in the park.

My colleagues in the university who didn’t have administrative issues graduated the same month I got my Visa with my family. I felt bad knowing I was supposed to graduate with them but then I was happier that I have a greater opportunity.

I’m here with my family and nothing beats that. It was worth the wait and actually the best for me. I would enrol to study my dream course whenever I want and that’s a huge flex for me.

At last, God’s plans is always the best even when we may not understand it. I’m certain this land would favour me and my family.”

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They said mother in-laws cannot live  peacefully with their daughter in-laws,well mine proved them wrong -Nigerian Woman Angel Sonia Nnoyerem Praise her Mother In-law, called Her Bestie Of Life

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In this life in whatever you are doing try to be good so that people will always talk about you and recommend you for good. The Nigerian woman has taken to her Facebook page to celebrate and praise her mother-in-law for being a mother-in-law to her. According to her post as shown below

“They said mother in-laws cannot live  peacefully with their daughter in-laws,well mine proved them wrong.

My MIL is one woman I know who doesn’t discriminate,she has loved us all equally over the years,she has shown me love just like my mother would.

She’s been my biggest supporter and inspiration,my retired but not tired colleague.

Sometimes when her son will not want to heed to some advice,I will just call her and tell her,trust me when I say she knows exactly what to do.

Our relationship is more like bestie relationship,hot gists and gossip here and there.

I know how safe my secrets are with you.

Mummy,thank you for always being there for me,thank you for giving me a shoulder to lean on,thank you for always walking with me in spirit. Thank you for being a loving,supportive and understanding woman.

On this day,I wish you nothing but good health as you age gracefully,you shall live to join me to shout Hallelujah when our joy is complete.

I love you Mummy.

Happy birthday MINE
Hap

Happy birthday Mummy Choice
Happy birthday Nana” she wrote.

This left next days with so many emotional reactions and wishing her a happy birthday for being a good mother-in-law

Facebook! Angel Sonia Nnoyerem
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This is my 1year in marriage, I just gave birth last week Wednesday. My mother in-law came yesterday for omugwo. I asked my husband that I thought my mother is the person who is suppose to come for omugwo. My husband said his mom refused.

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This is my 1year in marriage. I just gave birth last week Wednesday. My mother in-law came yesterday for omugwo. I asked my husband that I thought my mother is the person who is suppose to come for omugwo. My husband said his mom refused.

So when we were arguing about it. My mother in-law came into our room and state it outright to my face that my mom won’t come for any omugwo in this house. That her son won’t train me in University and my mum will still come and enjoy omugwo goodies. that where is my consience. Is the one her son did for me from my level 1 til NYSC isn’t enough. Still start up a business for me.

I appreciate the fact that my husband did all this for me which I didn’t take any for granted. I have never for one day disrespected mama or neither do we use to treat her bad. This is just my one year in marriage. How can I tell my mom she won’t be coming for omugwo of all my children. My husband loves his mother so much. He couldn’t even utter a word. Though he is not a talking type. Honestly this is shameful to me.

How will my parents feel. I’m the only girl and my mother has been waiting for this for long. My mother already entered market and bought things she will be coming for omugwo with.

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My daughter Monroe was born without eyes It’s her birthday please don’t ignore her kindly wish her well

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“My daughter Monroe was born without eyes It’s her birthday please don’t ignore her kindly wish her well

she’ll be going through an operation soon, pls do join us pray for my little angel for a successful surgery & celebrate her day with us ‘

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